She has lovers but never lets me be present

Wife has had a fair amount of affairs thru our 22yrs of marriage. She's only allowed me to be present on 3 separate occassions. After a 3 year hiatus due to CV19 really, we found a pick up bar and go every Friday. She has already fucked 3 different guys over the Summer months.

Though we sit together at the bar, she keeps introducing herself as single. Even though the guys say or admit they are married and a house full of kids! She makes me go to the restroom while she winks at a guy, he comes over and they exchnage numbers.

Even if Im not present for the sex (wish I was), it is important to me (as a cuck) that the guy knows I AM the husband and Im cool with him taking my wife for the evening.

To be sure, she has a few lovers overseas (where we are originally from) so its obviously impossible for me to be present whenever she travels and sees them. Also, I had traveled for work for many years so the only way for her to play, was really to play alone during my absence. Maybe she got used to it. Also, when younger, my urge and desperation to get her to fuck other guys, I would let her set the rules.

I fear that if I set hard rules, she may stop wanting to go out and feel pressured. We are both over 50 and its a matter of menopause hitting any day now. I already have to take Cialis to get a proper hard on...

Perhaps I should simply take charge at the bar and introduce us as a couple. But then how to send a clear message to the guy without weirding them out?
 
Wife has had a fair amount of affairs thru our 22yrs of marriage. She's only allowed me to be present on 3 separate occassions. After a 3 year hiatus due to CV19 really, we found a pick up bar and go every Friday. She has already fucked 3 different guys over the Summer months.

Though we sit together at the bar, she keeps introducing herself as single. Even though the guys say or admit they are married and a house full of kids! She makes me go to the restroom while she winks at a guy, he comes over and they exchnage numbers.

Even if Im not present for the sex (wish I was), it is important to me (as a cuck) that the guy knows I AM the husband and Im cool with him taking my wife for the evening.

To be sure, she has a few lovers overseas (where we are originally from) so its obviously impossible for me to be present whenever she travels and sees them. Also, I had traveled for work for many years so the only way for her to play, was really to play alone during my absence. Maybe she got used to it. Also, when younger, my urge and desperation to get her to fuck other guys, I would let her set the rules.

I fear that if I set hard rules, she may stop wanting to go out and feel pressured. We are both over 50 and its a matter of menopause hitting any day now. I already have to take Cialis to get a proper hard on...

Perhaps I should simply take charge at the bar and introduce us as a couple. But then how to send a clear message to the guy without weirding them out?
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