The right age to start

[Thick N Plenty]

A couple of people who I sent the video to in private convo said it has no sound on there end but it does have sound on my end. Anyone know why this is or if there is a way to fix it?

Put the video on here so we can see it, I’d luv to see her mouth skills.

 

[Germancuckold32]

I think there's not a "best age", it depends on the couple, their maturity, their communication.

We started very early and I wouldn't do it again so extremely early, tbh, and wait a few more years. But that's just for us and someone else might be perfectly fine at any age.

 

[gloryholewife]

Ok. Here is some advice. Give her a little time. She just did something she was uncomfortable with AND it turned into something she was really uncomfortable with. When a girl says she doesn't want to talk about it and she just went along with it because she didn't know what to do, that is a red flag. It means she probably would have stopped if she felt safe to do so.
So to answer you question, an older more experienced person may help. Boundaries and expectations definitely will help. Letting her know she can stop at any time and you will not only be OK with it but support her decision will go even farther. Feel free to message me if you want to talk privately. I have experience helping girls feel comfortable and opening up sexually. I am a DOM by nature and love to train new subs. A lot of the same things will apply here. She needs to feel safe, feel like she isn't doing something wrong, and she needs to understand exactly what she wants from this as well as how she will get it by doing this. Most Importantly, she need to know she can progress at her own pace and you need to know how to coach her and meet all the afore mentioned needs.

Very good advice. Slow down she doesn’t have to progress with every meeting, let her become comfortable & enjoy the joy of sex.

 

[charisma1986]

i dont think there is any age to start. the younger you can start without damaging your own relationship, the better; youll have more years enjoying sharing her, and i believe she will attract more men when she is young and beautiful so you will have more luck finding partners for her the earlier you start.

 

[Bull4Oldrwives]

After talking with the original poster here I wanted to share what happened to my wife over the weekend. Just to show that this crap still happens. My wife went Friday to visit her usual bull. And I do mean usual - they have been hooking up for over 20 years and I've known the guy since high school. So nothing out of the ordinary. When she got to his house it was apparent he had been drinking hard. My wife started to kiss him and just see if he was ok when his buddy comes around the corner. Anyway - they proceed to talk her into having a drink and maybe the friend would leave. Well the friend claims he just wanted to watch and Amy is usually ok with that.

Well the booze made it so her usual bull couldn't get completely hard and when he did he went limp inside her again. She persisted a little but not much happened. Apparently the friend must have been told all the things my wife will do. She has an unwritten rule that if you let her ride and cum a couple times you can use her any way you want. Well the friend wanted to tag in and after some persuasion convinced Amy that with a condom he would get to fuck her. Well once it got going he rolled her over and grabbed her hair and just used her. Half way in he slid the condom off (she didn't know at the time) and crammed it in her ass. Before she could get out from under him he finished in like two thrusts. He pulled on his cloths and made a fast exit. And were was the trusted bull that I've known for year...passed out on the couch.

So today we got the fun of STD testing and letting her bull know he is benched for a long while. My wife was humiliated and very sore. This shit still happens even with the best of plans. Retrospect Amy should have just walked away when the presence of a second person happened.

It is incredible to me that a Bull she had been with for so long would take her for granted. He should be eliminated from her life permanently

 

[StateCouple]

It is incredible to me that a Bull she had been with for so long would take her for granted. He should be eliminated from her life permanently

He was. It turns out he was also seeing a lady and we really try not to do cheating.

 

[Austintex69]

We took the next step and she went through with blowing my buddy. We agreed that I would step outside to make everyone comfortable and my friend would film it for me. I told them I would step outside for 10 minutes figuring it would take 5 minutes for them to get ready and comfortable and 5 minutes of oral. When I came back in they had just finished. I was asking questions about it but no one seemed to want to talk details. My buddy said she did a good job but because they were short on time he had to rush it to get his nut out and said if he had more time it would have been better. So I suggested we all watch the video back together but my buddy didn't want to and said he preferred if I watched it when I left.

When we left I was talking to my gf in the car and she was pretty quiet about it and she said she was nervous about me watching the video. She said he had forced his dick down her throat and made her swallow his cum which is something she had never done before and didn't want to do. I guess we should have set boundaries but didn't think we would have to for a blowjob. When I watched it back I told her how hot she was and what a great job she did but she was right that he was to rough. I told her he was probably being forceful so he can bust his nut in the short time frame he had which is what he said. Overall she said she was to nervous to say anything and was just following his lead as he requested. I can definitely see where she is coming from after watching the video though. Definitely hot but overwhelming for sure especially given how inexperienced she is and he knew that and that she was vulnerable in the situation.

It was a lesson all around. Happy to share video in private and discuss for those interested. Next step is either another blowjob to get her comfortable with it or possible sex.

Where are you and your girl located. I'd appreciate you sending the video for my viewing

 

[Elene]

abbiamo iniziato a fare lo stile di vita della coppia cornuta quando elena aveva 22 anni e io 26, eravamo fidanzati ed è stato fantastico vederla scopare con la nostra istruttrice di palestra, che ha scopato elena durante il nostro matrimonio.

 

[Rango1109]

Would love to see the video. Please send if you still are sharing.

 

[Rider400]

I have been reading these boards and it seems most couples in this lifestyle are an older age. I just turned 21 and my gf just turned 19, She is a very cute redhead, fit, great body, tattoos, awesome personality, everything I could want. We had discussed exploring this lifestyle several months back and started off with some small stuff like letting a couple of guys feel her up. Then at a party she was being felt up by a guy she went to high school with and she started feeling him up. I gave her the green light to give him a handjob but I wanted to watch so the 3 of us go upstairs into a bedroom. He lays on the bed feeling her up while she jerks him off and I watch. He keeps asking her to suck it but she tells him no, Eventually he is standing and she is on her knees stroking and he keeps trying to rub it on her face and lips and get her to suck it but she resists. He starts stroking himself for a little and out of nowhere grabs my gf's head and busts his nut all over her face pulls up his pants and runs out the room. My gf had never had a facial before and wouldn't have let him do that if she knew he was going to. She still has never let me cum on her face or in her mouth.

Since then we haven't done anything but we have talked about it. I think the next step is having her blow someone. I would like to have her suck my friends dick since I know she thinks he's attractive and he would definitely go for it. I would like to either be there or just let them be alone and have him record it for me. But are we too young for this type of lifestyle? Is this something for more experienced married couples rather than younger couples who aren't married? Why are so few couples our age not in the lifestyle?

My wife and I started when she was 20 and I was 24. Nothing to do with age. It's when and how you agree with your partner.

 

[trickster0802]

Currently new to this as well… I was wondering if anyone would take me seriously. My wife and I just got married a year ago, we were going to get married in 2020 but Covid delayed everything so we got married in 21’ but we’ve been dating since high school. We both can tell that we need to spice things up. My love of interracial porn has kind of made things worse too, I fantasize about her taking BBC all the time and I’m not saying I’m just some average “joeshmoe” but she’s so hot I think she deserves the best of the best. Anywho, she’s barely 22 and I’m 23 but when is it kind of acceptable to start this and how do I go about bringing this up to her? She’s definitely flirty (while we dated, she had this one “friend” who she would hug a lot and touch a lot. Not inappropriately but still) but I don’t think she ever thought about anything like this.

 

[Sally&Bob]

I don't believe there is any true starting age. I was 17 and my husband was 18 the first time he shared me

I was 17 also.