Time for baby #2

[keylife022]

It worked out well for us because we knew my best friend fathered the first baby and he wasn't around for the second. Between #2 and #3 we actually moved to a different state, so it was an entirely new batch of baby batter in the DNA pot.

If we had not moved we probably would have simply had different guys around. It was 4 years between #2 and #3, so there would have definitely been new guys involved then too.

The two couples I helped wanted the same father for both children. The 1st and 3rd were for a lesbian couple I went to college with.
2 and 4 were friends I had known for many years. He had cancer and couldn’t impregnate his wife. I jokingly stated I would. A couple weeks later they asked if I was serious. Although we ran in the same circles, none of our friends knew I was the father until many years after the second was born.

 

[Stevens4fun]

Seems to me that HER desires would take presidence in this case..........having a baby with someone ai a HUGE decision. I also want to get pregnant by someone other than my husband, and although we have all kinds of CRAZY fantasies about how I get pregnant, the only REAL possibility is being in a longer term relationship withsomeone I have grown close to emotionally as well as sexuallyand WE make the decision on a pregnancy together. I cannot see a situation where I got pregnant by someone ONLY because hubby thought he was the best choice........just my 2 cents. J (the wife)

The first time my wife and I discussed her conceiving with her current BF, she was clear: he wasn't the guy. She had feelings for him, but understood that (in her words): "He's great in bed but I know he has other women." So we knew she was thinking about pregnancy, but wanted some exclusivity as well. That comment was huge in terms of opening up our discussions about our future.

 

[Stevens4fun]

The first time my wife and I discussed her conceiving with her current BF, she was clear: he wasn't the guy. She had feelings for him, but understood that (in her words): "He's great in bed but I know he has other women." So we knew she was thinking about pregnancy, but wanted some exclusivity as well. That comment was huge in terms of opening up our discussions about our future.

Same as before. She has it all going.

 

[keylife022]

Agreed. Usually older guys are just interested in the sex, not any kind of romantic long term connection. Many will make love to my wife but are not looking for a commitment.

I disagree.
Nothing I would like more than a longtime relationship with a married woman who wants to get pregnant. The sex may be good, but the conception and everything after will be the real treasure.

 

[Takemoment]

I disagree.
Nothing I would like more than a longtime relationship with a married woman who wants to get pregnant. The sex may be good, but the conception and everything after will be the real treasure.

But how would you truly feel about the baby after it is born? Would you want involvement with the baby or just understand that you were the sperm donor

 

[keylife022]

But how would you truly feel about the baby after it is born? Would you want involvement with the baby or just understand that you were the sperm donor

Ideally involvement all life long. Given the option the ...... would know that I am the father. Husband would take on the stepfather role.
At NO time should any ...... think they were just for fun, a mistake, or any other negative scenario.
The Mrs should be giving herself to a man. Not a play toy.
I promise the moment she and I merge our bodies, I would expect her to commit to me getting her pregnant as much as I will making it happen.
Ideally, husband would no longer be allowed to have her so we will assure that I am the father.

 

[Takemoment]

Ideally involvement all life long. Given the option the ...... would know that I am the father. Husband would take on the stepfather role.
At NO time should any ...... think they were just for fun, a mistake, or any other negative scenario.
The Mrs should be giving herself to a man. Not a play toy.
I promise the moment she and I merge our bodies, I would expect her to commit to me getting her pregnant as much as I will making it happen.
Ideally, husband would no longer be allowed to have her so we will assure that I am the father.

As a long time cuckold, the thought of such humiliation, the world knowing another man had sex with my wife and knocked her up, is sexually exciting and would validate my unexpected need to be seen and treated as a cuckold. But another part of me would be mortified for anyone to know. I do agree that making a baby should be more than just sex, more than a cock fucking a cunt and squirting fertile seed inside. In our case, that was one of the reasons we did not want to go the invitro route, as it so clinical. Maybe if my wife was not fucking other men throughout our marriage, our thoughts on the subject would be different.

I can understand your desire to be part of the baby's life, after all it would be yours biologically. But what would the long term relationship, if any, be with the ...... of your baby?

 

[Diver_35]

My wife and I have discussed it and we both agree it is time for baby #2. (if you have read my posts you know I am infertile and one of my wife's lovers is the bio dad of our first baby) With that agreed to, we are discussing who will impregnant her. I would prefer that the bio dad of our ......, but my wife has not fucked him in a long while and we know he got back with his wife. My wife would like to ask the young guy who has been fucking her and loved breast feeding from her. I am not sure that is a good idea and we have not approached either "sperm donor". The bio dad may be out of the playing field since we know he went through a lot to reconcile with his wife. As for the young guy, he already seems too committed to my wife, something more then just fuck buddies, and not sure how the whole baby thing would work with him and where his mind set would be.

I guess we will have to have those discussions with both guys. There is a third guy my wife has been fucking on and off for the past year, but neither of us have thought of him impregnating my wife.

I guess we will see.

Just my two cents both children should be full sibs

 

[keylife022]

As a long time cuckold, the thought of such humiliation, the world knowing another man had sex with my wife and knocked her up, is sexually exciting and would validate my unexpected need to be seen and treated as a cuckold. But another part of me would be mortified for anyone to know. I do agree that making a baby should be more than just sex, more than a cock fucking a cunt and squirting fertile seed inside. In our case, that was one of the reasons we did not want to go the invitro route, as it so clinical. Maybe if my wife was not fucking other men throughout our marriage, our thoughts on the subject would be different.

I can understand your desire to be part of the baby's life, after all it would be yours biologically. But what would the long term relationship, if any, be with the ...... of your baby?

