Stag or Cuck

Are you a Stag, a Cuckold, or neither (Poll is for the Male half)

  • Stag

    Votes: 251 51.3%
  • Cuckold

    Votes: 104 21.3%
  • Both

    Votes: 120 24.5%
  • Neither

    Votes: 31 6.3%

  • Total voters
    489
Both here. When we first started, definitely a stag, until one day a guy I was vetting asked for a meetup. He was only available the same night I had an office party at work, so I agreed for us to to stop by on our way home.
Bill sat in the easy chair and we on his couch. As we were chatting and getting more comfortable with him, I was playing with the top of her panties through a hole I noticed between the buttons on the back of her dress. Bill noticed, then without asking, stood up, walked over, taking her by the hand, stood her up and said I want to see. He put his hand up her dress and started unbuttoning it. Instead of trying to stop him, she spread her legs while he stripped her to her thigh highs.
At that point, her guided her up the stairs to his room. I was totally ignored.
Later after several good poundings by Bill, the last doggy. Beka came over and straddled me on her hands and knees and started kissing me, telling me it was my turn. Bill moved behind her and started using my wife as his toy and me as the mattress.
So, it can be complicated.
My whole life I've watched Alpha Males afforded liberties with women (including my wife) that I could never get away with. I have seen Alpha Males elicit a playful giggle from women for doing things that would have got me slapped and scolded.

That's why you can't fake being an Alpha Bull. Playing that role only works if it's truly your nature, and women pick up on it instinctively.
 
I lean more towards stag but in the heat of the moment whatever my wife told me to do, I do.

Absolutely not into all the humiliation that true cucks endure but id clean my wife's pussy if she told me to. Rather share her and fuck her together over sitting there watching her
 
I would say I’m a stag. I’m 100% straight but always got turned on wanting to see my wife doing all sorts with another man or better still men, fucking,sucking,touching I could go on you get the picture.
This is very true, a few days ago she (with my blessing) fucked a long time friend of ours who came to stay over. I let them stay in our bed and took the spare room and they fucked all night.
Tonight is his last night and he’s going nowhere until I’ve watched her with him, plus I want to join in
 
I was a stag during my second marriage, but a bull since I was about 29. None of the wives I got pregnant were married to me, and neither of my wives had my babies. The only one I raised was from a single mom I knocked up 26 years ago. He's a bull now too.
 

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I was a stag during my second marriage, but a bull since I was about 29. None of the wives I got pregnant were married to me, and neither of my wives had my babies. The only one I raised was from a single mom I knocked up 26 years ago. He's a bull now too.
He's a chip off the block.
 

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Well, it depends of the way of life and the definition of cuckolding.
In vanilla life I wasn’t a cuckold at all.
In our sex life you can hesitate about it.

Part of life 1:
Even before we got married, my wife enjoyed flirting. Or rather, she liked it when guys flirted with her. Ideally, I would be there to witness it.
In that sense, it was a bit like cuckolding, even if I disregarded the most commonly used definition.
I once had to watch my roommate play with her bare breasts while they both stared at me.

Part of life 2:
That was the period when we raised our children.
I'm not saying that we didn't have a HW lifestyle.
You can read about the most erotic happening (stag or was it cuckolding?) posted here:

Part of life 3:
The first big change happened long before she became a HW.
While we were having sex, she asked me if I had ever imagined fucking another woman.
I hadn't, she said she had.
However, she refused to tell me who they were. (She confessed that there had been more men.)
In terms of our sex life, it became a FLR. With WS and CBT.

The second big change came around 15 years later.
From the outset of our 'normal' life together, we were naturists.
One evening at a naturist resort, she asked me what I would like to see another man do with her.
'Having him cum in and around your mouth,' I replied.
Then she asked if I would accept everything from her. I would.
When she added 'without any exception', I hesitated for a few seconds.
"Repeat and promise me," she said.
I repeated her: 'I will do anything you ask, without any exception’.

A few weeks later, we decided to visit a sex club. (See signature.)
She spent almost the whole evening playing with other men, strangers. I didn't exist for her.
The same happened during the following visits.

I have a hunch that both are true, but as you can see in the attached picture, this isn't the case.
What do you think?


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I voted both - more stag than cuck though

I enjoy sharing her, i enjoy pangs of jealousy before the sex where she is showing the bull more attention than me.

I enjoy the anticipation before we inevitably more to the bedroom be it hotel or our or his bedroom.

I enjoy seeing her make him hard with her body and mouth,

I enjoy the mild embarrassment if she compares our cocks side by side and he's bigger and teases me

I love seeing that initial penetration and both their reactions and gasps of pleasure.

I love it if he is bigger - thicker than me - knowing I can't compete - seeing it stretch her lips out.

I love seeing his cock pulse as he cums inside her and drip out as he withdraws.

I love the taboo of having a strong confident male sperm inside her vagina - his DNA.

I love the game she plays immediately after - will she take me cage off and let me reclaim her? (which I prefer) or will she make me lick her and make her cum and leave me caged?
 

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I enjoy other men fucking my wife and cumming inside of her. I'll eat their cum out of her pussy, suck their cocks, and even let them fuck me. However, I set all the rules. I'm there at all times for her protection. They're only allowed to do to her what I say. I'm in control at all times.