Wife cheated and now I'm confused

A lot of men share similar stories. This is how they end up in the Hotwife lifestyle. Once you face the music and your wife doesn't leave you after the affair. You both have a realization. She realizes that its not about the emotions and more about the sex and you realize the same thing. You learn that her pleasure turns you on (Hints why you like hearing about the sex when you have sex) but in order to not feel humiliated you'd want to have control. That comes next time by helping to deciding who she fucks next. This is a way of resolving both your ideal of seeing her with someone but also feeling that you some control over the situation. Consider, if you are open to it in the future. Picking the gentleman with her and going from there. Just some friendly advice to anyone in the same situation.
I’m many cases the cheating does not result in the husband becoming a cuckold. That’s pie in the sky nonsense. The woman gets up and walks out on him……divorce. People should stop fantasising and look at the reality.
 
I’m many cases the cheating does not result in the husband becoming a cuckold. That’s pie in the sky nonsense. The woman gets up and walks out on him……divorce. People should stop fantasising and look at the reality.
Well I suppose that is true in some cases but what we are talking about on this site is married couples that enjoy the cuckold lifestyle and my wife cheated on me quite a few times she liked to sneak around on me at one point in time and I would find out about it sometimes and she told me she did it a lot of times where I didn’t know ,now she could have just openly went with lovers but she enjoyed the sneaking around on me and I can’t lie I liked it too , I was asleep one time and she tipped toed out of the house while I was sleeping she got a quick fuck in her lovers car and sneaked back in and I woke up with her straddling my head her pussy in my face I said what’s going on she said shut up I’m feeding you your breakfast and guess what I ate my cum breakfast lol my wife and I have been together a long time she dominates me and she cuckolds me she had long time lovers before that kind of made me scared but she reassured me that she not leaving me she said why should I leave I have total sexual freedom with you I do what ever I want and besides she said it’s so much fun fucking over my fool cuckold husband , I’m not ready to be some kind of house wife , I’m her house wife lol
 
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I’m many cases the cheating does not result in the husband becoming a cuckold. That’s pie in the sky nonsense. The woman gets up and walks out on him……divorce. People should stop fantasising and look at the reality.
Sure it does. A cuckold is a man whose wife is unfaithful.
 
Show us all the evidence she cheated?. I bet you have less than zero. So in that case. Fuck you too dickhead.
No One Need To Prove Anything To Anyone!!! If YOU Don’t Like Something..Move On..Don’t Think For Others!!! …This site is for people who live this lifestyle and for others that dream about it…if it’s not your thing..Move On..
We All Know This World/Lifestyle Is Definitely Not For Everyone!!!
 
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No One Need To Prove Anything To Anyone!!! If YOU Don’t Like Something..Move On..Don’t Think For Others!!! …This site is for people who live this lifestyle and for others that dream about it…if it’s not your thing..Move On..
We All Know This World/Lifestyle Is Definitely Not For Everyone!!!
Glad you embrace bullshit lies. And yes, proof is needed considering most of what is written here is absolute bullshit: happy you believe it though lol


Bellow is a picture of a real Hotwife/ex porn actress for you. Enjoy.

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Glad you embrace bullshit lies. And yes, proof is needed considering most of what is written here is absolute bullshit: happy you believe it though lol


Bellow is a picture of a real Hotwife/ex porn actress for you. Enjoy.

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If I felt that this site was all bull shit I wouldn’t go on it and well I guess there is some who use it for jerk off material and that’s cool but I think the large majority are really in cuckold marriages and relationship or are considering it and are curious about the life style , I enjoy reading about the different ways that couples deal with cuckolding and to me it’s really good , I feel cuckolding saves a lot of marriages I know it helped my wife and I and this site well it showed us that we aren’t alone that we are part of a community as crazy as that might sound
 
Glad you embrace bullshit lies. And yes, proof is needed considering most of what is written here is absolute bullshit: happy you believe it though lol


Bellow is a picture of a real Hotwife/ex porn actress for you. Enjoy.

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No one is forcing you to read anything here. If you think it's bullshit, then move on. Trying to ruin our enjoyment is disingenuous.
 
No one is forcing you to read anything here. If you think it's bullshit, then move on. Trying to ruin our enjoyment is disingenuous.
What disingenuous is trying to pass a fake story off as a real one. That’s why there is a fantasy section. Real members don’t appreciate the BS. If I see it I will be calling them out.
 
What disingenuous is trying to pass a fake story off as a real one. That’s why there is a fantasy section. Real members don’t appreciate the BS. If I see it I will be calling them out.
Slow down what are you a false cuckold story crusader lol what the hell do you care just enjoy the stories for what they are stories what are you fact checking maybe we should submit these stories with sworn witness affidavits lol come on just tell your story and try get some enjoyment I know I been in a femdom cuckold marriage for 20 years my wife doesn’t care to participate on this site she allows me to do so providing I don’t reveal our true names no full facial photos because it could have a negative impact on her business and her career and of course I’m not allowed to hook up or even do like phone sex it’s just for fun so I just don’t care if the stories are true or false I like to read them and react to them it’s fun
 
Slow down what are you a false cuckold story crusader lol what the hell do you care just enjoy the stories for what they are stories what are you fact checking maybe we should submit these stories with sworn witness affidavits lol come on just tell your story and try get some enjoyment I know I been in a femdom cuckold marriage for 20 years my wife doesn’t care to participate on this site she allows me to do so providing I don’t reveal our true names no full facial photos because it could have a negative impact on her business and her career and of course I’m not allowed to hook up or even do like phone sex it’s just for fun so I just don’t care if the stories are true or false I like to read them and react to them it’s fun
As I said if you bothered to listen. A txt message with the name and photo blanked out is enough. If you can’t do that it’s bullshit. The excuse that we want total privacy is a bullshit excuse. My wife and I are intensely private. We have no issue with providing blanked out photos and txt messages, nobody knows it’s us. Fake shit should be in the fantasy section. Period.
 
