Wife admits to fantasies

Justwantit

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May 21, 2023
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We have been married 4 years, the second marriage for both of us. I have recently discovered some secret writings my wife wrote about a guy we both know through work. We attend symposiums around the country and he is at most of them with his company. My wife often attends these meetings without me. Her thoughts are very specific, very romantic and discuss her intense emotions. My wife was away when I discovered this. On her return I brought up the subject, I was angry, felt let down but, also excited. After a lot of discussions we realized that this just a fantasy of hers. I told her it made me horny. She then told me one of the few times she had watched porn and was turned on by it was when watching a husband share his wife. She also told me of another fantasy, being fucked by more than one guy. I have always been turned on by the thought of someone else’s cock fucking her, pre this, so we decided that a couple of times a month we would take turns in exploring fantasies. She has told me she doesn’t actually want to fuck anyone else but I would really like that to happen. How do I take this bit by bit to the next stage? PS I’m aware of and have considered the potential problems.
 
Communication and trust. We never would have started this journey if she didn’t trust me. When I brought this up her first thought was I wanted to sleep with other woman. Before she brought it up, I was telling her that I did not want to sleep with other women, this was all about her enjoying other men (bigger cocks). She believed me and a few months later my birthday present was her sleeping with another man while I was at work. I also never pushed her to where she was uncomfortable.

About the fantasy of wanting to be fucked by more than one guy, all women have that one. Even when my wife was shy and not confident, she admitted to having that fantasy.
 
Encouragement, assurance that YOU won't fuck this up like most guys do when they get jealous over how she responds to the new guy, and accept that SHE is a sexual being in and of herself and YOU do not have the button to turn her on and off (like most fantasizing dolts on here profess) and SHE will run the show sexually, not she stops when YOU play with your peepee long enough that it spurts and your brain flips from left to right and YOU are no longer horny, but she and her Lover have just hit second gear and you are not needed!!

If you can do that, proceed. Realize that 99% of what you read here is masturbatory fantasy posted by guys that want to use their wifes pussy to attract cocks to up their cock countbecause they can't attract guys them selves. It takes a STRONG guy to provceed with this, not the simperng wimps that you read about mostly here. It's like a new toy but BETTER.....she will WANT sex with the new guy MORE than you ever saw her display with you, and you either go along with that (once the horse is out of the barn) or you risk losing her.

If not, keep it a fantasy in the bedroom. And PARTICULARLY if any of you fantasies revole around well hung Lovers, or especially her with Black Lovers!!

CW (BEEN THERE, DONE THAT)
 
We have been married 4 years, the second marriage for both of us. I have recently discovered some secret writings my wife wrote about a guy we both know through work. We attend symposiums around the country and he is at most of them with his company. My wife often attends these meetings without me. Her thoughts are very specific, very romantic and discuss her intense emotions. My wife was away when I discovered this. On her return I brought up the subject, I was angry, felt let down but, also excited. After a lot of discussions we realized that this just a fantasy of hers. I told her it made me horny. She then told me one of the few times she had watched porn and was turned on by it was when watching a husband share his wife. She also told me of another fantasy, being fucked by more than one guy. I have always been turned on by the thought of someone else’s cock fucking her, pre this, so we decided that a couple of times a month we would take turns in exploring fantasies. She has told me she doesn’t actually want to fuck anyone else but I would really like that to happen. How do I take this bit by bit to the next stage? PS I’m aware of and have considered the potential problems.
I am not an expert but it seem everyone wants to go from the wife has a fantasy to the husband wants to leap 12 steps and wants her to fuck other guys.

Fact is it may always just remain a fantasy so enjoy that. If you dont enjoy the fantasy you are missing out waiting on your pot of gold that may not ever appear.

If you want it and right now she doesnt - take it in steps but enjoy every step of the way because it may not go any further. Always keep it alive but dont push her. You want her to want to do it - the worst thing that can happen is that she does it to appease you and then she regrets doing it and holds it against you.
 
I am not an expert but it seem everyone wants to go from the wife has a fantasy to the husband wants to leap 12 steps and wants her to fuck other guys.

Fact is it may always just remain a fantasy so enjoy that. If you dont enjoy the fantasy you are missing out waiting on your pot of gold that may not ever appear.

If you want it and right now she doesnt - take it in steps but enjoy every step of the way because it may not go any further. Always keep it alive but dont push her. You want her to want to do it - the worst thing that can happen is that she does it to appease you and then she regrets doing it and holds it against you.
Very well said. Many on here... I won't need to mention the one KC...
Get lost in their own fantasy that is not about their wives at all. It is all about *them.* They get so lost in it, that they make everything about it and not only do they alienate the lady in their lives, but they show who they really only care about.
 
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The closest I've come to becoming a cuckold was with my first wife. I talked her into dildoing herself in web chat rooms whilst guys jerked off watching her. She got really into it, and enjoyed watching them cum looking at her.
Sounds like fun Love to jerk off to her too 4 u