Hello folks ! I am 33 and my gF 29. We are together since 2 years and our relationship is really great !
About her : She is a vanilla girl , not very kinky.
About me : I really like all this Hotwife lifestyle and try to see what my gf thinks about it !
OUR STORY.
1.5 year ago: More than 1 year ago I told her that I would not say anything if she had someone else. That I was not jealous. At this point i did not tell her about my fantasy. She was a bit surprised but what could she say ? She just answered that she had anyway NO desire to see someone.
And then step by step I revealed her that I would actually like the idea of her flirting with someone else. I don’t think that she got angry but she was very confuse and not (so) judging. She just told me that she could never do that. Never.
I paid attention not to talk to much about it. I speak rarely about it and at the right moment(I think) 🙏
This summer:
Then i created a dare challenge while I was abroad with some challenges. It was really great because even if she did not do everything (especially dating someone on tinder) we had a great talk and it was the right occasion for me to tell her more about my kink. She was not saying no … but not yes. She said “maybe”
Since then we had some more talks. Sometime she gets angry but I am never pushy and I don’t bring the subject (maybe 50/50 or less). I just tell her that it is a kink and it will not change my life if she does not do it. It’s just something that I like.
Yesterday:
Yesterday I asked her what she was doing Saturday and she told me that she was going to a birthday that finishes quite late with some dancing etc.
And then …. Out of nowhere she asked me how I would react if she was not coming home because she would find someone.
I told her that it would be too much for a first time + safety concerns. I said “you can kiss or flirt”but not much more.
Then I asked her why she was asking and she replied “just to know”
Do you think she has something in mind ? What to think ?
About her : She is a vanilla girl , not very kinky.
About me : I really like all this Hotwife lifestyle and try to see what my gf thinks about it !
OUR STORY.
1.5 year ago: More than 1 year ago I told her that I would not say anything if she had someone else. That I was not jealous. At this point i did not tell her about my fantasy. She was a bit surprised but what could she say ? She just answered that she had anyway NO desire to see someone.
And then step by step I revealed her that I would actually like the idea of her flirting with someone else. I don’t think that she got angry but she was very confuse and not (so) judging. She just told me that she could never do that. Never.
I paid attention not to talk to much about it. I speak rarely about it and at the right moment(I think) 🙏
This summer:
Then i created a dare challenge while I was abroad with some challenges. It was really great because even if she did not do everything (especially dating someone on tinder) we had a great talk and it was the right occasion for me to tell her more about my kink. She was not saying no … but not yes. She said “maybe”
Since then we had some more talks. Sometime she gets angry but I am never pushy and I don’t bring the subject (maybe 50/50 or less). I just tell her that it is a kink and it will not change my life if she does not do it. It’s just something that I like.
Yesterday:
Yesterday I asked her what she was doing Saturday and she told me that she was going to a birthday that finishes quite late with some dancing etc.
And then …. Out of nowhere she asked me how I would react if she was not coming home because she would find someone.
I told her that it would be too much for a first time + safety concerns. I said “you can kiss or flirt”but not much more.
Then I asked her why she was asking and she replied “just to know”
Do you think she has something in mind ? What to think ?