My wife and I use dildos all the time. We will literally mimic having a threesome and when she's super into it I'll D.P. her. I call her a freak and she says that she just follows my lead. We've done this now for about 5 years and I'm ready to talk to her about having a real threesome. She has said in the past that she would never do that, but that was just in a conversation. Her actions when we use toys tells me otherwise. So am I seeing things that aren't there or am I heading in the right direction?. Thanks