Why is that most married women won't admit to their husband that they enjoy having sex more with a well-hung guy.

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Before I met my husband, like most married women I played the field sexually and quickly discovered that guys that were granted the gift of a large penis were usually better lovers then their lesser endowered counterparts. Talking with my friends they basically all cherish their memory of making love to the well-endowered guys they were pleasured by, yet most women even deny ever having being pleasured by a well-hung lover let alone loving the way these guys filled or even stretched their pussy out, or the way he pounded her so deep, making her have one powerful orgasm after the other and made her beg for his cum, how she would do anything the guy wanted her to do sexually. Most don't even admit that the first guy she actually wanted to suck off was well above average in size because bigger cock just turns her on more.
 
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It took my wife 18 years before she told me about her biggest, by far and (clearly 😏) her most memorable… cock. It was a guy we both knew that she dated back in high school. That was the night after a few drinks at a casino, where she finally really began to open up to her deeper held sexual desires. It’s been a few years since that point and now, we’ve looked him up secretly and found where he’s living! No one appeared to be home and we didn’t stop but it was pretty exciting and a little unnerving to get to the point where she’s willing to go along with me and potentially catch up with the additional potential for considering a threesome.
She’s truly committed to me and our marriage is beyond important to us both, our love and sex are absolutely fantastic after 37 years together. So she never brings his name up unless I initiate it, when I do though we have her favorite dildo affectionately named after him. Virtually the same gigantic size 12” long x 8” girth and it’s always been a playful, “Okay, we can get D#^*** out! Haha” with a laughing tone. That’s till she’s got it inside her and she’s wet, thrusting, then it’s go time but she’s still consistently been ...... to actually say his name or talk about wanting and loving his cock. Until TONIGHT! 😉
We were laying in bed watching porn, rubbing, licking, nice foreplay when she said, “Now I’ll take “D^*#>n’s big dick!”
I held the base with my thighs and she got on top. Honestly, that girl riding and grinding on that toy, screaming out how hard she was cumming on this big cock and how much she loves it. I think she made me cum even harder than she did when she had me move behind and take her ass simultaneously. I didn’t last long once I pushed into her and could feel the friction alongside D&^*#n’s cock in her front. Productive week.
 
Because a great deal of the marriage is to manage the partner's feelings, expectations and keeping him interested in you, too.

To bluntly admit that a bigger cock is better or was better than what you have in home between husband's legs, could misfire in so many ways. A husband might feel unable to satisfy his wife in any way possible and the reactions could be worse. Detachment from the relationship, a runaway for porn or even leading him to look for another woman, hoping the new one would be then satisfied with his cock.

That is why most of the liberated wives or hotwives only open up about certain subjects, like what they love in other men bodies, way after the couple started to have sex with other people.

It takes time to open up about many of those things in sex, for most people. (wife).
 
It took my wife 18 years before she told me about her biggest, by far and (clearly 😏) her most memorable… cock. It was a guy we both knew that she dated back in high school. That was the night after a few drinks at a casino, where she finally really began to open up to her deeper held sexual desires. It’s been a few years since that point and now, we’ve looked him up secretly and found where he’s living! No one appeared to be home and we didn’t stop but it was pretty exciting and a little unnerving to get to the point where she’s willing to go along with me and potentially catch up with the additional potential for considering a threesome.
She’s truly committed to me and our marriage is beyond important to us both, our love and sex are absolutely fantastic after 37 years together. So she never brings his name up unless I initiate it, when I do though we have her favorite dildo affectionately named after him. Virtually the same gigantic size 12” long x 8” girth and it’s always been a playful, “Okay, we can get D#^*** out! Haha” with a laughing tone. That’s till she’s got it inside her and she’s wet, thrusting, then it’s go time but she’s still consistently been ...... to actually say his name or talk about wanting and loving his cock. Until TONIGHT! 😉
We were laying in bed watching porn, rubbing, licking, nice foreplay when she said, “Now I’ll take “D^*#>n’s big dick!”
I held the base with my thighs and she got on top. Honestly, that girl riding and grinding on that toy, screaming out how hard she was cumming on this big cock and how much she loves it. I think she made me cum even harder than she did when she had me move behind and take her ass simultaneously. I didn’t last long once I pushed into her and could feel the friction alongside D&^*#n’s cock in her front. Productive week.
Next time blindfold her, it will make it easier and more real for her, as she fantasises about fucking her ex-lover again
 
Because a great deal of the marriage is to manage the partner's feelings, expectations and keeping him interested in you, too.

To bluntly admit that a bigger cock is better or was better than what you have in home between husband's legs, could misfire in so many ways. A husband might feel unable to satisfy his wife in any way possible and the reactions could be worse. Detachment from the relationship, a runaway for porn or even leading him to look for another woman, hoping the new one would be then satisfied with his cock.

That is why most of the liberated wives or hotwives only open up about certain subjects, like what they love in other men bodies, way after the couple started to have sex with other people.

