So a few nights ago, we were laying in bed after another night of hot sex.. when we were fucking, (she always talks dirty) she admitted to cheating on me with her friend that she usually hung out with.. At first I thought she was just trying to blow my mind with dirty talk.. So I didn’t think nothing of it.. when we were done, she said, “baby, I want to clear something up”..I said ok, what’s up?.. she says, “I just wanted to let you know that I was fucking ***** for awhile and I figured you knew because you kept wanting me to be slutty around him a lot.”.. I couldn’t think of anything to say at the moment as many thoughts ran through my head.. the first thing I blurted out was, “what do you mean?”.. I knew exactly what she meant and I wanted to process this new information although I already felt it was a possibility..
She says, “***** and I had been fucking for almost 5 months and I felt you wanted me to fuck him since you wanted him to see my tits and pussy.. You told me to show him everything.” Which I did.. I was quite and thinking for a few minutes.. She then asks, “that’s what you wanted right?”.. I’m not gonna lie, I felt a sense of betrayal and jealousy which I hadn’t felt in awhile.. even though, now she’s has 2 fb’s, I knew what she was doing so mentally it was ok.. Then, as I thought about it, I started getting aroused with these feelings... I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it as I already felt it may come out one day so I starting preparing for it.
I asked her, “how many times? And why would you only tell me you were teasing them?” She says, “I wanted to see if you wanted me to go further when I would tell you how I got wet and they were hard for me and you never said not to fuck them so after teasing him so much, it just happened. And honestly, we fucked probably a hundred times. But I thought that’s what you wanted.” She was right, she told me in the beginning of the teasing/flirting how hard they got for her and how wet she would be. I guess a part of me was still hanging on to a sense of normalcy in being faithful. Time went by and I just kept thinking it was all her teasing and never asked if she cheated. It was a miscommunication at its finest.
All the encouragement I was giving her, I could see how it was possible she took it that way... At this point in our lives, I don’t want our lifestyle to be in jeopardy.. I love our sex life now.. So how can I have “morals” if I love guys fucking my wife just as long as I know about it?.. many questions and thoughts of resolve rushed in but I didn’t say them out loud.. I wanted to think about what I would say and what would be the right thing to say.
Again, there’s no denying that at this point, I’m hard as a rock! Sexual thoughts also running rampant.. Then she asked, “Are you upset with me? I didn’t mean to upset you. It’s just that you made me feel like I could fuck him. And I didn’t think o had to tell you about it since you always took me over to his house almost naked.”.. I never came out and told her to fuck him even though that’s what I wanted.. I was being selfish in pleasuring my fantasy and not telling her exactly what I wanted.
I started finding myself wanting to ask her about how it started and how did they fuck for so long without me knowing.. so I told her I’m not mad and that I needed a few days to process this so we can move on with our lives together.. She said ok.
So I find myself here wanting some opinions on how you all would approach this situation and if it’s even worth making a thing out of it.. should I just make it known that we need to communicate about things like this so there’s no misunderstandings? I’m not going to leave her.. she’s been my love for well over a decade and I’m happy with her.. I will however be asking for details so hopefully that’s a given lol!
Let me know what y’all think
She says, “***** and I had been fucking for almost 5 months and I felt you wanted me to fuck him since you wanted him to see my tits and pussy.. You told me to show him everything.” Which I did.. I was quite and thinking for a few minutes.. She then asks, “that’s what you wanted right?”.. I’m not gonna lie, I felt a sense of betrayal and jealousy which I hadn’t felt in awhile.. even though, now she’s has 2 fb’s, I knew what she was doing so mentally it was ok.. Then, as I thought about it, I started getting aroused with these feelings... I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it as I already felt it may come out one day so I starting preparing for it.
I asked her, “how many times? And why would you only tell me you were teasing them?” She says, “I wanted to see if you wanted me to go further when I would tell you how I got wet and they were hard for me and you never said not to fuck them so after teasing him so much, it just happened. And honestly, we fucked probably a hundred times. But I thought that’s what you wanted.” She was right, she told me in the beginning of the teasing/flirting how hard they got for her and how wet she would be. I guess a part of me was still hanging on to a sense of normalcy in being faithful. Time went by and I just kept thinking it was all her teasing and never asked if she cheated. It was a miscommunication at its finest.
All the encouragement I was giving her, I could see how it was possible she took it that way... At this point in our lives, I don’t want our lifestyle to be in jeopardy.. I love our sex life now.. So how can I have “morals” if I love guys fucking my wife just as long as I know about it?.. many questions and thoughts of resolve rushed in but I didn’t say them out loud.. I wanted to think about what I would say and what would be the right thing to say.
Again, there’s no denying that at this point, I’m hard as a rock! Sexual thoughts also running rampant.. Then she asked, “Are you upset with me? I didn’t mean to upset you. It’s just that you made me feel like I could fuck him. And I didn’t think o had to tell you about it since you always took me over to his house almost naked.”.. I never came out and told her to fuck him even though that’s what I wanted.. I was being selfish in pleasuring my fantasy and not telling her exactly what I wanted.
I started finding myself wanting to ask her about how it started and how did they fuck for so long without me knowing.. so I told her I’m not mad and that I needed a few days to process this so we can move on with our lives together.. She said ok.
So I find myself here wanting some opinions on how you all would approach this situation and if it’s even worth making a thing out of it.. should I just make it known that we need to communicate about things like this so there’s no misunderstandings? I’m not going to leave her.. she’s been my love for well over a decade and I’m happy with her.. I will however be asking for details so hopefully that’s a given lol!
Let me know what y’all think