Some thoughts on chastity

[droopy1]

I read a story once about a guy who wore a cage and his wife would take the key and throw it as far as she could out into their back yard in the tall grass and he had to go out and look for it. No findie no gettie outie. Sounds hot. Bet he spent a lot of time on his hands and knees. I heard at some point he bought a metal detector j u s t in c a s e.

This story has a further plot. It seems that in there back yard they had a wooden shed 12x18 ft. She made him stay in this shed every night,all night while she had her bull in the house. He wore a locking dog collar and was put on a 10 ft. chain that was attached to a steel u-bolt that was bolted down in the middle of the floor and the shed door was locked. Other than that the shed was empty except for a small mattress on the floor. As mentioned before he also had to wear a chastity cage.This cock cage was metal and very tight and was electrified so at the press of a button his wife/misstress could give his genitas a serious jolt. Some kind of alarm system was set up in case of emergancy. And a video cam was set so they could watch him for their amusement from the house.He was only given mush that she made by overcooking oatmeal and sometimes mixing in things like mayo or ketchup to make some gross slimy slop served in a dogs bowl. Sometimes she had her bull ejaculate in the concoction.He was given only a bucket for a toilet. So the deal was this: he had to live this way and she would let him out in the morning to look for the key to his cage that she threw out into the back field of tall grass. He had all day untill dark to look. If he failed then he got put back into the shed locked on his chain again. As a bonus she would give him two good jolts of electricity to his cock and balls. The next day was the same but he would get four jolts then six and so on. When he finally found the key he was unlocked and he was allowed back into the house and could recover and shower etc. This was how she punished him for serious misbehavoir.

 

[DougBrown69]

That's a good point. I'd love to see more passionate uses in modern and OF porn for sure.

I’m masculine, not a sissy, not into key holder or femdom and not against any men that like any/all of those elements of male chastity. And…there’s a whole other side of it for other men that aren’t. However - label generalize and stigmatize.

 

[sub2femdom]

I’m masculine, not a sissy, not into key holder or femdom and not against any men that like any/all of those elements of male chastity. And…there’s a whole other side of it for other men that aren’t. However - label generalize and stigmatize.

I see it like any other kink, for instance bdsm.. a lot of people like pain (spanking or nipple clamps for instance), whereas some don't like pain but like to be tied up or whatever.. I think it's important to categorize distinctions for the sake of filtering out others who don't share the same interests. I think many of the aspects of chastity are complicated enough to land in different categories .. I guess I like knowing the difference between a chastity cuckold vs. a chastity sissy vs. a chastity foreplay usage. I play in real life in the cuckold/chastity arena and expressing these differences in my online profile was key to finding the right people to play with.

 

[droopy1]

I see it like any other kink, for instance bdsm.. a lot of people like pain (spanking or nipple clamps for instance), whereas some don't like pain but like to be tied up or whatever.. I think it's important to categorize distinctions for the sake of filtering out others who don't share the same interests. I think many of the aspects of chastity are complicated enough to land in different categories .. I guess I like knowing the difference between a chastity cuckold vs. a chastity sissy vs. a chastity foreplay usage. I play in real life in the cuckold/chastity arena and expressing these differences in my online profile was key to finding the right people to play with.

So true. I see chastity as a tool to be used in the lifestyle. In some cases it's uaed to humiliate a cuckold in another instance it can symbolize that a sissy cucks penis is too small to satisify and should be locked up. Or simply that when a cuck in locked up for a long time the reclamation sex is so good. I knew a couple who's wife always complained that sex with her hubbie was boring. He would mount her,do the deed and be done. No second or third rounds. My wife told her to put him in chastity so he would build up some enthusiasm. He agreed and also that she would take a lover while she waited.My wife explained that Alpha men can fuck and recharge over and over in one session. Us Betas are only good for a quicky then we are done. So we need to be locked up so we can build ourselves up over a long period.Like a small brook that gets dammed up so as to build up some flood waters. This girl would keep her hubby locked up for long periods with no relief and to make matters worse would make him watch as she got fucked by her lover. When reclamation day came she let him out and told him he could have 24 hrs. with her after which it was back in the cage. Problem solved.

