What happened to me.

Jake44

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My wife was never very interested in sex. When we married she was 27 and I was 40. I did her about twice a month for the first 15 years or so. I always had to initiate sex and she orgasmed maybe 10 times a year. Everything changed when she turned 50. I was 63 and could and did still perform well. She took a job with a caterer and worked weddings and charity events. She at the same time refused to have sex with me. After about two months she told me that at weddings there are a lot of horny guys and she was getting laid at these events- in bathrooms, cars, lawns etc. When she told me I got hard and have stayed that way whenever she goes out to do an event. I have asked to go down on her when she gets home but she won't let me. She says the only sex she wants is strange. She does let me jerk off watching her undress when she gets home.
 
It looks pretty normal to me. Basically it seems she was sexually not very mature all this time. In addition to that, even if she married you, seems she was either too attracted to you.

As she got older also sexually more mature she wanna try new things in sex but probably is too shy to do it with you (she seems to be a bit insecure person) and plainly put, she enjoys sex with others more because a) she can relax, they are not her husband, her friend or someone she knows so is a one time thing, she won't have to deal with them. and b) just the ex itement of trying new meat.
 
She is working a Charity event this evening where men in there 60's will be drinking and eating. She says it is in a old huge home with a lot of bathrooms. I know what that means.
 
My wife was never very interested in sex. When we married she was 27 and I was 40. I did her about twice a month for the first 15 years or so. I always had to initiate sex and she orgasmed maybe 10 times a year. Everything changed when she turned 50. I was 63 and could and did still perform well. She took a job with a caterer and worked weddings and charity events. She at the same time refused to have sex with me. After about two months she told me that at weddings there are a lot of horny guys and she was getting laid at these events- in bathrooms, cars, lawns etc. When she told me I got hard and have stayed that way whenever she goes out to do an event. I have asked to go down on her when she gets home but she won't let me. She says the only sex she wants is strange. She does let me jerk off watching her undress when she gets home.
I am curious. What was your wife's upbringing like, as you say, "was never very interested in sex," at 27, why the hell not? Respectfully. Her attitude towards sex then and now maybe mirroring her up bringing. Like abuse, or an early introduction to Porn. My grandparents adopted our mother, they thought sex was messy and didn't like it. Well that was a long time ago, but what of your wife's history towards intimacy, do you know? Here is an article I found, (if links can be shared here), "Ten Reasons Why ..."
 
that is not fair not to have sex with you whenever she come back fro a fucking party. you need to feel the hot cum in her pussy.