When was the first time you realised cuckolding was a ‘thing’?

It all started several years ago, when I was a teenager in the nineties. By then, I had a very attractive girlfriend, we were partners in our first term at the University and in a few months we became a couple. She came from a very conservative family and was still a virgin.
It took several months for me to get to having sex and when we finally did, she spent several weeks remorseful, she didn't even want to talk to me and she told me that she was ashamed for letting her parents down. The crisis was such that I even thought we were going to break up, but little by little she got over it and realized that there was nothing wrong with having sex with her boyfriend.
Little by little I was awakening the slut she had inside. The once conservative girl, was freeing herself and she felt more and more comfortable experimenting with me. Each time we added new elements to our sex life: lingerie, spanking, costumes, ties, bandages, dildos and even a bit of suffocation.
We liked strong emotions, we got to the point that one day when I visited her at her parents' house they asked her to cook dinner while they both talked in the living room. I walked her into the kitchen and while she prepared the food, we made a quickie. Then we went out to dinner as if nothing had happened. Unthinkable of the good girl who recently wept over her virginity!
Despite the great progress in our sexuality, I was still the typical jealous teenager, who would get angry if someone flirted with her, something that happened frequently since, as I mentioned at the beginning, she was very attractive. Imagine her: she had sensual lips; expressive black eyes; long straight hair; she is brunette, tall, slim, with medium-sized, perky breasts; and long legs that ended in a big tight ass.
It was not often that her parents let her go out, but with lies we managed to make her parents think that she was going to spend a Saturday with a friend. It turned me on so much knowing that we would finally have a night together, that the time didn't matter and that I could delight myself with her body. I picked her up at her friend's and when I got into her car I sold her and without telling her where we were going I drove to a motel, she very submissively humored me. Upon arriving at the motel, I took off her shirt and her skirt, left her in her underwear, tied her hands and feet; And I ate her from top to bottom.
We were both extremely excited. I put her bikini aside, she was so wet that I slide right in. I slapped her, suffocated her as she liked. I hold my cum for as long as I could. I used all the tricks in the book to delay my ejaculation until I couldn't take it anymore, I took my dick out and finished her in face.
Happy with my performance, I untied her arms, as soon as I released her, she took off her blindfold, looking all around the room, as if looking for something lost. It wasn't the reaction I expected so I asked her: What's wrong with you?
She replied Who else is in the room? –. Not understanding what was happening, I just said: what? And she insisted, who else is in the room? The one who did all this to me? It wasn´t you, right?
Then I understood: She thought that someone else had fucked her and that I had been his accomplice and her witness.
So I asked her speechless - Would you have let a stranger fuck you?
She was embarrassed and didn't answer me, I insisted, but she changed the subject again and again. She even tried to convince me that that was not what she had meant, but it was clear to me: she thought that I had brought a stranger into our room and that she had fucked her in front of me. And what was more surprising, she would have collaborated!!!!!!
For the first time in my life, the jealous teenager in me didn't get mad, in fact, he was turned me on. Despite the fact that only a few minutes had passed since we fuck, she had gotten my dick up again and it was harder than ever. I understood well why I was so excited and I felt ashamed to admit it -but the idea of her trying another cock had turned me on- so we changed the subject and got back to fucking as if nothing had happened.
That night completely changed my way of thinking. I stopped being jealous and started researching the subject and read about swingers and cuckoldry.
once the genie is out of the bottle,.....
 
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I remember the concept of cuckolding was a frequent topic in Penthouse Forum back in the late 70s and early 80s. A friend and I found a cache of those & other magazines including Screw, Hustler, etc. I remember there was a story in Penthouse called "The Most Perfect Mrs. R" or something similar, about a horny wife who seduces a young guy and cucks her husband. The young guy is really nervous but it turns out the husband enjoys it as much as he does. There was an even better story in one of the raunchier mags, about a white couple who make friends with a big rough black guy. It told of how the white husband at first befriended the guy, and how things slowly progressed to the blonde wife liking him as well, as he was really not dangerous but rather a lovable giant. They ended up in the couple's hot tub together and discovered he was also hung like a horse. They gradually moved to a 3-way relationship where most of the sex was the white guy warming up his wife and cumming quickly, followed by the black guy stretching and then pleasuring the blonde wife with his huge cock for extended periods while the husband watched. Despite it being the 70s it was a story ahead of it's time in that it focused on the wife's feelings and desires more than the guys. How she went from being fearful, to in pain, to being able to handle the big tool, to enjoying it, once she figured out her husband needed to fuck her first to open her up for the BBC. I jerked off like crazy reading that story and while I don't have a copy of it anymore I remember it like yesterday.
 
