Basically, when my wife and I realized she wanted and needed more sex than she was experiencing with me it was in the 1990s and the porn industry was not yet using the idea of wives cuckolding their husbands as the hot concept of the day. We just found that when she had sex with other men, we both liked it. A lot. As with others who have commented in this topic, others in our lives observed my wife engaging in what we called "slutty" behavior and drew conclusions from that. In conversation, we let some carefully chosen friends, a few coworkers, and her sister know we were enjoying mfm fun from time to time, there's just no secrets, and it wasn't difficult for me to tell someone that "my wife just needs more." Some were incredulous, some were envious, and a couple admitted to doing the same things we were. There was no "shame," - all this cuckold bbc talk was still way off in the future. And once people know what a couple is doing there's not much to be done with the knowledge. That said, the marketers of porn and sex toys have exploited men's fantasies and fears skillfully and profitably. We all know that, but as the old saying goes: "you can't ...... the willing." 🤣🤣🤣
Play it cool, use "brain #1" when discussing with others, and you'll be ok. If hubby needs to be humiliated there's numerous ways to do that but at some point the humiliation begins to reflect on the wife.
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