The Shame of Being Outed

[HubbyJohn]

How many of you are outed? Public about your role as a cuckold to your wife with your friends and family. Do any of your wives friends know? And by virtue of that their husbands?

I know when my wife told her friend about it it bothered me. Being ashamed in front of my wife as a shared kink is one thing, but facing her friend and feeling that shame was another level. And now the fear that she will or has told her other friends and that one of the husbands will find out has just made me so anxious all summer at barbecues and get togethers.... I don't think her friend has told anyone yet, but since my wife told her she calls me "Little Johnny" now. And even tho people don't even think about it, she, I and my wife know she is referring to my package... it is embarrassing and a crazy turn on and feels so intense.

So question is how many of you are public? How does it make you feel? Share any humiliating public moments you care to.

 

[slappin8silly57]

How many of you are outed? Public about your role as a cuckold to your wife with your friends and family. Do any of your wives friends know? And by virtue of that their husbands?

I know when my wife told her friend about it it bothered me. Being ashamed in front of my wife as a shared kink is one thing, but facing her friend and feeling that shame was another level. And now the fear that she will or has told her other friends and that one of the husbands will find out has just made me so anxious all summer at barbecues and get togethers.... I don't think her friend has told anyone yet, but since my wife told her she calls me "Little Johnny" now. And even tho people don't even think about it, she, I and my wife know she is referring to my package... it is embarrassing and a crazy turn on and feels so intense.

So question is how many of you are public? How does it make you feel? Share any humiliating public moments you care to.

I love the thought of my wife’s close friends knowing that I am tiny and useless sex wise.

 

[stubbyhubby]

We are pretty public about it. Once we moved back to our hometown and she decided she wasn't willing to sneak around or only fuck once or twice a week with the same guy to try and keep it hidden, it was only a matter of time. Our actual hometown is only 2100 people and since then we have lived in even smaller towns of 800-1100. After she fucks a handful of guys the word gets around pretty quick that my wife is fucking other men. That always leads to someone coming to "warn" me that my wife is cheating which results in me admitting I know and approve, so she isn't actually cheating. The truth is out after that.

 

[Vincenzo]

How many of you are outed? Public about your role as a cuckold to your wife with your friends and family. Do any of your wives friends know? And by virtue of that their husbands?

I know when my wife told her friend about it it bothered me. Being ashamed in front of my wife as a shared kink is one thing, but facing her friend and feeling that shame was another level. And now the fear that she will or has told her other friends and that one of the husbands will find out has just made me so anxious all summer at barbecues and get togethers.... I don't think her friend has told anyone yet, but since my wife told her she calls me "Little Johnny" now. And even tho people don't even think about it, she, I and my wife know she is referring to my package... it is embarrassing and a crazy turn on and feels so intense.

So question is how many of you are public? How does it make you feel? Share any humiliating public moments you care to.

My BF is 1 of our regulars, he is my only friend that knows. ALL of her friends know. Women talk and are way worse then men,lol. She has told them that we enjoy sharing her with another man, especially one with a big dick of course they asked why, am I tiny, can I not get it up, do I play with the other guy, all kinds of questions. So of course she showed them pics of my dick (both soft and hard) while im avg at 5¾" hard, i'm a grower and quite small when soft. So them being the friends they are have given her/us names/numbers of 3 guys the knee of that were available and we'll endowed for us to call to hook up with. Of course they always ask me about so hiw was so-n-so or take a jab here or there. Or if she has them over for drinks and they get tipsy they'll and say let's see the gower, so I show em, and say it doesn't grow by itself. .lol

 

[jim28]

My ex made sure her family knew most of what went on here. Her sister and her adult granddaughter knew everything. and spread the word. Her sister's hubby asked to have my wife dominate him and sis brought him over one night. The two dominated him in front of me, all three ending up naked n the bed, one sitting on his face, the other on his cock. I was totally ignored and untouched all night.

She also came close to making me show her ...... the bra and diaper she made me wear but didn't want to embarrass her ......! She did make me sit on the floor and told her ...... that I was a sissy and did not deserve to sit on a chair.

