My wife was never very interested in sex. When we married she was 27 and I was 40. I did her about twice a month for the first 15 years or so. I always had to initiate sex and she orgasmed maybe 10 times a year. Everything changed when she turned 50. I was 63 and could and did still perform well. She took a job with a caterer and worked weddings and charity events. She at the same time refused to have sex with me. After about two months she told me that at weddings there are a lot of horny guys and she was getting laid at these events- in bathrooms, cars, lawns etc. When she told me I got hard and have stayed that way whenever she goes out to do an event. I have asked to go down on her when she gets home but she won't let me. She says the only sex she wants is strange. She does let me jerk off watching her undress when she gets home.