Do you belong to one? Do you go often? Did it change things for you as a couple? Were your experiences positive or negative?
Swinger clubs, is it a big thing?
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I use a swinger site, and there are social groups for just about every kink, and many of them have weekend 'events' which are basically themed parties, like my groups are cuckold and hotwife based, so cuckold parties happen regularly 🙂 I don't get time to go to them often, but I've had great fun at the ones I've attended.
I would guess no, I haven't told her. We have a dead bedroom and it's become more of a 'don't ask don't tell' situation.
Edit: Figured I better clarify that statement before the white knights try to brand me as a bad human...
My wife and I have an open relationship, but she's no longer really interested in sex so she checked out, doesn't care for sex at all, so she doesn't date or go out with anyone except me on holidays lol. We've had sex maybe 3 times since 2015 when she first checked out sexually. She knows I still play, but she imposed a "don't ask don't tell" policy, so we simply don't talk about sex anymore, by her choice.
Edit: Figured I better clarify that statement before the white knights try to brand me as a bad human...
My wife and I have an open relationship, but she's no longer really interested in sex so she checked out, doesn't care for sex at all, so she doesn't date or go out with anyone except me on holidays lol. We've had sex maybe 3 times since 2015 when she first checked out sexually. She knows I still play, but she imposed a "don't ask don't tell" policy, so we simply don't talk about sex anymore, by her choice.
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I understand. You can’t wait forever for something to happen. Especially if they act like they don’t need it or want it.
Back to the 70s! (Plato's anyone?) Are these places opening up again? All of them got shut down during the AIDS crisis in the 80s and went underground. Usually it's somebody's home and it's a club thing. We've done a few of these parties in the past but nothing in a long time.
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Belong?
The entrance is free for everyone. Yes you have to pay. We chose for the nudist theme evening.
Single men are allowed to come in. Generally speaking there are 3 men per couple. The number of visitors
Do you go often?
We did once per 4 weeks.
Did it change things for you as a couple?
My wife was almost never alone and I became the watcher, her cucky.
It changed our life completely. From the very first evening. Better, already 15 minutes after our arrival.
Try to imagine: in the early morning 6 men unloaded their cum on her body.
My wife didn't want to take a shower.
At home I wanted to celebrate this first evening with a good bottle of wine.
But she "commanded" me to clean her body from the dried cum with my mouth. The taste was still there.
Were your experiences positive or negative?
Very very positive. In general my wife attracted nice and smart guys. Why? I don't know.
These guys knew very well that if they have respect for women, their chance to cuddle, fuck or getting a BJ is very big.
My wife enjoyed being there. She loved playing around with me as guard on a distance. And I was proud of my wife......
The number of visitors varies between 150 and 200 people. But closer to 200 than 150.
On the first evening, the management told me that there were about 40 couples out of a total of 200 people.
A simple calculation shows that there were (on average) three men per couple.
On average! But when couples seek each other out, this average rises quite quickly.
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