Been down this road. First thongs and panties Then smaller to larger butt plugs. Next up the medium strapon which i could only suck until i could take it down my throat. From there it went to the large strapon which i also had to learn to deep throat. She went slow and gentle till she had me ready. The first time taking the strapon up my ass she was slow and gentle. After i overcame the slight pain and humiliation i found i liked it. It went from slow and gentle to hard, fast and rough. Sometimes slow and sensual depending on her mood. We still had normal sex but she introduced me to cleaning her creampies after i had finished. Then the conversation came up later on would i be up to taking a real mans cock. I was afraid of admitting i would only if she was involved During a world class blowjob one evening, which doesn' happen often i admitted i would try a real man if she wanted me to. She played me well. Hasn't happened yet but the sex has been great talking about it. Enjoy you progression i know i have.