And to honor and show respect to a real man
Updates on my life as a cuck (?)
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These are some of the rules we have agreed on:
1. She can't see her lovers without me knowing about it ahead of time.
2. No dating and no outside relationships, this is about sex only.
3. I have to meet each new guy before she has sex with them for the first time.
4. I can make suggestions on men for her, but she gets the final say and she gets to pick them. I have no veto ability.
5. I can't dictate the number of times per day/week that she gets to have sex.
6. She gets to do whatever she wants sexually with her lovers.
7. She can spend the entire night with her lovers only in our home.
8. I can never join in, but I can have sloppy seconds whenever I want.
They say rules are made to be broken. If one of us wants to deviate from our rules, we talk about it and come to a mutually acceptable compromise. We always work to respect the other person's viewpoint. For example, she was out of town at a conference and she met a guy she was really attracted to. She called me and told me about him and asked if it was ok for them to fuck and for her to spend all night with him. We talked about it. I wanted to be sure she was going to be safe. After discussing it, and after her providing some details on where they would be, etc., I agreed. With his permission she set up a FaceTime session and I was able to watch them off and on most of the night. Turns out the guy was a stud and he left her extremely satisfied. I felt that it was a special encounter. I think I was doubly turned on by it because it was against the rules.
So very true
I could not believe the few times I saw the wife
Never thought she would be like that
It sort of makes you realize your place and just be envious
Wow! Thanks so much for sharing! These are very interesting rules (and very hot too). I think I'll soon talk to my wife about the rules we want to set up for ourselves. This would be my base haha. Thanks again!
Jealousy inadequacy to raw lust…. Particularly raw lust
Someone wrote that cuckoldry creates a new, erotic order where the wife makes the decisions, holds the power. defines when, how and by whom her body will be honoured. She neither seeks nor needs permission. The freedom is hers.
People speak about cuckold angst, the emotional upheaval, the repeating oscillation of highs and lows, from elation to woe to euphoria again, the aching beauty of one’s wife, tenderly taken by a powerful, virile man, the extreme humbling, the supreme exaltation — what to make of it?
I suggest that cuckoldry creates emotional swings that put a husband on the path of personal growth and emotional vulnerability— the very thing so many wives long to have from their husbands.
I suggest that this line of inquiry can be considered very profitably by us all.
People speak about cuckold angst, the emotional upheaval, the repeating oscillation of highs and lows, from elation to woe to euphoria again, the aching beauty of one’s wife, tenderly taken by a powerful, virile man, the extreme humbling, the supreme exaltation — what to make of it?
I suggest that cuckoldry creates emotional swings that put a husband on the path of personal growth and emotional vulnerability— the very thing so many wives long to have from their husbands.
I suggest that this line of inquiry can be considered very profitably by us all.
As someone experiencing a similar situation but a year and a half into it I can tell you rules are good but you will adjust them over time. We started slow with her having a regular boyfriend and we were getting together with him for 3somes and she was seeing him solo. Eventually it tan it’s course and we started exploring hotwife options via a friend f hers ho is a longtime hotwife. Again, things developed over time but having a friend in the lifestyle helped. There were areas we were not initially interested in but curiosity has drawn us in some directions. I was always looking to be involved and remain her primary lover. During out first relationship it more or less stayed that way but she definitely saw him a lot more than initially expected.
Our current phase is much different. She is seeing an older bull and I am not a part of it. I have met him but their encounters are between them as he prefers one on one and not to be watched. I hear about it but I would prefer to be a part of it or at minimum watch but that is not what is happening. Our sex life s more or less her describing the encounters and me jerking off. It’s been 5 months since I was inside her. I never intended to be here but when we discussed things may be like this I was oddly excited and so was she so it didn’t happen without discussion. She currently has the freedom to have encounters without my knowledge, in fact one thing we discussed is her having one bull I never know about, likely short term, but the majority of stuff I do know about.
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most important thing is you,ve got to have a serious open talk with each other before having a cuckoldrelationship,how far you want to go,what is limit,etc i always said honesty&respect is the start off a kinky relationship!if i hadn,t be honest about my fetish for getting feminized&cuckolding and my wife her fetish for having a sissyhusband,being in control and the love for teasing&showing off to family well i think we were not together anymore today.And if you don,t feel confident to do this,then don,t push it and keep talking about it if you don,t want to loose the love off your life!
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Hi everyone. It's been a while since I last posted anything. The reason is that I needed some time to myself alone. So, as you might remember, my wife Kate and I had kind of found some interested bulls for her, after Kate asked me to consider a hotwife and cuck lifestyle. Like I had mentioned in my previous update, it felt weird, but I slowly opened up to it and got my wife on a dating app. Well, a couple of months back, we went out on a triple date with the guy we had found. He was nice and sweet, and very understanding. After a few dates in the next two weeks, my wife told me that she wanted to bang him. I had known it was coming, so I agreed.
Surprise surprise! I wasn't ready yet. I got weirded out and insecure watching him kissing and fucking my wife, even though I had started to find it hot in porn. My wife and I got into a fight, and she left....with the new guy we had found out. At that point, I had felt my whole life come crashing down.. Well, last month, my wife called me up. She said that she missed me and loved me and wanted to be with me, but only if she knows that I am secure enough to not get weirded out again, since I had promised her that we could get into the cuck/hotwife lifestyle. I agreed to it, and she moved back in. We're starting from a new leaf and I hope I am stronger this time.
Surprise surprise! I wasn't ready yet. I got weirded out and insecure watching him kissing and fucking my wife, even though I had started to find it hot in porn. My wife and I got into a fight, and she left....with the new guy we had found out. At that point, I had felt my whole life come crashing down.. Well, last month, my wife called me up. She said that she missed me and loved me and wanted to be with me, but only if she knows that I am secure enough to not get weirded out again, since I had promised her that we could get into the cuck/hotwife lifestyle. I agreed to it, and she moved back in. We're starting from a new leaf and I hope I am stronger this time.
Good luck! Being a cuckold is hard, no matter how much you may want to be a cuckold. We still have egos and emotions. Even though I have been a cuckold with my wife for a long time, even before we got married, I still have the occasional meltdowns, end up angry and crying in self pity. I think that is normal. Accept how you feel, but learn how to manage them.
To be a good cuckold - stay focus on doing anything and everything to make her happy. Licking her pussy clean - sucking the bull hard again, etc.
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