We're not into cuckold, we do enjoy semi regular mfm with a guy we know. He is younger, 54 me, 52 her, he's 37. It's not his age, it's that he's a guy we like and get along with. I guess it all adds up, he is younger, he does have a big dick, he's not a bodybuilding hunk, he's a skinny nerd type. It's the whole deal that we enjoy. We do it at our place, we're comfy at home, we know what to expect and look forward to it. We did hookup with a stranger out of town once, the guy was what my wife described as HOT, cpl of years younger, well dressed, groomed and good looking. We went to his hotel room, it was fun but really just ok..probably because it was more awkward and scary than exciting. At out place with our friend it's fun, exciting and relaxing.
So it's not THE GUY.....it's the whole experience for us.