I remember the concept of cuckolding was a frequent topic in Penthouse Forum back in the late 70s and early 80s. A friend and I found a cache of those & other magazines including Screw, Hustler, etc. I remember there was a story in Penthouse called "The Most Perfect Mrs. R" or something similar, about a horny wife who seduces a young guy and cucks her husband. The young guy is really nervous but it turns out the husband enjoys it as much as he does. There was an even better story in one of the raunchier mags, about a white couple who make friends with a big rough black guy. It told of how the white husband at first befriended the guy, and how things slowly progressed to the blonde wife liking him as well, as he was really not dangerous but rather a lovable giant. They ended up in the couple's hot tub together and discovered he was also hung like a horse. They gradually moved to a 3-way relationship where most of the sex was the white guy warming up his wife and cumming quickly, followed by the black guy stretching and then pleasuring the blonde wife with his huge cock for extended periods while the husband watched. Despite it being the 70s it was a story ahead of it's time in that it focused on the wife's feelings and desires more than the guys. How she went from being fearful, to in pain, to being able to handle the big tool, to enjoying it, once she figured out her husband needed to fuck her first to open her up for the BBC. I jerked off like crazy reading that story and while I don't have a copy of it anymore I remember it like yesterday.
Agreed. Penthouse forum was the best.
 
I remember the concept of cuckolding was a frequent topic in Penthouse Forum back in the late 70s and early 80s. A friend and I found a cache of those & other magazines including Screw, Hustler, etc. I remember there was a story in Penthouse called "The Most Perfect Mrs. R" or something similar, about a horny wife who seduces a young guy and cucks her husband. The young guy is really nervous but it turns out the husband enjoys it as much as he does. There was an even better story in one of the raunchier mags, about a white couple who make friends with a big rough black guy. It told of how the white husband at first befriended the guy, and how things slowly progressed to the blonde wife liking him as well, as he was really not dangerous but rather a lovable giant. They ended up in the couple's hot tub together and discovered he was also hung like a horse. They gradually moved to a 3-way relationship where most of the sex was the white guy warming up his wife and cumming quickly, followed by the black guy stretching and then pleasuring the blonde wife with his huge cock for extended periods while the husband watched. Despite it being the 70s it was a story ahead of it's time in that it focused on the wife's feelings and desires more than the guys. How she went from being fearful, to in pain, to being able to handle the big tool, to enjoying it, once she figured out her husband needed to fuck her first to open her up for the BBC. I jerked off like crazy reading that story and while I don't have a copy of it anymore I remember it like yesterday.
It was the same for me - in my teens reading the readers letters in porn mags back in the early ‘70s. I wanked more to the stories of cheating wives or shared wives far more than I did over the pictures. It sowed the seeds of my attraction to slutty women before I’d ever even seen a naked woman in the flesh.
James
 
In the early 70's I was a regular reader of Penthouse Variations and Gallery Magazines. Each month Variations would have several articles about wife watching or wife sharing. These stories turned me on and I began to seek our everything I could find on the topic. Gallery had Girl Next Door Photos where guys would send in pics of their wives, and also had wife sharing stories. I became hooked and openly shared my exwife with my friends and coworkers, I loved being around guys she screwed. Even though in the 70's I had not heard of the term our relationship slowly took a cuckolding twist. We divorced for non sexual reasons and I have remarried to a woman that knows of my interest and has had had steady boyfriends for years and I love it.
 
Before marriage at age 24, my wife was with a friend of mine, they were steady with each other, but then he went overseas and their love fizzled out, and I started dating her, after marriage we used to talk about exchanging wifes with a couple we knew, but she was not keen at all, on a work trip I had sex with a colleague but feeling guilty I told my wife about it, she did not mind it, and said that if you just want to fuck someone without feelings thats fine, then slowly I persuaded her to try it out as well, and she is good at it now. So it sort of grew on us.
 
