Update 13/09/25 wife is meeting her first for 2 nights from Monday (solo)- so excited

I forgot to ask a question:
He suggested they meet in his hime city (1.5hr flight) for a night or 2 or they meet in a city in europe for a night or 2 (1.5 hour flight) while he is there on a business trip. A week ago my and her reaction was no, but in a week we've moved forward, their calls, sexting, my acceptance and trust in her, how she manages him and keeps him on the "pure sex" path has made that barrier smaller. In 4 weeks they've talked for 2 hours on a flight, about 2 hours of video calls, and 100s of sexting. He has a semi public very respected profile.
Should we do this. Safety wise we both are confident. Keeping it to sex only was a must but already i and she thinks this could be a flexible point. We've talked about it a lot and she believes if she falls in love i will be there to help her and console her if it ends.
I think it awesome for a couple to have a great sex life out of the norm but i have to say Permanent chasity NO an occasional week or so especially when she is with someone And not fall in LOVE ,be in Love with what happens and how she is treated but not being in LOVE with that person SORRY my though and experience. Bob
 
It took my wife and I a little over 7 month to find her lover.... in a hot tub on a naturist camping. I had never seen my wife flirt with another man and it was so hot watching her standing there with her bare tits and stiff nipples just over the water in the hot tub to let the man look at them while I was sitting in a chair next to the hot tub pretending I did not have a clue about what's happening in the water out in the early hours that night.

When we where alone we went into the shower and it was so incredibly arousing to watch my wife being fucked from behind in one of the shower booths while I was guarding the door into the showers... And almost came just by looking at them when the man roared and cum inside my wife and I will never forget how she pushed herself against the man while he pumped his cum in her pussy or the look of his cum sipping down the inside of her thighs, it was so hot and it felt so good, so right to let her do it.

That's four years ago and I still get my wife home filled with his hot and sticky cum from time to time.. And I still loves fucking her intensely in his cum, always makes me cum so hard and long...
 
I think it awesome for a couple to have a great sex life out of the norm but i have to say Permanent chasity NO an occasional week or so especially when she is with someone And not fall in LOVE ,be in Love with what happens and how she is treated but not being in LOVE with that person SORRY my though and experience. Bob
I get it 100%. We are discovering and discussing a lot.
 
Even in the 4 weeks we are already reaping those rewards. She gives me 100% disclosure, I can read all the texts, hear her doubts, she checks in with me a lot on him feeling. An amazing woman.
Yes it can.be very exciting from her telling me to.help h get ready . Sometimes she leaves before i get home and she sends me pictures of what she is wearing . Even sexy.texts. she has alot of ways to get me turned on.from comments to.pictures, to.explicded details.She knows how to.push my buttons
 
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It's happening. I booked her flights just now.
Next Monday 15th they are at a hotel from 9pm for evening,night,morning together. Then he goes to work Tuesday. Then Tuesday, evening and night together. Early Wednesday morning she's getting her flight home.

She's told me I have to help her get ready, shaving, packing etc.
She's probably going for a bikini line wax, ......never did that for me lol. She's lost 5kg in 4 weeks.....never did that for me lol.

Damn, I hope there are lots more things she'll do for him.... the angst is building.
 
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It's happening. I booked her flights just now.
Next Monday 15th they are at a hotel from 9pm for evening,night,morning together. Then he goes to work Tuesday. Then Tuesday, evening and night together. Early Wednesday morning she's getting her flight home.

She's told me I have to help her get ready, shaving, packing etc.
She's probably going for a bikini line wax, ......never did that for me lol. She's lost 5kg in 4 weeks.....never did that for me lol.

Damn, I hope there are lots more things she'll do for him.... the angst is building.
Yes but what about you will she be taking care of you hen she returns? Where is she flying to ?
 
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Yes but what about you will she be taking care of you hen she returns? Where is she flying to ?
We are talking a lot about how she keeps me involved, reassured and humiliated now (4 days to go), while she is awayt and then he aftercare when she returns.
I've done a lot of research and put a doc together and she has read it. She really wants this to happen and is leanring how to keep me happy and help me deal with the angst.

She knows my ideal situation is to lick her creampie clean, and that it will happen in the future whether with him or someone else. So this time it will be licking her well used and satisfied pussy and hearing some details.

She just said today that she doesn't see anyhting romantic at all with him. She's started seriously flirting with other men and she said is looking forward to having other men when she comes home. Just a week ago she was only focused on this first but with the flirting and all the messages on the dating app she sees lots of pleasure for her and cleanup for me.
 
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2 days to go, man, man😱. My wife's being really great with me even though she's going through the roof with horniness, excitement and nervousness. Me too, and day 15 locked and loaded (mini ruined hands free orgasms in my pants two times this week, without even trying 🤔). She had a 4 hour chat with a bestie yesterday that's in the lifestyle, advice, ideas, etc... and full disclosure about my severe PE, caging, dom-sub, humiliation, her sizequeen needs. I love that, lol. She liked hearing the analysis of someone experienced and telling her you are fully ready, ifit wasn't him you were going to find someone else soon because you want it so much.

Yesterday evening I shaved her legs, and shaved and waxed her bikini line, rubbed her in with cream, that was sexy but also very humiliating. Making sure that i got all the hairs so he would be happy, 🤣. Later I was sad-angsty because i wasn't going with her etc, but she perked me up by modeling the lingerie, sexy nightgown and clothes she will wear for him. She also told me the minimum she will do of texting me and i'm happy with it, more is always better but that's fine. She's giving full disclosure of their texting, showing me pictures of him and even listening to his voicemessages....... LAst night in bed she told me to lick her. A few licks, plus almost fisting with zero warmup and she came in 10 seconds 😎. She's burning hot.

So she's flying there (2 hours ish) monday evening. He's meeting her at the airport. He has a room in a hotel for his work there for 2 nights. She has booked her own place as a plan B if she wants her own space, but she is hoping they have a great time, that she's exhausted and falls asleep with him. He's up for work and gone at about 8:30 tuesday so she's hoping for a morning quickie. She's free until 3 or 4 in the afternoon. During that time she'll call me. Then she's hoping for big cock afternon sex, dinner, nighttime sex. Wednesday morning she is leaving at 6am.

Luckily Monday I am working from home to drop her at the train and Wendnesday to pick her up from the train. She said she won't wash after tuesday night/wednesday morning sex so i might still get a taste or scent. WOW, she's a total different animal in 4+ weeks.

All tips and advice for being as calm as I can while she is away are welcome, notet caged and by then day 17-19. Luckily I have a lot of office work to do Monday, hopefully kitesurfing monday evening, two teenagers at home, busy day going to work tuesday + evening kitesurf, and wednesday she's back at 2pm ish.