Wife has fooled around but soft swap stuff. We cuckold roll play all the time. Recently said to her, I know I joke all the time, but it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. She said, "I know...So wait I can choose who I want to fuck?" Me: "yes". Her: "even if he is really hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely" Her: "okay". Then we dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.