 

[mick44]

Paxil (antidepresant) is chastity without bars.

 

[droopy1]

Paxil (antidepresant) is chastity without bars.

I know what you mean. Been on it. It puts you in sexual limbo.

 

[small one]

Hello fellow cucks,
I just wanted to have a deeper discussion about chastity and what we get from it.

I'm more of a part-time cuck than a lifestyle cuck, but I do fantasize about it.. a lot. It actually terrifies me, but thrills me at the same time. When I think about why I like the things I like, it just all gets very complicated in how each act and each fetish brings an entirely different mix of emotions and excitements.

The first time I saw a chastity cage in porn was about 10 years ago, maybe a little less. I had begun to watch mild hotwife and cuckold porn, and then bam, the cum-eating cuckolds series comes to my attention and a lot of them in the early days had the cucks caged, usually in the cb6000. At first, I thought it was really weird and freakish. I wondered why any guy would willingly go along with it, allow her to humiliate him and then completely deny him of any pleasure or sloppy seconds even. It was alien to me.

But I've always had a submissive side and the sensually controlling dominant women sucked me in.. I do have an innate desire to serve women sexually and be submissive. I was watching a lot of porn back then, and hadn't yet dove into the lifestyle so as I watched more and more cuckold porn, some aspects of it began to work their way into my fantasies. BBC, Chastity, creampie cleanups, and much more worked their way into my fantasies and one day I realized that I wanted to try on a chastity cage, wondering what it felt like to start getting hard but have no room to grow, what it feels like to have an orgasm while in chastity.. or performing oral on her, or him..

Anyways, I tried it on, and kind of liked it, but the fit was poor and it pinched a lot, was difficult to put on, etc.. The cb6000 was my first cage and it was horrible lol. I saw a lot of people online complaining too, but there wasn't much else out there back then, so I just wore it very rarely and not for long, it was really painful after a short time because of the pinching and poor fit. Anyways, I ended up getting the Vice cage and what a much better fit. I wore it rarely and always got super hot and bothered and watched cuck porn while in it, then let myself out and masturbated, this has been my standard operating procedure for a while.

At the same time I got into better chastity, I also started going to bisexual and cuckold parties through a local swinger group and met a few people to experiment and play with both at the parties and on separate meetups. I did find a few women to dominate me, and one even cuckolded me in chastity. The other cuckolded me with a BBC and had me servicing them both. I only had a handful of these experiences before the pandemic hit and the world stopped.

I started wearing chastity more often, like once a week instead of once in a blue moon. After a few months, it turned into every other day, and now today, I'm locking myself daily. I now am starting to ask myself questions and trying to work out the answers.

For instance, when I'm wearing chastity it almost feels 'right', like my cock can't get hard unless I'm released. I could go out to a bar, pick up a girl, and no there's no way I can fuck her because the keys are at home. So now there's zero pressure, I don't have to cater to my other brain because it's in solitary confinement. The pressures of impressing women and trying to be charming and crap just melt away. I can be myself and more confident and there's something to be said for the idgaf attitude when you really mean it.

I also wonder if chastity isn't really just a form of edging. Because isn't that what the cage really accomplishes? It keeps you in a constant state of arousal, and believe me- you rarely forget it's there. Whether I wear the cage for an hour or a day, it could arguably be measured as I edged for an hour or a day, give or take.

I don't have a keyholder, I pretty much use chastity as more of a sex toy than a lifestyle, but at the same time, I'm finding that the rare night where I don't get an opportunity to wear it, I'm actually thinking about it and disappointed I can't put it on more often. I don't wear it in public except in very rare occasions. I do it in secret, my wife is unaware of my chastity fetish. She is aware of my cuckold and submissive fetishes and thinks it's weird, our sex life ended 7-8 years ago, which is why I played around in the past. She made it clear to me that she wasn't interested, and didn't want to know what (or who) I did outside of the marriage. Okay then.

