When I met my now wife, girlfriend at the time, I don’t think it even took a month, maybe 2. We did meet on a SPAM and she had been having sex with a few guys until we met.
I worked on my wife for just over 15 years to get her to try it the first time then after almost divorcing because of it, 2 more long years, then one day she announced that she really wanted to do it.
She got married twice before me with lots of lovers in between. It took less than a year. She felt awkward at first but now she is really into it and enjoys it.
Yeah I was just kind of like let’s just give it a try met a guy for dinner a few times guess there must have been some chemistry he was vey laid back no pressure and she went for it. Things are great between us didn’t change anything still together.