 

[regn]

My wife was carrying on a two year affair with a younger student while in school. I visited her just once there, and we went to a student party. While a bunch of us were talking, my wife said there was someone she wanted me to meet, and brought over the guy who was cuckolding me! She stood there with her arm around him and announced she thought we should go home with other partners after the party. She had taunted me about this guy having her, but I was very naive and very good at denial: I couldn't admit it to myself. Her suggestion hung there in the air for what seemed like an agonizingly long time. Then she treated it like it was a joke. Now some of the other students at the party must have known that this younger guy was banging my wife, and she wanted to expose me as a cuckold to everyone there. Caught between humiliation and denial, a tricky spot. Attached photos of her taken about this time (by someone else!).

 

[jw_kk]

Initially, we kept things as discreet as was possible. I confided early on to my good male friend that Krista routinely cheated on me, and as things changed over time to the hotwife/cuckold motif, and now to poly. KK has a female friend, a confidant, as well as lover that she shared her, and our play and adventures with.

At a point, Krista informed our youngest ...... about our lifestyle - I was unaware of it at the time. Relatively recently, we got outed, exposed to my ......-in-law (and ......) in the event.

The thing I was more upset about was the unknown sharing in the ....../...... context, without Krista ever telling me that our ...... now knew many sordid details.

 

[nicebiguy]

We are pretty public about it. Once we moved back to our hometown and she decided she wasn't willing to sneak around or only fuck once or twice a week with the same guy to try and keep it hidden, it was only a matter of time. Our actual hometown is only 2100 people and since then we have lived in even smaller towns of 800-1100. After she fucks a handful of guys the word gets around pretty quick that my wife is fucking other men. That always leads to someone coming to "warn" me that my wife is cheating which results in me admitting I know and approve, so she isn't actually cheating. The truth is out after that.

I was outed by my sister to my extended family at a party for being bi. It surprised the hell out of me when a few of the couples started coming onto me. It seems there's a lot of kinky people out there.

 

[Iio fun]

At work im a well known cuckold and my wife is well known to be easy to get but we have limits. Friends her friends all know and i have few who knows. Family well thats the difficult part we try to keep it a secret from them but one day they will know.
At work i enjoy to see her grobbed touched and kissed some do that aggressivly thinking they insult me. The one incident i cant forget is when one of her male friends discovered that she is ok to have sex with me knowing so he just raised her skirt in the middle of our house and tried to fuck her. Now i had to stop him and my wife was not ok with it at all. We had to ask him to leave and he couldnt undrestand why he was rejected. Some bulls just dont get the idea of cuckolding.

 

[nicebiguy]

My ex made sure her family knew most of what went on here. Her sister and her adult granddaughter knew everything. and spread the word. Her sister's hubby asked to have my wife dominate him and sis brought him over one night. The two dominated him in front of me, all three ending up naked n the bed, one sitting on his face, the other on his cock. I was totally ignored and untouched all night.

She also came close to making me show her ...... the bra and diaper she made me wear but didn't want to embarrass her ......! She did make me sit on the floor and told her ...... that I was a sissy and did not deserve to sit on a chair.

Hot.
😍

 

[stubbyhubby]

I was outed by my sister to my extended family at a party for being bi. It surprised the hell out of me when a few of the couples started coming onto me. It seems there's a lot of kinky people out there.

Agreed. Almost 100% of the guys who come to warn me she is cheating are happy to find out that I am all for it.

 

[cuckycuckold]

How many of you are outed? Public about your role as a cuckold to your wife with your friends and family. Do any of your wives friends know? And by virtue of that their husbands?

I know when my wife told her friend about it it bothered me. Being ashamed in front of my wife as a shared kink is one thing, but facing her friend and feeling that shame was another level. And now the fear that she will or has told her other friends and that one of the husbands will find out has just made me so anxious all summer at barbecues and get togethers.... I don't think her friend has told anyone yet, but since my wife told her she calls me "Little Johnny" now. And even tho people don't even think about it, she, I and my wife know she is referring to my package... it is embarrassing and a crazy turn on and feels so intense.

