So who has a wife that have a steady boyfriend. My wife is not into cuck jumping but likes a steady guy. She has been seeing the same guy for almost three years, will be three years this October. She sees him about 3 to 4 times a week. Now there are hurdles you have to cross when the hotwife has a long term boyfriend. Like feelings, she is very much in love with this guy and the same with him to her. But her and I are rock solid in our relationship and she has made it VERY clear to him she never would leave or separate from me and he has never pressed her to do so.