What would happen if you just told your wife the truth?

I see a lot of husbands in the closet about the lifestyle and wondering what if you just point blank told your wife? I introduced my husband in pretty small doses. Started with a cage and moved on from there it has only strengthed our relationship I have to say.
This is what I did and it turned out she was dreaming about the same for a long time! We are both happy in the process, it definitely refreshed our relationship and we see both already a positive outcome!

I think it is quite a psychological issue. I tend to think despite the fact that sometimes society pictures "cuckold" as a "weak" person but in reality someone who can speak out and express his desire to a wife and not be afraid to look weird or even ruin everything makes cuckold a very strong person.
 
This is what I did and it turned out she was dreaming about the same for a long time! We are both happy in the process, it definitely refreshed our relationship and we see both already a positive outcome!

I think it is quite a psychological issue. I tend to think despite the fact that sometimes society pictures "cuckold" as a "weak" person but in reality someone who can speak out and express his desire to a wife and not be afraid to look weird or even ruin everything makes cuckold a very strong person.
Yes, there is a level of intimacy that I have never had with anyone else. I truly love how we have bonded over the experience
 
I see a lot of husbands in the closet about the lifestyle and wondering what if you just point blank told your wife? I introduced my husband in pretty small doses. Started with a cage and moved on from there it has only strengthed our relationship I have to say.
I like the idea of small doses. Better to hint around and get a feel for how she feels than blurt it out.
 
I see a lot of husbands in the closet about the lifestyle and wondering what if you just point blank told your wife? I introduced my husband in pretty small doses. Started with a cage and moved on from there it has only strengthed our relationship I have to say.
I did this finally. After 8 years together and 5 married I point blank told her the entire truth.
 
From my history in my first marriage... He wasn't into anything the way I was, I had to masterb

What was her reaction
From my history in my first marriage... He wasn't into anything the way I was, I had to masterb

What was her reaction
About me being bisexual and my gay past growing up with my best friend or that I wanted to be a sissy for her big black bulls?
 
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Both, it's been so freeing! In my previous marriage my ex husband went as far as throwing away all my toys. It was awful.
That’s horrible! My wife and I have bags of toys and love going to the sex store whenever we can!

So my wife had been pegging me and dressing me up for a couple of years already and I was getting her into bbc cuckold porn and one late party night I put on a bbc gangbang scene and she noticed how hard I got and she straight up asked me “are you imagining you’re one of black men fucking that white girl or are you imagining you’re that white girl gettkng fucked by those 5 black men?” And I decided to be honest and told her I was imagining I was the white girl.

So she calmly said well let’s put on a gay porn and see what you think of that. She put on a bbc and white guy scene and I was jerking hard watching it and i looked at her and said “I’m so sorry!” And she told me I should be. She told me to keep jerking and watching and humiliated me until I came and now that’s how she lets me cum most of the time!

This went on for a little bit and another party night she was talking about she knew I wouldn’t fuck a guy really and she was talking about her and her best friend (and maid of honor in our wedding) and their lesbian experiences as teenagers and I wouldn’t understand and little did she know me and my best friend (best man in our wedding) experimented and fucked a bunch as teenagers and i just blurted out “Danny and I fucked growing up” and she laughed and thought I was kidding until she saw the look of shame and embarrassment on my face and said “oh my god you are being serious!! Tell me about it” so I did. I told her everything and she kept asking more and more questions and was stunned we kept this secret for 20 plus years.

Both times she was absolutely amazing!!
 
This went on for a little bit and another party night she was talking about she knew I wouldn’t fuck a guy really and she was talking about her and her best friend (and maid of honor in our wedding) and their lesbian experiences as teenagers and I wouldn’t understand
So have you since the two of you talked? Fucked a guy? or been Fucked by a guy? What are her thoughts about it?

i just blurted out “Danny and I fucked growing up” and she laughed and thought I was kidding and said “oh my god you are being serious!! Tell me about it” so I did. I told her everything and she kept asking more and more questions and was stunned we kept this secret for 20 plus years.