I don't remember when I realised what a cuckold was fully. When I was a young lad I split up with my girlfriend and found out she'd fucked the guy next door. He was in the navy and was well built. I imagined he had a very large cock and as well as being upset, I was also very turned on by the thought of her being fucked by him. I masturbated furiously with the thought of them fucking, not realising what my needs really were. Years went past and I settled very happily with my now wife. When our sex life wained a bit, I suggested swinging. To my surprise, she was very enthusiastic. So we ventured into that lifestyle which was great fun and very successful. But a slight problem arose when I found myself watching my wife getting fucked and forgetting the lady I was supposed to be pleasuring. It was then I understood what a cuckold really was. My wife was OK with me finding men for her, carefully chosen of course, but she never really understood it, but once the evening arrived and a few drinks later, she was more than happy to enjoy herself. I usually found VWE guys which on occasions she struggled to take, but once warmed up, she came to orgasm very quickly. I loved watching and joining in. If only I'd realised much earlier in my life. That's why people should try things and see if it works for them, if it doesn't, then move on, but if it does, then a lifetime of pleasure is in front of you.
 
I posted about this earlier but I love this topic. From the first Variations story about wife watching i knew I had hit on something that would be life changing. Luckily my girlfriend who would later become my wife was very sexually active and openly enjoyed screwing my friends and coworkers. She loved the attention of other guys and I got off on her experiences. I cannot explain but the emotions I felt became a turn on. When she screwed one guy I might feel jealous and another i might feel humiliated but I could not get enough. She never did anything to make me feel our marriage was being threatened but it was well know that I was a cuckold and I was fine with it. Would not have changed a thing.
 
When was the first time you remember realising what we know as cuckolding was something men and women enjoyed? I don’t just mean ‘when did your wife make you a cuckold’ that’s been discussed lots of times, I mean when did the penny drop that people got a kick out of their partner having sex with someone else?
Was it a movie or a song ? Or was it a comment about a wife ‘putting it about ‘ and her husband not minding or a personal experience -something someone introduced you to? Or was it a discovery of a whole genre of porn and discussion forums that explore this subject.
Personally my eyes were opened by an older lady. I was 16 buying my first pair of jeans and she came into the changing rooms. My cock was hard in a millisecond and she soon realised I was a virgin and gave me my first blowjob- I reckon lasted all of 20 seconds!! She told me to come back for a second lesson and I was back the next day! She took me upstairs to the stock room and I had my first proper fuck. She was a big breasted blond in her 40’s and wasted no time showing me how to fuck get hairy Pusey. I was in heaven and came twice without even getting soft. Her pussy was absolutely dripping with my cum. She pulled her panties up and hurried downstairs. When I followed a few minutes later I asked the other shop assistant where she had gone. She told me she’d gone home to her husband- I was panicking, I thought I was in trouble but she said ‘don’t worry, he loves it, the fuller and fresher the better. He’ll probably want to watch next time!!’
It was the first time I had ever heard of such a thing but the erotic charge it gave me fuelled an obsession for the rest of my life.
How about you?
Wonderful story. Thanks for sharing. I got a question, what are you now - a Bull or Cuck?
 
This was in 1973, I was about 17-18. My girlfriend, me, and another, few years older, friend had been out on the lake. Went back to his place, we got naked - to dry our clothes. A joint was smoked, one thing led to another, and I experienced my 1st mfm - I think it was the first for all of us. Anyhows, was great fun, taking turns with my girlfriend. His cock was larger than mine and watching him go balls deep in my girl was so hot, and well, was obvious she was enjoying too, lol. After he came, i got to slide in for my 1st ever silky seconds - and after a larger cock - I couldn't have lasted for more than 3-4 strokes, if that, lol. So, figuring she'd want something more, I went down and had my first creampie of another man's (and my) cum. The aroma and taste! Hooked for life I was - almost 67 now, and still love watching (and helping) another man's cock sinking into my wife.
Do you still do creampie cleanup.
 
