The Shame of Being Outed

[Stevens4fun]

For years we kept everything quiet, but eventually people saw things that needed an explanation. We slowly let out some of the details of our hotwife/cuckold lifestyle, but tried to reveal as little as possible. At some point, too many people knew to deny what we were up to any more. So, you hubby is fully outed as a cuck and everybody knows I am a slut and shared hotwife. We were worried at first, but now we get off on people knowing. 😎

Basically, when my wife and I realized she wanted and needed more sex than she was experiencing with me it was in the 1990s and the porn industry was not yet using the idea of wives cuckolding their husbands as the hot concept of the day. We just found that when she had sex with other men, we both liked it. A lot. As with others who have commented in this topic, others in our lives observed my wife engaging in what we called "slutty" behavior and drew conclusions from that. In conversation, we let some carefully chosen friends, a few coworkers, and her sister know we were enjoying mfm fun from time to time, there's just no secrets, and it wasn't difficult for me to tell someone that "my wife just needs more." Some were incredulous, some were envious, and a couple admitted to doing the same things we were. There was no "shame," - all this cuckold bbc talk was still way off in the future. And once people know what a couple is doing there's not much to be done with the knowledge. That said, the marketers of porn and sex toys have exploited men's fantasies and fears skillfully and profitably. We all know that, but as the old saying goes: "you can't ...... the willing." 🤣🤣🤣

Play it cool, use "brain #1" when discussing with others, and you'll be ok. If hubby needs to be humiliated there's numerous ways to do that but at some point the humiliation begins to reflect on the wife.

 

[naturalcucky]

We're not public, but I really want to be, because then more people would want to fuck my wife!

 

[oklacuck1972]

We didn't plan to be outed, but that changed several years ago. Our youngest ...... was 14 at the time and supposed to be going to after-school cheerleading practice for 2 hrs. Well practice got unexpectedly cancelled and she walked home and walked in on my wife and her Bull at the time on our living room couch. Needless to say we had to have some humiliating (for me) conversations with our ....... She is cool with it now (she is 19) and she and my wife actually share alot of their experiences.

 

[Stevens4fun]

Our (wife and I) found we could be public, but not too public. No need to "advertise."

 

[jusme]

My exwife already had a name for sex long before we started. She was my sisters best mate so she knew all about the ins and outs of her (Quite literally). So when Jen caught my eye and I asked my sis about her. She of course tried to warn me off her by telling me all about her antics at the parties they went to such as the exhibitionism, group sex and even trains on her. She was still quite young, so instead of putting me off, it made me more interested in her. Because of our age difference we started dating in secret. I would go to night clubs and she would arrive later and I would watch from a distance as she was chatted up then fondled and groped. Then at the end of the night we would go back to my place and fuck each other to exhaustion. Then one night while I was ...... a dared one of my 3 mates Steve to chat her up, which he did successfully. He took her to the park around the back of the club and fucked her over the fountain. By now I had given her a key to my flat and we would meet back there after our nights out. My heart was racing knowing my friend was fucking her. I made my excuses and went home, mainly to have a wank. She came in around 5am 3hrs after the club had shut. She was all dishevelled, hair a mess, no underwear and cum running down her legs. It turned out my other mates had gone looking for Steve and when they found him with trousers around his ankles they started taking the mick out of him. Jen was naked except her high heels and she said "can you 2 do any better?" So they tried. like I said she came in late and told me everything. I thought my cock was going to burst. I fucked her long and harder that night than I ever did before. "So you like me doing that?" I told her it is my main fantasy that my partner fucks my friends in secret without them knowing I know. Not long after that we started going steady and everyone got to know about us and my friends were still visiting her while I was working away, she even fucked my long time best mate who was best man, in between our main meal and night reception on our wedding day But that another story.
So all my mates knew about our lifestyle, well HER lifestyle and kept me in the dark (or so they thought).

 

[LilSissyCuck]

How many of you are outed? Public about your role as a cuckold to your wife with your friends and family. Do any of your wives friends know? And by virtue of that their husbands?

I know when my wife told her friend about it it bothered me. Being ashamed in front of my wife as a shared kink is one thing, but facing her friend and feeling that shame was another level. And now the fear that she will or has told her other friends and that one of the husbands will find out has just made me so anxious all summer at barbecues and get togethers.... I don't think her friend has told anyone yet, but since my wife told her she calls me "Little Johnny" now. And even tho people don't even think about it, she, I and my wife know she is referring to my package... it is embarrassing and a crazy turn on and feels so intense.

So question is how many of you are public? How does it make you feel? Share any humiliating public moments you care to.

Humiliating, embarrassing but it makes me so hard when her friends look at me. I imagine that they’re staring at my 3”

 

[hotratz]

I was married twice before my current wife. 1st cucked me royally. I was just out of my teens, and she was a couple years older than me. It was the early 70s, so the tail end of the 'free love' era. 2nd marriage, we swung a bit, but she was a ......, and easy when she was .......
3rd marriage, wife from Asia, very straight, very modest, and very sure she isn't going to have sex with others. About 8 years in, we ended up in bed with a couple. Great fun for all involved. From there, we started on mfm fun, which was good for me, as I enjoy watching my wife fucking and sucking, having cock breath, and cleaning up.
She was a bit of a flirt, enjoyed the attention from other men - great, I enjoyed seeing her 'bloom'. Still, for her, seemed this was 'our' fun, and something we didn't share with friends/family.
She has a childhood friend who lives on the other side of the country. This friend is hot, had large natural tits, and is always cheating on her husband, and seemingly making it so he finds out, and all kinds of problems ensue. She'll call my wife and cry on her shoulder, asking for advice. My wife got tired of hearing these stories, and being asked for solutions, so seems she told her friend some about our life (which did include some mfmf swapping at that point), and suggested she try that with her husband. Her friend didn't believe that I was ok with her fucking others, so my wife told her that sometimes I'd drive her to men's house for them to fuck, while I'd just watch, take pictures and videos.
To prove her point, my wife then produced video of her fucking a friend, while I videoed. Just so happened we met with him at a beer garden one evening, and my wife face-timed with her female friend kissing on her BF while I was sitting there.
So, she outed me to her friend, and surely her friend told her husband. I really didn't mind as I'd actually like for my wife to fuck many more men.
She also let on later that she'd confided to her sister-in-law about our 'fun'. No idea if she shared information with her husband, my wife's younger brother. Geez....
Neither woman has even said anything to me about being a cuck. I kinda wish the big titted friend would say something - I'd just have to let her know that my wife also directs me to clean the other man's cum out of her pussy afterwards.... (well, that would be a lie, but...)
(photo is of friend mentioned above. this is after they had been fucking, and were taking a break. I found, after diving in, he'd filled her with cum)