I've tried docking an uncut guy several times. My cock-head seems to be too big to actually accomplish it - I'm cut, so no foreskin. It was a hot way to cum though, but not quite what you see in porn.
What would happen if you just told your wife the truth?
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I'd say it's mostly fear that keeps men from speaking up. I was afraid of being rejected as being perverted, as being sexually obsessed. I finally told my wife and she said she isn't interested and said it would never happen, end of discussion. I knew I was up against her conservative Christian upbringing along with all the regular norms of monogamy.
It's been those little "doses" over time that have led us to the place we are now. Now she engages in "fantasy/dirty talk" in bed (at my request) and she's getting very good at it. She has discovered and admitted she loves to have her ass tongued while she presses her hitachi against her clit. Basically she's more receptive to sexual things than at any other point in her life.
I still feel like I'm walking on eggshells when the opportunity to discuss sex comes up because I've been conditioned to expect rejection. I'm still learning how to bring up things that don't "trigger" her.
I read this thread and saw that you had a difficult first marriage. That had to influence your thinking greatly in bringing this up to your husband. I also saw that you were the one to initiate this idea to your husband. That seems to be a rarity. Usually (as your thread suggests), it's the guy that initiates this. Since this was your idea are you sensitive to how and what your husband reacts/responds to?
You also said that you started with a cage and moved on from there. Where are you at now with your relationship?
Do you have any friends that are "in the lifestyle". Were they friends before you got into it?
Seems it's difficult sometimes even with a cock with a foreskin. I agree it's hot just trying.
