The language of lust

Before wife lost libido with menopause we were in the lifestyle for about 20 years.
Normally, conversation during sex was cute endearing words, and references to body boobs, pussy dick. But once she was playing with others it was slut, whore, cum dump, tits, cunt and any other nasty words and names. I loved her being a slut being used by men raging cocks and bi-sluts.
Anyone, experience similar transformations.