So I haven't gone to any parties or anything since the pandemic ended, mostly because I don't get spare time like I used to, work, life, etc.. which is also why I don't get to cage myself as often as I would like.

Anyways, nothing great in this post I guess, but I would love to see some thoughtful responses on how you play in chastity and what you get from it personally, sexually, etc. Thanks for reading!

Same boat as you no sex started self caging about a year ago as soon as I get home from work I lock myself. But I do wear them out and about just today I ran into some friends and talked for a while never thought about my cage until I left.As far as in public I go commando all the time and no one has looked. My biggest one I wear once a week.

 

[droopy1]

Same boat as you no sex started self caging about a year ago as soon as I get home from work I lock myself. But I do wear them out and about just today I ran into some friends and talked for a while never thought about my cage until I left.As far as in public I go commando all the time and no one has looked. My biggest one I wear once a week.View attachment 1413312View attachment 1413312

Half the fun is wondering if they know. Can anyone tell Im wearing a cage? I wonder what they would think if they found out.

 

[AndyCee777]

Hello fellow cucks,
I just wanted to have a deeper discussion about chastity and what we get from it.

I'm more of a part-time cuck than a lifestyle cuck, but I do fantasize about it.. a lot. It actually terrifies me, but thrills me at the same time. When I think about why I like the things I like, it just all gets very complicated in how each act and each fetish brings an entirely different mix of emotions and excitements.

The first time I saw a chastity cage in porn was about 10 years ago, maybe a little less. I had begun to watch mild hotwife and cuckold porn, and then bam, the cum-eating cuckolds series comes to my attention and a lot of them in the early days had the cucks caged, usually in the cb6000. At first, I thought it was really weird and freakish. I wondered why any guy would willingly go along with it, allow her to humiliate him and then completely deny him of any pleasure or sloppy seconds even. It was alien to me.

But I've always had a submissive side and the sensually controlling dominant women sucked me in.. I do have an innate desire to serve women sexually and be submissive. I was watching a lot of porn back then, and hadn't yet dove into the lifestyle so as I watched more and more cuckold porn, some aspects of it began to work their way into my fantasies. BBC, Chastity, creampie cleanups, and much more worked their way into my fantasies and one day I realized that I wanted to try on a chastity cage, wondering what it felt like to start getting hard but have no room to grow, what it feels like to have an orgasm while in chastity.. or performing oral on her, or him..

Anyways, I tried it on, and kind of liked it, but the fit was poor and it pinched a lot, was difficult to put on, etc.. The cb6000 was my first cage and it was horrible lol. I saw a lot of people online complaining too, but there wasn't much else out there back then, so I just wore it very rarely and not for long, it was really painful after a short time because of the pinching and poor fit. Anyways, I ended up getting the Vice cage and what a much better fit. I wore it rarely and always got super hot and bothered and watched cuck porn while in it, then let myself out and masturbated, this has been my standard operating procedure for a while.

At the same time I got into better chastity, I also started going to bisexual and cuckold parties through a local swinger group and met a few people to experiment and play with both at the parties and on separate meetups. I did find a few women to dominate me, and one even cuckolded me in chastity. The other cuckolded me with a BBC and had me servicing them both. I only had a handful of these experiences before the pandemic hit and the world stopped.

I started wearing chastity more often, like once a week instead of once in a blue moon. After a few months, it turned into every other day, and now today, I'm locking myself daily. I now am starting to ask myself questions and trying to work out the answers.

For instance, when I'm wearing chastity it almost feels 'right', like my cock can't get hard unless I'm released. I could go out to a bar, pick up a girl, and no there's no way I can fuck her because the keys are at home. So now there's zero pressure, I don't have to cater to my other brain because it's in solitary confinement. The pressures of impressing women and trying to be charming and crap just melt away. I can be myself and more confident and there's something to be said for the idgaf attitude when you really mean it.

I also wonder if chastity isn't really just a form of edging. Because isn't that what the cage really accomplishes? It keeps you in a constant state of arousal, and believe me- you rarely forget it's there. Whether I wear the cage for an hour or a day, it could arguably be measured as I edged for an hour or a day, give or take.

