it is baby steps...i was after maggie for years...lol. always refused...often cried...often argued about what was wrong with me...lol i didnt bring it up every time we used to have sex...but occasionally...especially when she was nearing her orgasm. when we werent having sex...i would often try to show her websites catering to cuckolds...bbc...etc. not always receptive but if nothing else maybe got her curious. if i could find any wife sharing videos...i would sneak one of those into our movie selections...especially if she had been drinking or had a glass or two of wine. it did take time...it did take persistence but eventually...i think she become curious...although she would never admit to that initialy, but she finally said once...just once we could try something like that. i knew after one time...especially with my small dicklet...and finally having a real mans cock inside her...she would desire and crave more...and she did. that was several years ago and our marital life has changed in so many ways...all for the better