After I caught my wife in bed with a close family friend....it was either divorce or accept Situation. I then read up on marital affairs and stumbled onto cuckolding. Then discovered how widespread it was
 
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For me it started when I was in High School. My friends would ask me if I was fucking my girl friend( who became my wife). THis is back in the late 60's. I would tell my best friend and i found myself getting turned on when i told him how she looked and how she reacted to being fingered,and being fucked.
At the same time ,when i had sex with my girlfriend i would tell her how turned on my bud would get when i told him about her body and having sex with her. we both got turned on by this. I asked her if she wouyld like to do it with him If I could arrange it. She was not totally on board with that idea at first. So I said How about you fake your asleep and be nude and I let him take a look. So I told hiim about this plan and invited him to come to my house at a certain time. So when he got there we were in bed and Went and answered the door. We did a little small talk and then I walked him in my room. She was on her back and totally naked. He whispered that she was amazing. She really was!. I said to him go ahead and feel her tit. He did and she didn't flinch or move. She kept her eyes closed like she was asleep. I then told him to feel her pussy. He did and I said finger her. He started to finger her and she started to respond. I told him to keep fingering her and kiss her if he wanted to. He did and she responded. I told him if he wanted to fuck her he would have to promise not to cum in her. because there was no pill yet. With that he got undressed and they totally got into it. and I was hooked. She was hooked and my buddy was getting some fantastic pussy. When he pulled out I told him to cum on her belly and she told him to cum in her mouth and he did . She had sex with him and I for many years after that. When we had sex alone we would sometimes talk about how she fucked him. after my wife past away i shared other woman and current wife.
 
Never herd the word cuckold or cuck till I saw it on the internet, 2000-ish ?
But....
Early 80s, I had a sex only gal friend I was fucking, never herd the term, fuck buddy or friend with benefits or side peice. She had a steady boyfriend she said she loved. They would go out then have sex at his place. She would call me from his place on his phone(was way befor cell phones) to see if I was home then she spend 2 hours in my bed. She told me she was still horny after he was done and she liked the sex we were having. I did know the term sloppy seconds and I was good with it. She was not so good looking but had a rock solid body and fucked me silly.
Different gal, she was 41, married, mom of 2. Every Thursday after work she'd stop at my place, we'd fuck 3 rounds often with me unloading in her butt hole. She was very open about how her sex with me helped her and hubby's sex life. He didn't know about me. She often told me how she was going home to fuck him. Cuckold ? I don't know.
Early 80s I lived in a small town, Kmart was the big store. My friend worked at a Video rental place. He'd talk about a steady customer, 40-ish married classy lady that routinely rented porn tapes about blacks and white women. There was no blacks in our town. I don't know if those movies were called Cuckold or not.
I did hear about couples that evidently did enjoy a 2nd guy in their sex life, I thought it was freaking weird. Every early 20s guy dreamed on the 2 girl deal.
 
Hmmm didn't really start for me til my early teen years (late 80s)..I worked in a candy store that used to sell porn mags. I've always been a HUGE pantyhose leg man, so would love looking at Leg Show mags. The stories and pics in them started getting more n more into the interracial cuckold scene, which peeked my interest. After that, I was solely into black man/white woman sex especially if the white woman had pantyhose or stockings on. So fast forward, my wife wears nylons everytime we have sex and even for her 1st BBC sex 2 weeks ago while I watched ❤️
 
Tell us the story.
Before leaving England and moving to New York, I knew nothing about the lifestyle. I was a virgin, young, travelling alone for the first time away from my rural country village void of any diversity. I can tell you hubby knew nothing about the lifestyle before he got married to his first wife. By the time I met him, he had a very defined idea of who he wanted in his life after the failed marriage. He was introduced to a very liberating lifestyle and did not want to stuff the genie back in the box.

I was young 19, lived a sheltered life, now on my own in New York City and wanted very much to explore as much diversity as I could. The guy that took my virginity on the upper westside, was white, with a 7-inch cock. I did not remember much as I was drunk, but I did go back for more the next day and enjoyed that and remembered it. Then I met my husband, and the sex and ideas were liberating. No need to pretend, no need to hide my feelings and what I wanted.

We loved reggae and started hanging out at reggae clubs. I can still remember my first BBC. Mike had a fat 9-inch cock. I had never felt anything like it, the intensity, hardness, and the stamina. I was so turned on, I was in NYC and a black man was inside me, pounding me, going deeper than ever before and I was having one orgasm after another. I was being used by both my boyfriend, now husband and a BBC we met at the bar. I was young and scared the next morning not knowing what hubby would think of me, but it was all normal and exciting to him and he made me feel normal and excited as a result and I wanted more and I started planning for more.
 
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