Updates on my life as a cuck (?)

That's so sweet. I'm so happy for you guys. It's similar to what we have embarked upon. Just for curiosity (and maybe your experience can help), what rules did you set up? I'm so interested to know about that.
These are some of the rules we have agreed on:

1. She can't see her lovers without me knowing about it ahead of time.
2. No dating and no outside relationships, this is about sex only.
3. I have to meet each new guy before she has sex with them for the first time.
4. I can make suggestions on men for her, but she gets the final say and she gets to pick them. I have no veto ability.
5. I can't dictate the number of times per day/week that she gets to have sex.
6. She gets to do whatever she wants sexually with her lovers.
7. She can spend the entire night with her lovers only in our home.
8. I can never join in, but I can have sloppy seconds whenever I want.

They say rules are made to be broken. If one of us wants to deviate from our rules, we talk about it and come to a mutually acceptable compromise. We always work to respect the other person's viewpoint. For example, she was out of town at a conference and she met a guy she was really attracted to. She called me and told me about him and asked if it was ok for them to fuck and for her to spend all night with him. We talked about it. I wanted to be sure she was going to be safe. After discussing it, and after her providing some details on where they would be, etc., I agreed. With his permission she set up a FaceTime session and I was able to watch them off and on most of the night. Turns out the guy was a stud and he left her extremely satisfied. I felt that it was a special encounter. I think I was doubly turned on by it because it was against the rules.
 
These are some of the rules we have agreed on:

1. She can't see her lovers without me knowing about it ahead of time.
2. No dating and no outside relationships, this is about sex only.
3. I have to meet each new guy before she has sex with them for the first time.
4. I can make suggestions on men for her, but she gets the final say and she gets to pick them. I have no veto ability.
5. I can't dictate the number of times per day/week that she gets to have sex.
6. She gets to do whatever she wants sexually with her lovers.
7. She can spend the entire night with her lovers only in our home.
8. I can never join in, but I can have sloppy seconds whenever I want.

They say rules are made to be broken. If one of us wants to deviate from our rules, we talk about it and come to a mutually acceptable compromise. We always work to respect the other person's viewpoint. For example, she was out of town at a conference and she met a guy she was really attracted to. She called me and told me about him and asked if it was ok for them to fuck and for her to spend all night with him. We talked about it. I wanted to be sure she was going to be safe. After discussing it, and after her providing some details on where they would be, etc., I agreed. With his permission she set up a FaceTime session and I was able to watch them off and on most of the night. Turns out the guy was a stud and he left her extremely satisfied. I felt that it was a special encounter. I think I was doubly turned on by it because it was against the rules.
Where you live? I like the rules 😉
 
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It's so hot to hear about your journey!
Do you have a date set for the meet?
I'm sure you've heard this before but be prepared for new and conflicting feelings during your meet-up. You need to be supportive and strong for your wife. She may show a side of herself you've never seen before.
I wish you the best. Good luck.
So very true
I could not believe the few times I saw the wife
Never thought she would be like that
It sort of makes you realize your place and just be envious
 
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These are some of the rules we have agreed on:

1. She can't see her lovers without me knowing about it ahead of time.
2. No dating and no outside relationships, this is about sex only.
3. I have to meet each new guy before she has sex with them for the first time.
4. I can make suggestions on men for her, but she gets the final say and she gets to pick them. I have no veto ability.
5. I can't dictate the number of times per day/week that she gets to have sex.
6. She gets to do whatever she wants sexually with her lovers.
7. She can spend the entire night with her lovers only in our home.
8. I can never join in, but I can have sloppy seconds whenever I want.

They say rules are made to be broken. If one of us wants to deviate from our rules, we talk about it and come to a mutually acceptable compromise. We always work to respect the other person's viewpoint. For example, she was out of town at a conference and she met a guy she was really attracted to. She called me and told me about him and asked if it was ok for them to fuck and for her to spend all night with him. We talked about it. I wanted to be sure she was going to be safe. After discussing it, and after her providing some details on where they would be, etc., I agreed. With his permission she set up a FaceTime session and I was able to watch them off and on most of the night. Turns out the guy was a stud and he left her extremely satisfied. I felt that it was a special encounter. I think I was doubly turned on by it because it was against the rules.
Wow! Thanks so much for sharing! These are very interesting rules (and very hot too). I think I'll soon talk to my wife about the rules we want to set up for ourselves. This would be my base haha. Thanks again!
 
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Mixed emotions are completely normal, but a cuckold has the unique ability to turn feelings of jealousy and inadequacy into raw lust. You may feel a little weird about how and why those feelings turn you on but don't fight it.
On the other hand your wife will likely experience mixed emotions as well and it's your job to assure her that this is what you want. She needs to know that you want this and she has your blessing and support to see other men.
Jealousy inadequacy to raw lust…. Particularly raw lust
 
Someone wrote that cuckoldry creates a new, erotic order where the wife makes the decisions, holds the power. defines when, how and by whom her body will be honoured. She neither seeks nor needs permission. The freedom is hers.

People speak about cuckold angst, the emotional upheaval, the repeating oscillation of highs and lows, from elation to woe to euphoria again, the aching beauty of one’s wife, tenderly taken by a powerful, virile man, the extreme humbling, the supreme exaltation — what to make of it?

I suggest that cuckoldry creates emotional swings that put a husband on the path of personal growth and emotional vulnerability— the very thing so many wives long to have from their husbands.

I suggest that this line of inquiry can be considered very profitably by us all.
 
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