So question is how many of you are public? How does it make you feel? Share any humiliating public moments you care to.

It shouldn't really matter, it is who you are.

 

[nicebiguy]

Agreed. Almost 100% of the guys who come to warn me she is cheating are happy to find out that I am all for it.

Too bad so many of us have been brainwashed when we were younger into thinking anything other tan missionary is evil and perverted.

 

[drakebelg]

My wife and I have been talking about this for 2 years. Monday she is heading away for her first sexdate for 2 days solo.

She had told her bestie a year ago about my pe and thinking about cuckolding. Yesterday she told her everything, severe pe, chastity, humiliation, sizequeen, submissive dom role. I absolutely love it.

I've no problem of her close girlfriends knowing. The rest doesn't bother me. The only thing i don't want are our teenagers finding out. So then realistically 1 or 2 close girlfriends is enough.

 

[nicebiguy]

My wife and I have been talking about this for 2 years. Monday she is heading away for her first sexdate for 2 days solo.

She had told her bestie a year ago about my pe and thinking about cuckolding. Yesterday she told her everything, severe pe, chastity, humiliation, sizequeen, submissive dom role. I absolutely love it.

I've no problem of her close girlfriends knowing. The rest doesn't bother me. The only thing i don't want are our teenagers finding out. So then realistically 1 or 2 close girlfriends is enough.

Good point about the kids. 👍

 

[hubwithwantonwife]

My wife was carrying on a two year affair with a younger student while in school. I visited her just once there, and we went to a student party. While a bunch of us were talking, my wife said there was someone she wanted me to meet, and brought over the guy who was cuckolding me! She stood there with her arm around him and announced she thought we should go home with other partners after the party. She had taunted me about this guy having her, but I was very naive and very good at denial: I couldn't admit it to myself. Her suggestion hung there in the air for what seemed like an agonizingly long time. Then she treated it like it was a joke. Now some of the other students at the party must have known that this younger guy was banging my wife, and she wanted to expose me as a cuckold to everyone there. Caught between humiliation and denial, a tricky spot. Attached photos of her taken about this time (by someone else!).

It was indeed a trick spot! What happened next? And how old was the student?

 

[nariah1957]

Our sharing started after a card night with SiL, her hubby and a friend when the in-laws had to leave early. Wife and friend continued with an affair for some time after. The same SiL caught my wife out when our friend visited. The SiL let herself in to find my wife and friend drinking coffee naked. Wife explained the situation and made SiL promise to keep the secret, for a while it was cool.

Eventually curiosity got the better of SiL and bought the subject up with me. What started as confirmation that I knew what was going on turned into a very long and detailed confession of how it started. From how and why we played strip poker to how and why we all ended up in bed together. She wanted to know if we used condoms (no), what we did as foreplay, who went 1st, did he cum inside her and how I felt about another man fucking my wife.

It was awkward talking to my SiL while hiding a raging erection under the table. The conversation seemed to turn her on as well because I noticed her nipples protruding through her shirt. At the end she promised to keep our secret providing I kept her updated on her sisters infidelity.

We have had many talks over the years but we have never had sex. SiL has seen me naked but I have never seen her naked. 1st time was when she mentioned our friend was fairly well endowed. I replied that I knew that and that he was bigger than me. She then asked me to prove it. Another time she wanted me to prove my wife's infidelity actually turned me on by talking with her naked so she could see my reaction when telling her about our latest 3sum.

To this day she swears she has never told a soul.

As for anyone else, well maybe, we've been doing this off and on for quite a few years but if they do know I haven't found out.

 

[regn]

It was indeed a trick spot! What happened next? And how old was the student?

After she let me agonize for a bit, one of the other students (quite attractive, actually) said she would take me home with her. My wife then treated it as if it were a joke all along. The student cuckolding me was about 21-22, so not quite 10 years younger than me. It's not the only time I got cuckolded by a younger guy, and not even the largest age difference!