Both times she was absolutely amazing!!

That's amazing. I'd probably faint if my man told me that. But I'd come to jumping his bones asking him to tell me all about each encounter. I assume she is open to it happening. Has it? Are the two of you working on it?
 
So have you since the two of you talked? Fucked a guy? or been Fucked by a guy? What are her thoughts about it?



That's amazing. I'd probably faint if my man told me that. But I'd come to jumping his bones asking him to tell me all about each encounter. I assume she is open to it happening. Has it? Are the two of you working on it?
This was about 4 years ago. We talk about it often and she mentions it when humiliating me, which I absolutely love! She hasn’t seen me fuck a guy but she saw me get fucked by 2 guys one being my best friend.

She loved it but only if it’s fucking. She doesn’t want to see gay romantic love making.
 
This was about 4 years ago. We talk about it often and she mentions it when humiliating me, which I absolutely love! She hasn’t seen me fuck a guy but she saw me get fucked by 2 guys one being my best friend.

She loved it but only if it’s fucking. She doesn’t want to see gay romantic love making.
Oh I so agree! Suck and Fuck - no creepy stuff.

And Oh My Goodness that is AMAZING! 2 guys back fucking you? And more? WOW WOW WOW!
 
We have been together for 5 years. We are so open with each other there are no secrets. I met her at a threesome so no inhibition here. However it was just natural thing that when one of the guys that came over was BI we both took turns with him . If he is straight we only have him play with her. We had a Bi friend come over last weekend. I am a bottom mostly so while i was fucking my wife he was fucking me. She then went to the couch and watched the 2 of us get it on. After her came in me i played with her for a moment and then he came over and slid into her and came in her. We all three hopped back in bed and i ended up sliding into sloppy seconds and cumming myself. So we are very laid back and there is no worry about keeping hidden secrets.
 
My wife KK is fully aware of my bisexuality. Setting aside early experiences, my initial bi/cuck excursions were during the days I trawled Craig’s List looking for illicit sexual encounters.

After we transitioned to the hot wife thing, male-male contact became inevitable, unavoidable during some encounters - the trite “crossing of swords,” even if there is no intent.

I was not averse to that kind of contact, even though early I did not initiate it explicitly. KK was present, a witness, so there’s no denying the male-male contact, or one another’s reaction to it.

KK herself is fascinated by gay and bisexual men. She loves watching a man masturbate, and she loves watching two or more men having sex.

One of my more memorable early bi experiences with KK was during a threesome. KK was on her back, her head on a pillow, mouth wide, licking, swirling, flicking her tongue lasciviously. Me and the other guy were stroking our own cocks, nearly tip-to-tip, almost touching. Then it happened. My cock-head touched his, and instinct took over. We started frotting, rubbing our cock-heads together. It was over in minutes, jets, a gusher of cum from the sensation.

From then on, I was more often an instigator.
 
My wife KK is fully aware of my bisexuality. Setting aside early experiences, my initial bi/cuck excursions were during the days I trawled Craig’s List looking for illicit sexual encounters.

After we transitioned to the hot wife thing, male-male contact became inevitable, unavoidable during some encounters - the trite “crossing of swords,” even if there is no intent.

I was not averse to that kind of contact, even though early I did not initiate it explicitly. KK was present, a witness, so there’s no denying the male-male contact, or one another’s reaction to it.

KK herself is fascinated by gay and bisexual men. She loves watching a man masturbate, and she loves watching two or more men having sex.

One of my more memorable early bi experiences with KK was during a threesome. KK was on her back, her head on a pillow, mouth wide, licking, swirling, flicking her tongue lasciviously. Me and the other guy were stroking our own cocks, nearly tip-to-tip, almost touching. Then it happened. My cock-head touched his, and instinct took over. We started frotting, rubbing our cock-heads together. It was over in minutes, jets, a gusher of cum from the sensation.

From then on, I was more often an instigator.
Ever try docking, pulling the foreskin over the other guys cock and cumming that way?