I don't have a keyholder, I pretty much use chastity as more of a sex toy than a lifestyle, but at the same time, I'm finding that the rare night where I don't get an opportunity to wear it, I'm actually thinking about it and disappointed I can't put it on more often. I don't wear it in public except in very rare occasions. I do it in secret, my wife is unaware of my chastity fetish. She is aware of my cuckold and submissive fetishes and thinks it's weird, our sex life ended 7-8 years ago, which is why I played around in the past. She made it clear to me that she wasn't interested, and didn't want to know what (or who) I did outside of the marriage. Okay then.

So I haven't gone to any parties or anything since the pandemic ended, mostly because I don't get spare time like I used to, work, life, etc.. which is also why I don't get to cage myself as often as I would like.

Anyways, nothing great in this post I guess, but I would love to see some thoughtful responses on how you play in chastity and what you get from it personally, sexually, etc. Thanks for reading!

Try going to a strip club locked in your cage..leave the key at home or at the very least in the car..let what ever girl you talk to know.. I’m shure it won’t take very long to meet one who is intrigued by it… I’m shure it will make for a interesting and fun evening for you!!

 

[droopy1]

If you feel brave go to a clothing optional beach and see if you get any response. There are also fetish clubs and festivals if your adventureous. Good luck. I have a diaper fetish and used to go clubbing wearing one under my clothes. I always wondered if I picked up a girl what reaction I would get from her if she ever put her hands in my pants and felt plastic pants and a diaper. It never happened cuz I was way to shy to try and womanize. I didn't feel assertive or confident when wearing diapers. Women can sense that I think.

 

[paulhallirl]

I've started wearing my flat cage more and more. I love the fact that everytime I insitictively feel my crothc, there's no cock there - as a sissy this is ideal. Thinking how i'd suggest the idea of chastity to my wife - i dream of being locked permanently, and only cumming from being pegged/fucked

 

[droopy1]

I've started wearing my flat cage more and more. I love the fact that everytime I insitictively feel my crothc, there's no cock there - as a sissy this is ideal. Thinking how i'd suggest the idea of chastity to my wife - i dream of being locked permanently, and only cumming from being pegged/fuckedView attachment 1461591

Now to shrink those balls. I wear tight fitting rubber panties and tuck myself in so when I wear womens jeans I look just like a girl down there. I love it when other girls see me like this. If there are men around I like to stand next to them with their big packages so women can see the contrast.

 

[droopy1]

My wife has recently been putting me in a womans chastity belt instead of a mans cock cage. She says I've gotton so small from non use that I can now graduate to a female form of chastity. The lower strap on this runs back under my crotch and up my butt crack pulling me super tight in front and also holds in my butt plug. When she puts me in this I waddle walk like a baby just learning how to walk and everybody has a good laugh. Everyone knows when I'm wearing my chastity belt.

 

[paulhallirl]

Now to shrink those balls. I wear tight fitting rubber panties and tuck myself in so when I wear womens jeans I look just like a girl down there. I love it when other girls see me like this. If there are men around I like to stand next to them with their big packages so women can see the contrast.

I'd love to shrink them - or lose them completely. I always think its strange that on one hand chastity takes away masculinity but at the same time the balls become exaggerated. Although, if tucked correctly, they can create a nice camel toe effect

 

[droopy1]

I'd love to shrink them - or lose them completely. I always think its strange that on one hand chastity takes away masculinity but at the same time the balls become exaggerated. Although, if tucked correctly, they can create a nice camel toe effect View attachment 1462201

I'd love to shrink them - or lose them completely. I always think its strange that on one hand chastity takes away masculinity but at the same time the balls become exaggerated. Although, if tucked correctly, they can create a nice camel toe effect View attachment 1462201