The relationship will develop as it should. After all I am getting another man’s wife to have my ....... I would expect to be acknowledged as such.

 

[Takemoment]

The relationship will develop as it should. After all I am getting another man’s wife to have my ....... I would expect to be acknowledged as such.

So you would expect to be called Dad? As for my wife, once she delivers what role would you play with her?

 

[keylife022]

So you would expect to be called Dad? As for my wife, once she delivers what role would you play with her?

I would expect my ...... to know that I am dad. And I would expect you to be okay with that. lol
Your wife and I will continue to lovers even after she becomes pregnant and delivers. In fact, once she is cleared for sexual activity I WILL be the first to cum inside her again. I really am looking for a longterm relationship with a married woman that develops into ...... birth.
Does that concern you?
Does it concern herself?

 

[Takemoment]

I would expect my ...... to know that I am dad. And I would expect you to be okay with that. lol
Your wife and I will continue to lovers even after she becomes pregnant and delivers. In fact, once she is cleared for sexual activity I WILL be the first to cum inside her again. I really am looking for a longterm relationship with a married woman that develops into ...... birth.
Does that concern you?
Does it concern herself?

Honestly, I have mixed feelings about that. It is one thing to be a cuckold, fortunately unknown to the outside world except for the guys she fucks. So yes as a husband and a guy, it does concern me. My wife has said she wants children, that she wants them to be part of our family. But we never really discussed any other possibility.

 

[keylife022]

Honestly, I have mixed feelings about that. It is one thing to be a cuckold, fortunately unknown to the outside world except for the guys she fucks. So yes as a husband and a guy, it does concern me. My wife has said she wants children, that she wants them to be part of our family. But we never really discussed any other possibility.

Your concerns are noted and can be discussed. As a cuck, there are certain expectations of you. Doesn’t mean you can’t be a father figure/stepfather….
But if I am going to be IN this ......’s life, they should know I am responsible for getting mom pregnant. It’s definitely a balancing act that we would ALL need to have a say in. I am NOT set on one scenario as situations change or develop differently than we might plan.
You knowing you have been cucked to the point of your Mrs intentionally getting pregnant is a huge turn on.
That said, any life created by me I would want to know is being taken care of properly. The fantasy is one thing. The reality is another.
And THAT said, I do look forward to making sure you know and hear your Hotwife and I enjoying each other. I’m very vocal. Especially when I know husband can hear. Telling your wife to take my cock and cum like the breeding slut she wants to be is a definite.
Ideally she will respond with pleas for me to not stop until she’s knocked up. You hearing those words from her is just as much a turn-on.

 

[Takemoment]

Your concerns are noted and can be discussed. As a cuck, there are certain expectations of you. Doesn’t mean you can’t be a father figure/stepfather….
But if I am going to be IN this ......’s life, they should know I am responsible for getting mom pregnant. It’s definitely a balancing act that we would ALL need to have a say in. I am NOT set on one scenario as situations change or develop differently than we might plan.
You knowing you have been cucked to the point of your Mrs intentionally getting pregnant is a huge turn on.
That said, any life created by me I would want to know is being taken care of properly. The fantasy is one thing. The reality is another.
And THAT said, I do look forward to making sure you know and hear your Hotwife and I enjoying each other. I’m very vocal. Especially when I know husband can hear. Telling your wife to take my cock and cum like the breeding slut she wants to be is a definite.
Ideally she will respond with pleas for me to not stop until she’s knocked up. You hearing those words from her is just as much a turn-on.

You have provided a lot to think about in general as we move towards baby #2.
As for the turn-on of not only hearing but witnessing the passionate fucking, you are absolutely correct. As my wife was being fucked I tried to focus on the reason we were doing this, the outcome we both wanted, but all I could think about was my wife being fucked, that she wanted him in her, she wanted his fertile seed. I was so hard, though I know my sexual needs as a cuckold should not be the focus, But I was also sad that I could not do what he was about to do, but I had come to terms with it but this still difficult. Watching my wife being pleasured by another man has always been a double edged sword, completely turned on sexually but also fighting what male ego I had. But this time was different, I knew my wife was fertile and that when he finally came in her, his fertile seed would impregnate her. Any fantasy became a reality. Of course nothing was confirmed until my wife took a pregnancy test many days later. With our ......, there is no involvement with the bio dad. He did not want any, he wanted to knock her up and that was it.

 

[keylife022]

You have provided a lot to think about in general as we move towards baby #2.
As for the turn-on of not only hearing but witnessing the passionate fucking, you are absolutely correct. As my wife was being fucked I tried to focus on the reason we were doing this, the outcome we both wanted, but all I could think about was my wife being fucked, that she wanted him in her, she wanted his fertile seed. I was so hard, though I know my sexual needs as a cuckold should not be the focus, But I was also sad that I could not do what he was about to do, but I had come to terms with it but this still difficult. Watching my wife being pleasured by another man has always been a double edged sword, completely turned on sexually but also fighting what male ego I had. But this time was different, I knew my wife was fertile and that when he finally came in her, his fertile seed would impregnate her. Any fantasy became a reality. Of course nothing was confirmed until my wife took a pregnancy test many days later. With our ......, there is no involvement with the bio dad. He did not want any, he wanted to knock her up and that was it.

I would insist on confirmation at the very least.
At best an active part of her pregnancy, delivery and ongoing after.
In fact, once the doctor gives her the okay to resume intercourse, I should be the first, if not the only, to pump her full of seed again.
Nothing I would like more than her saying…
“You did it once, see if you can do it again. “
In that moment she will once again wrap her arms and legs around me as she encourages me to “Go for it “.
She won’t have to tell me how much she loves me… She’ll be showing me.