Prior to this first adventure, hooking up with another man first was actually not something we expected or planned. We say this because we had mostly talked about being with other couples not single men. We had been online talking to different people and even met some couples but nothing was really happening. After deciding we wanted to explore new things, we had set some ground rules before we began to trying to find other like-minded people. Anyway, we were out drinking at one of our favorite local bars with several of our friends and there was a couple of men sitting at the table next to ours. They did not know anybody at the bar but saw we were all having a good time together and when we noticed them, we invited them to joining our group. There was no special intent by it, it was just the sort of do when you are out having a good time in a crowd. As it turned out the wife was sitting the closest to them and she started up a conversation with them. At some point, she took a liking one of them and somehow during the course of their chat, she mentioned to him what we were “all about”. I do not know how the conversation went exactly, but I think at first he got a little nervous because the wife was talking to him about sex and I was sitting right there. Anyway, once he knew I was okay with it, he thought the idea of being with another couple was cool and had no problem helping us out. After talking with him for a little while, the wife told me about the nature of her little discussion she had been having. At first, I was apprehensive because we were out with friends that we did not want to know what we were up to. It was also unexpected that she was going after a single man we did not know. At any rate, I joined the conversation and the three of us talked throughout the evening. Eventually I suggested that she and him go outside to talk about the details and get “better acquainted” away from the prying eyes and ears of our friends and I would eventually join.
So, she and our new friend slipped away from the table and went for a stroll. I waited a little while so as not to be obvious and made my way outside to catch up with them. At first, I did not see them but eventually I found them around the corner of the bar up against the wall but still very much out in the open where anyone could come around the corner and see them just as I could. The bar we were at was a square building with the main doors in the front and a covered wooden porch that runs around three sides. It was not a well-lit area but not completely dark either. As I walked up to them, I could see he had his hand up one side of the wife’s shorts working a finger in to her pussy. The wife was holding what definitely was the biggest cock I had ever seen, (eight plus inches) in her hand. She had made him very hard from her stroking, and as I walked up, she casually asked me what I thought. It was at this time it all hit me, although I did not fully realize it until much later. Seeing my soon to be wife standing there with some strange man’s cock in her hand and his fingers exploring her pussy was the most erotic thing I have ever seen. Later I decided it was the “perfect moment”, and I have never forgotten it. Initially I was shocked and began to feel the pangs of jealousy and anger rise. I stayed cool because I was also very turned on. When I suggested they get better acquainted I was thinking they just have a private conversation others would not over hear. As I mentioned before, hooking up with a single male was not something we discussed doing, especially with a complete stranger. The wife obviously had something else in mind, and had taken the first step. While I played look out for them, I was forced to confront an intense wave of mixed emotions. Part of me wanted to stop it and another found it was very hot, very erotic, and very arousing. From that point on I was hooked, now I am incredibly turned on by seeing her doing anything involving sex with someone else.
