How long did it take to convince your wife to be a hotwife? I'm at 3.5 years and going. Not giving up and still hoping. How long did it take you?
What's the longest it's taken to convince your wife?
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It took close to 4.5 to 5 years, from the time I first started talking about it to her taking her first dick other than mine.
Took me about 10 years lol really wish it could have been sooner. But worth the wait
Wow. 10 years? What finally got your wife interested in doing it? How are things now?
I worked on my wife for just over 15 years to get her to try it the first time then after almost divorcing because of it, 2 more long years, then one day she announced that she really wanted to do it.
She got married twice before me with lots of lovers in between. It took less than a year. She felt awkward at first but now she is really into it and enjoys it.
Yeah I was just kind of like let’s just give it a try met a guy for dinner a few times guess there must have been some chemistry he was vey laid back no pressure and she went for it. Things are great between us didn’t change anything still together.
She had so much guilt from fucking another man in front of me AND enjoying it so much, she later told me. The guilt drove her to depression and that affected everything in our lives, we worked it out but it was a very difficult 2 years.
Wow. Good that you worked through it. Is it a regular thing for her now?
We started dating in June 2011. By November 2011 that same year she was fucking a guy at Club Trapeze Atlanta.
By June one year later 2012, she had fucked 8 different men and done MFM threesomes with me. She’s a real slut! Love her so much. We got married 2 years after our first date and she’s been fucking other men ever since.
Married 12 years now.
By June one year later 2012, she had fucked 8 different men and done MFM threesomes with me. She’s a real slut! Love her so much. We got married 2 years after our first date and she’s been fucking other men ever since.
Married 12 years now.
Sounds like you were meant to be together. Were both of you already in the LS when you met?
Hubby was in the lifestyle as a Bull for the previous 10 years. My wife was a promiscuous, recently divorced, slut, just waiting for a good man to open the door to non-monogamy and love her for being her sexy self.
We've been happily married ever since.
3rd marriages for the both of us.
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I’m around a decade lol. I brought it up very slowly and infrequent in the beginning(first 8ish years). She started bringing it up during sex in the last year or so by herself. So hopeful she’s getting close!
That’s pretty hot if she’s bringing it up hopefully she gets more into. Does it seems like she gets wetter when talking about it??? I felt like my wife would
Her bringing it up more coincided with her wanting to pick and watch porn during sex. Which absolutely makes her be soaked throughout.
I'm there with you..its been a decade...im still hoping and discussing it
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