I've never been in the room with my wife and her lovers, she prefers to do things on her own and keep me in my place, guessing.
Her first meet was a nervous affair, I was at home and she met a friend in London, he was keen to share images with me, so I had a few snippets but C was so lost in it that she took his condom off and stopped him messaging!
I found the whole thing amazing then, as I do now. And C's full and natural expression of her sexuality is a huge turn on for me. This is magnified by the fact that she now keeps me celibate and edges me to keep very frustrated all of the time. It's the whole dynamic of our lives together.