There is more to a bull, than just fucking another man's wife. And couples any guy can have a big dick.... But can he use it properly? Also can he last for more than five minutes? There are components such as trust, cerebral and physical. Respect and not crossing boundaries. A friendship must present for all parties involved. Sex starts in the mind. A woman wants to know she is disired. She wants to kissed and touched. And just fucked. All of these aspect play a role in being a bull, and couples finding the guy that suits her. And for those who might disagree, you find plenty of assholes that will ruin the experience and make you think twice about the lifestyle. I have been a bull for over six years now. Learned many things and had good relationship with wives. Also I have ran into the negative side. Meaning the husband's who want to push their fantasies on their wives. It always not a good idea fellas! She has to be aboard, wanting the same thing. It is her that will be sharing her body with another man. And the same goes for the hubby. The bull has to have some type respect for you sharing your wife... No If the husband is cuck. Trust is the key to good relationship and sex. Some people may think giving up control is power. But quite the opposite. Trusting a person opens up exploring and letting go sexually. That's when the real fun happens in your sexually fantasies. And last for husband's who think it's the bull job to convince the wife. Your dead wrong.... His job is seduce, bring her pleasure. Text her at work. But a smile on your face... Make her feel special, think of the time they will see each other. Keeping her pussy wet from the tone of his voice. The little things go along way...