Unaware

[nor’easter]

We had a bit different situation years ago where my wife started getting together with someone close to us. She didn’t tell me until after they had gotten together a few times at least. After that, once I got my head wrapped around it, I encouraged her to continue, which she did. He was unaware that I knew they were getting together for quite some time before we finally let him know I was aware and ok with it.

I was wondering if anyone else was ever in a similar situation where someone close to you was having sex with your wife but didn’t know you knew about it? Or maybe even you and he knew it was going on but she didn’t know you knew?

I just know it was an interesting twist seeing him/them interacting in a social setting knowing that they were fucking and he was filling her with is cum yet acting like nothing was going on in front of everyone.

 

[jusme]

this was a game me and my exwife used to play. She often pulled my friends, her friends husbands even work colleagues (we worked together). she would then have sex with them in various places then come home to tell me all about her sexperiences.
She went to office parties and work gatherings and some how get her latest victim to have sex with her. There has been a few occasions were more than one guy knew about each other, usually resulting in group sex. None of them knew I was fully aware of her sex life and that she had my permission or the fact I had goaded her on.
We would even have weekend BBQs and amongst the guest she would invite her sex partners along and she would wait until they went to the toilet before following them and not reappearing for quite some time. Sure we got found out a few times, but boy was it fun

 

[Jeanswatcher]

My best friend who i used to discuss everything with was an older serial married womaniser, he would tell me of his conquests but then said one day the woman he really wanted to fuck was my young wife, he followed this with she would be easy to seduce.

He knew my sex life was sporadic to say the least and they knew each other very well as we used to socialise with him, his wife and his family, i knew she wouldnt. She knew he was a cheater and didnt like this and said so.

Over the next couple of years he kept on about her and finally worn down by this and sexually fustrated i agreed he could at least try, then soon after i tried to cancel this sucidal idea, he refused.

On the evening i had stupidly agreed to, he arrived at our house, the drinks flowed and over the next few hours i saw him firstly carressing her legs then wanking her through her jeans, her resistance shocking was nil.

I was confused, excited yet frightened too, sooner or later she would realise what he was doing, but she didnt.

A few hours later he mounted her after biting and licking her pussy, i had never seen her react like this before and it dawned on me what a poor lover i was for her as for the first time i saw her having uncontrollable orgasms.

The act was completed and as he left he just said, told you easy. The following morning was very tense, i dared to ask her if she had enjoyed her evening and she simply looked at me and said "thats what you wanted to see isnt it"

Our sex life improved considerably so i allowed him to carry on "seeing her"

It would be a couple of years later it wet wrong and she confessed she had already had him as her lover, she had arranged this evening so i could watch, or stop it and i didnt, She said she wanted me to know she wanted a lover and i allowed her to have one.

I knew then i had become somewhere between a cuck and a mug and that he had disclosed our private conversions to her, hence she knew i was receptive to this.

Thus started my life as her acknowledged cuck husband but it distroyed my friendship with him, he did however answer my question, how did this start? he replied, she instigated it and invited him to fuck her, he said she didnt like cheating and wanted me to know, hence her plan......

 

[JMNBABE]

Most of J's affairs have been with co-workers. And most of them start a while before she actuallu admits them to me....they may not have had sex yet, but a LOT of flirting and playing around has already happened. She also lets them think that I am unaware of their affair, she just needs more than she gets at home. This has worked the best for her......she tried telling one guy that I knew about her extramarital dalliances and was OK with it, did not go well!!
As a result of them being co-workers, I see them fairly regularly when she insists I attend office parties, and conventions, meetings, etc. Seems to enjoy having me around when she sneaks off for a quick kiss or grope with her current Lover. I am never there when they are sexual though. Much of that takes place on business trips, or when she "works late" which is her code for letting me know she is seeing her Lover that evening.

Her affair with her Boss/Lover lasted just over 10 years. He never knew I was aware of their affair (in reality, it had been going on for 2 years before she actually owned up to it.....I'm not stupid, I knew.......and then it was only because they had taken a hastily planned "business trip" to Cancun together to celebrate their decision to become full time any time Lovers versus "just when they traveled for business Lovers" and her primary reason for telling me was because there was a GOOD chance she had come home PREGNANT!! LONG story.....been posted on here before.

But he never knew I knew about their affair, he assumed I believed they were business partners only (VERY successful) and she let him continue to believe that. This has just worked best for us........initially we tried meeitng guys with me there, she LOVED the sex with them but she HATED being my "private porn star" and hated the stupid questions and comments I would make.....so the "affairs" situation worked best for everyone.

CW