It takes time to open up about many of those things in sex, for most people. (wife).
Most women that won't admit to having a big cock preference is because of hubby's ego, but then they cum their little married pussy off on a big dildo while hubby either watches or fucks them with it, so hubby knows she into big dick anyway
 
My wife from day one was totally honest and open about her vast sexual past including her bisexuality and that she’d had group sex, what sex she preferred, sizes she had had and preferred obviously the largest was always the best and that if we were to continue dating she’d still have sex with others both with and without me being involved. This has suited us fine for our entire relationship.
 
Before I met my husband, like most married women I played the field sexually and quickly discovered that guys that were granted the gift of a large penis were usually better lovers then their lesser endowered counterparts. Talking with my friends they basically all cherish their memory of making love to the well-endowered guys they were pleasured by, yet most women even deny ever having a well-hung lover let alone loving the way these guys filled or even stretched their pussy out, the way he pounded her so deep, making her have one powerful orgasms one after the other and made her beg for his cum, how she would do anything the guy wanted her to do sexually. Most don't even admit that the first guy she actually wanted to suck off was well above average in size.
 
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First time several years I was filming her laying bed with a bog thick dildo,when she finally got most of it in her as she kept saying was to big, she went nuts she was shaking and panting for several minutes it was incredible watching her.
 
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First time several years I was filming her laying bed with a bog thick dildo,when she finally got most of it in her as she kept saying was to big, she went nuts she was shaking and panting for several minutes it was incredible watching her.
Obviously felt incredible for her as well
 
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First time several years I was filming her laying bed with a bog thick dildo,when she finally got most of it in her as she kept saying was to big, she went nuts she was shaking and panting for several minutes it was incredible watching her.
I've put on lots of dildo shows for my hubby, but the hottest show I did for him was one night he asked me to let two of his friends watch me fuck myself stupid with a new 8-inch dildo hubby had bought me just for the occasion, after the show hubby told me to pick which of the three of them I wanted to fuck, the choice was easy because they all had their dick out masturbating so I picked the guy with the biggest dick, so happened it wasn't my husband and I spent the whole night with his friend in the spare room and loved it
 
Because they grew up in a society that constantly told them that females who enjoy and want sex are bad, immoral and unclean. If she is so bold as to enjoy sex with men based on cock size or skin color then she is a slut, whore or trashy. Heaven forbid if she enjoys that sex unprotected because she enjoys creampies or just wants it to feel natural.

When Lisa first started fucking other men she was so worried about people finding out. She tried to sneak and get fucked lol. Luckily when we moved to NC and didn't know anyone she let loose and just enjoyed herself. For the first time she was fucking who she wanted, when she wanted and didn't give a ...... who knew or who they told. When we moved back to our hometown she couldn't "switch back" to being secretive and only getting fucked occasionally. She has gotten used to daily sex and she just accepted that people would know, judge her and talk about her and chose her own happiness instead of caring about them.
 
Because they grew up in a society that constantly told them that females who enjoy and want sex are bad, immoral and unclean. If she is so bold as to enjoy sex with men based on cock size or skin color then she is a slut, whore or trashy. Heaven forbid if she enjoys that sex unprotected because she enjoys creampies or just wants it to feel natural.

When Lisa first started fucking other men she was so worried about people finding out. She tried to sneak and get fucked lol. Luckily when we moved to NC and didn't know anyone she let loose and just enjoyed herself. For the first time she was fucking who she wanted, when she wanted and didn't give a ...... who knew or who they told. When we moved back to our hometown she couldn't "switch back" to being secretive and only getting fucked occasionally. She has gotten used to daily sex and she just accepted that people would know, judge her and talk about her and chose her own happiness instead of caring about them.
I’m so glad she was able to be herself sexually and experience sex with whom ever she desires it with, to hell with other people’s opinions.
 
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I’m so glad she was able to be herself sexually and experience sex with whom ever she desires it with, to hell with other people’s opinions.
Me too! I wanted that all along, but her fear of societal judgement was strong. It took some time and a lot of cock to change her way of thinking lol

The irony was when we moved back home and she approached me to tell me she wasn't "going back" to hiding it she thought I would be upset. It didn't take her long to realize I was far from upset and had zero desire for her to hide anything.
 
Me too! I wanted that all along, but her fear of societal judgement was strong. It took some time and a lot of cock to change her way of thinking lol

The irony was when we moved back home and she approached me to tell me she wasn't "going back" to hiding it she thought I would be upset. It didn't take her long to realize I was far from upset and had zero desire for her to hide anything.
I’ve always been lucky that my wife has never had any hang ups with her sexuality, her having sex with many many people both before and after we dated, her continuing all the way through our marriage we have been open and honest and don’t care who knows. It’s great that you got there too, it must be liberating.
 
Because feelings are a huge part in a relationship and most people dont want to know these things. Honestly, if I were to tell my wife she didnt give the best BJs or her pussy doesnt quite taste or feel as good as other girls I had been with, one of two things would happen. Either it would crush her or she would get uber defensive and say thing like well so and so doesnt complain or even worse, then go fuck those girls than. In a relationship, you have to be able to read the room.