Yes I've learned how to compress my testicles so they push up inside my Inguinal Canal where they were at birth before they descended. At first it was a bit uncomfortable but I'm used to it now. I think the extra heat from being way up inside has shrunken them. As a rule testicles are more active when they are cooler, thats why the hang in a sac in the first place.I hope it isn't dangerous. Then my tiny penis easily compresses inside and my wife makes me wear a tight fitting womans chastity belt to lock and hold it all in. When I first started doing this I pushed my junk all up inside and used duct (duck) tape to compress and hold everything but I couldn't ******** so the chastity belt works better.Now I can ******** but I have to sit like a girl but that's my goal anyway. I look totally without male genitals and just like a female when I wear tight jeans and with my balls riding way up inside me they don't get in the way or squeezed when I sit and cross one leg over the top of the other like women sit if u know what I mean. I love that.

 

[paulhallirl]

Yes I've learned how to compress my testicles so they push up inside my Inguinal Canal where they were at birth before they descended. At first it was a bit uncomfortable but I'm used to it now. I think the extra heat from being way up inside has shrunken them. As a rule testicles are more active when they are cooler, thats why the hang in a sac in the first place.I hope it isn't dangerous. Then my tiny penis easily compresses inside and my wife makes me wear a tight fitting womans chastity belt to lock and hold it all in. When I first started doing this I pushed my junk all up inside and used duct (duck) tape to compress and hold everything but I couldn't ******** so the chastity belt works better.Now I can ******** but I have to sit like a girl but that's my goal anyway. I look totally without male genitals and just like a female when I wear tight jeans and with my balls riding way up inside me they don't get in the way or squeezed when I sit and cross one leg over the top of the other like women sit if u know what I mean. I love that.

I know what you mean about tucking them up - mine involuntarily do that anyway when I go to put on the cage lol. I wonder how easy it is to get an elective orchiectomy? Woudl solve soo many problems...

 

[droopy1]

I know what you mean about tucking them up - mine involuntarily do that anyway when I go to put on the cage lol. I wonder how easy it is to get an elective orchiectomy? Woudl solve soo many problems... View attachment 1462302View attachment 1462304

Yes but it would create new problems. Having your testicles removed will eliminate your libido. So if you get a sexual kick from losing your balls then losing your balls takes away that kick. It's like making a deal with the devil. On the plus side you will take on more feminine characteristics like softer skin and silkier hair you will lose muscle mass and your facial hair might diminish. The catch 22 is that you wont appreciate these changes because you no longer are making testosterone which makes us guys so fuckin horny in the first place.You will also probably get hot flashes and symptoms similar to women going thru menopause. And ask any older woman what that was like.You could maybe get supplemental hormones that you would have to take the rest of your life.I don't know if they would remove all the discomfort and restore some libido or not. I only know all this cuz I was once considering a sex change and talked to doctors about it and knew guys who were in this process. Ultimately the decision is yours but my advice is to learn everything you can about it and consider carefully. It's irreversible.

 

[paulhallirl]

Yes but it would create new problems. Having your testicles removed will eliminate your libido. So if you get a sexual kick from losing your balls then losing your balls takes away that kick. It's like making a deal with the devil. On the plus side you will take on more feminine characteristics like softer skin and silkier hair you will lose muscle mass and your facial hair might diminish. The catch 22 is that you wont appreciate these changes because you no longer are making testosterone which makes us guys so fuckin horny in the first place.You will also probably get hot flashes and symptoms similar to women going thru menopause. And ask any older woman what that was like.You could maybe get supplemental hormones that you would have to take the rest of your life.I don't know if they would remove all the discomfort and restore some libido or not. I only know all this cuz I was once considering a sex change and talked to doctors about it and knew guys who were in this process. Ultimately the decision is yours but my advice is to learn everything you can about it and consider carefully. It's irreversible.

You're totally right of course - it's all just fantasy. Maybe some day.....

 

[droopy1]

You're totally right of course - it's all just fantasy. Maybe some day.....

Just be careful. PS I'm Irish. My grandfather was from County Cork. Small world.

 

[paulhallirl]

Just be careful. PS I'm Irish. My grandfather was from County Cork. Small world.

Small world indeed!