My thoughts as a dominant Alpha even if she is not enjoying extra cock at the moment and is taking a break from the lifestyle she should still have you in a cage 24/7 so that you are always desperate and ready to satisfy her however she needs whether it be oral pleasures or domestic duties like cooking and cleaning and you playing with yourself should only be for her entertainment and if she allows you to even have a ruined orgasm that is your reward for being her good submissive cuckold