If I ran into a woman or couple that I know - and knew they were into hotwifing - I'd be fine with it. I'd be really anxious to ask a bunch of questions though! Not to embarrass her or them, but to learn more about the pros & cons from someone I know. I'd be GENUINELY interested! And I'd go out of my way to put them at ease & let them know I was comfortable with what they were into. If she - or they - were friends …… why would I want to ruin that friendship???The very first fellow hotwife friend of my wife’s that I met in person was her hairstylist. I had heard from my wife about the conversations they would have while she was down at her shop getting her hair and nails done. So when my wife said we were meeting her and her husband for dinner one night I was beyond excited. I really had no idea what another hotwife would look like.
As soon as we walked into the restaurant and went to the bar area I saw a woman who looked like an old high school friend of mine. I’ll be damn if that wasn’t who we walked right up to and when my wife’s friend saw her she got a big smile on her face, jumped down off the bar stool and went to give my wife a big hug until see saw me. Stopped dead in her tracks and asked if I was my wife’s husband. I said yes and nice to see you again after all these years.
So yes you never know who you might see or who might see you. Either way as long as everyone acts like a respectable adult then you should be good to go. If not, just deal with it as best you can.
To be honest , I wish all that was going on a lot.Nobody really knows how many apparently innocent wives and mothers lead double lives. They live in nice homes, care for their families well, post lots of "warm, fuzzy" family photos on social media, go to their kids' ball games, plays etc. Yet so many have another man (or a woman) for sexual pleasure. I occasionally hear slips of the tongue that tip me off, so I know that some of my students' moms have more going on that meets the eye.
Not that I want to "throw stones"! I have my own dirty side, so I can't complain about whatever anyone does.But don't you sometimes wonder about your friends, your neighbors, even your relatives, if someone besides hubby is enjoying them?
Oh for sure, never want to ruin a fellow hotwife or swinger friendship. I have found that when we are with other hotwife couples the atmosphere is super laid back. Everyone has a great time and sex doesn’t happen every time either but it doesn’t matter. I’ve talked one on one with several hotwife husbands and we all agree that when we are together it’s cool if no one fucks for the simple reason that if the wives wanted to have fucked, they would have so we just kick back at let the day or night unfold. It’s 100% their decision.If I ran into a woman or couple that I know - and knew they were into hotwifing - I'd be fine with it. I'd be really anxious to ask a bunch of questions though! Not to embarrass her or them, but to learn more about the pros & cons from someone I know. I'd be GENUINELY interested! And I'd go out of my way to put them at ease & let them know I was comfortable with what they were into. If she - or they - were friends …… why would I want to ruin that friendship???
Wish I had a couples to exchange notes with. It’s almost as if our lifestyle does not exist. Just the guys and our daughters know.Oh for sure, never want to ruin a fellow hotwife or swinger friendship. I have found that when we are with other hotwife couples the atmosphere is super laid back. Everyone has a great time and sex doesn’t happen every time either but it doesn’t matter. I’ve talked one on one with several hotwife husbands and we all agree that when we are together it’s cool if no one fucks for the simple reason that if the wives wanted to have fucked, they would have so we just kick back at let the day or night unfold. It’s 100% their decision.
Something that really turns me on is if we are together with one or two other couples (rare to have a single male there but it has happened) and of course nothing was planned but to have the wife disappear for a little bit and then when she re-appears she just smiles at me and in her case she most likely just gave one of the guys a blow job. And then someone else says “hey, who wants cheese on their hamburgers?“
Exchange with me if you likeWish I had a couples to exchange notes with. It’s almost as if our lifestyle does not exist. Just the guys and our daughters know.
That would be nice. But I meant I wish we had another couple that we were friends with. Someone we can visit and just talk about our lifestyle.Exchange with me if you like
You can’t find anyone to share talking about the lifestyle with? Damn, that’s tough. If I could help I would.That would be nice. But I meant I wish we had another couple that we were friends with. Someone we can visit and just talk about our lifestyle.
Thanks. We are very private. My wife is a school principal so she has to keep a low profile. We‘ve had a total of 12 bulls thus far. Basically just those 12 and our 2 daughters have any idea of what we do.You can’t find anyone to share talking about the lifestyle with? Damn, that’s tough. If I could help I would.
Please repost that pic of you in the bikini on the beach.NO ONE in a million years would believe I"m a hotwife……………..
I would love to be sharing my fantasies with you babe xxxxNobody really knows how many apparently innocent wives and mothers lead double lives. They live in nice homes, care for their families well, post lots of "warm, fuzzy" family photos on social media, go to their kids' ball games, plays etc. Yet so many have another man (or a woman) for sexual pleasure. I occasionally hear slips of the tongue that tip me off, so I know that some of my students' moms have more going on that meets the eye.
Not that I want to "throw stones"! I have my own dirty side, so I can't complain about whatever anyone does.But don't you sometimes wonder about your friends, your neighbors, even your relatives, if someone besides hubby is enjoying them?
Women often put there sex life on hold for a sorts of reasons, I'm a bi-sexual women and often pick-up and take home b-curious women/wife after meeting them at coffee shops, bars, hair dressers, shopping centers and lots of other places. Women are every bit as horny as guys are, just much more discreteNobody really knows how many apparently innocent wives and mothers lead double lives. They live in nice homes, care for their families well, post lots of "warm, fuzzy" family photos on social media, go to their kids' ball games, plays etc. Yet so many have another man (or a woman) for sexual pleasure. I occasionally hear slips of the tongue that tip me off, so I know that some of my students' moms have more going on that meets the eye.
Not that I want to "throw stones"! I have my own dirty side, so I can't complain about whatever anyone does.But don't you sometimes wonder about your friends, your neighbors, even your relatives, if someone besides hubby is enjoying them?
Rohit has your wife done this tooWomen often put there sex life on hold for a sorts of reasons, I'm a bi-sexual women and often pick-up and take home b-curious women/wife after meeting them at coffee shops, bars, hair dressers, shopping centers and lots of other places. Women are every bit as horny as guys are, just much more discrete
would you like to see another women seduce her, what if a guy didNo. but I like the thought of it.
My wife is not a hotwife - and don't know if she ever will be - but even if we aren't swinging ……………. I would never want to ruin a friendship by acting crappy toward another couple or individual husband or wife!! If someone confided in me that they were playing "on the side" in some way - their secret is safe with me. Why would I "out" someone?? What would be gained?? Nothing.Oh for sure, never want to ruin a fellow hotwife or swinger friendship.
Sometimes the conversations are enough by themselves to get you in the mood. I love talking with other husbands And their wives too.My wife is not a hotwife - and don't know if she ever will be - but even if we aren't swinging ……………. I would never want to ruin a friendship by acting crappy toward another couple or individual husband or wife!! If someone confided in me that they were playing "on the side" in some way - their secret is safe with me. Why would I "out" someone?? What would be gained?? Nothing.
I would probably ask questions just out of curiosity to learn what the person or couple is experiencing - good and bad. Sex being a huge topic between people - I'd surely be curious!! But NEVER disrespectful or judgmental. I'd love a great, wide open conversation with them while having a BBQ and drinks!!