As I said if you bothered to listen. A txt message with the name and photo blanked out is enough. If you can’t do that it’s bullshit. The excuse that we want total privacy is a bullshit excuse. My wife and I are intensely private. We have no issue with providing blanked out photos and txt messages, nobody knows it’s us. Fake shit should be in the fantasy section.
As I said if you bothered to listen. A txt message with the name and photo blanked out is enough. If you can’t do that it’s bullshit. The excuse that we want total privacy is a bullshit excuse. My wife and I are intensely private. We have no issue with providing blanked out photos and txt messages, nobody knows it’s us. Fake shit should be in the fantasy section. Period.
Your like a broken record let it go you don’t believe the stories fuck it your obsessed with this stuff it makes me think you must be spewing large loads bull shit
 
Your like a broken record let it go you don’t believe the stories fuck it your obsessed with this stuff it makes me think you must be spewing large loads bull shit
As said I will call it out if I see it…….that’s a third time for you, open your ears. I don’t give a fuck about what you think. If you like BS, don’t force others to have to see it here.
 
As said I will call it out if I see it…….that’s a third time for you, open your ears. I don’t give a fuck about what you think. If you like BS, don’t force others to have to see it
As said I will call it out if I see it…….that’s a third time for you, open your ears. I don’t give a fuck about what you think. If you like BS, don’t force others to have to see it here.




I’m trying to be as diplomatic as I can with you , femdom and cuckolding was first and idea to me then for a short time it became a fantasy to me , then when my wife came into my life it became a reality and our lifestyle more or less , we don’t have kids so we have a little more freedom to live this life style now that being said we do have jobs and obligations in the straight world so we have to proceed with some caution ,I understand that for some people ,for various reasons they can’t move beyond the fantasy ( I really think that you fall in that category ) I'm fine with that fantasy or reality it’s all good I have no problem either way , I enjoy this site if you have problems with it sign out don’t be a downer a party pooper
 
I've always had a thing for imagining my wife being with other people. We have been a long term couple and haven't had many partners outside of us. I've kinda felt guilty about taking my wife's youth and fun away due to us having a child young. In the past years my wife my wife has become hyper sexual. My wife has opened up about some past experiences and hearing them has turned me on, but thinking this way makes me feel odd and werid about myself.

She has a thing for people of color which also plays into my imagination.

She has brought up being with other people but I shot down her idea. I wanted to say yes but I was worried about how she would judge me or would have me losing her.

More then a couple months ago my wife cheated on me. Thinking about it turns me on but the person she cheated with and how she handled it afterwards has really effected me mentally.

She has told me details of the event and they have turned me on. My wife is slim thick and attracts a lot of attention that she doesn't notice. I really don't blame guys for wanting my wife. She has a nice thick round ass that is so soft with big tits to match. She has thick full lips that she loves to use and loves to suck dick. She's pretty in the face as well.

It turns me on that she was bent over and another guy was railing her. She loves getting fucked from behind.

She is an attention whore and love attention.

My feelings feel so conflicted and I have no idea what to do.

I would love to chat about my wife's experiences with someone and get other people's insight.
I’ve had a very similar thing and my wife is very similar (thick ass, attention whore etc). It’s weird to process and can get you anxious too knowing what they got up to (mine did stuff she don’t do with me). DM me if you wanna chat more
 
I’ve had a very similar thing and my wife is very similar (thick ass, attention whore etc). It’s weird to process and can get you anxious too knowing what they got up to (mine did stuff she don’t do with me). DM me if you wanna chat more
Big ass attention whore you have to be talking about my wife lol
 

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I've always had a thing for imagining my wife being with other people. We have been a long term couple and haven't had many partners outside of us. I've kinda felt guilty about taking my wife's youth and fun away due to us having a child young. In the past years my wife my wife has become hyper sexual. My wife has opened up about some past experiences and hearing them has turned me on, but thinking this way makes me feel odd and werid about myself.

She has a thing for people of color which also plays into my imagination.

She has brought up being with other people but I shot down her idea. I wanted to say yes but I was worried about how she would judge me or would have me losing her.

More then a couple months ago my wife cheated on me. Thinking about it turns me on but the person she cheated with and how she handled it afterwards has really effected me mentally.

She has told me details of the event and they have turned me on. My wife is slim thick and attracts a lot of attention that she doesn't notice. I really don't blame guys for wanting my wife. She has a nice thick round ass that is so soft with big tits to match. She has thick full lips that she loves to use and loves to suck dick. She's pretty in the face as well.

It turns me on that she was bent over and another guy was railing her. She loves getting fucked from behind.

She is an attention whore and love attention.

My feelings feel so conflicted and I have no idea what to do.

I would love to chat about my wife's experiences with someone and get other people's insight.
Sounds like you opened a can of worms with some trying to help and some trying to cause trouble.
These kinds of things can cause a lot of emotional confusion how are you feeling now?
 
Sounds like you opened a can of worms with some trying to help and some trying to cause trouble.
These kinds of things can cause a lot of emotional confusion how are you feeling now?
Honestly I have no idea, my feels are all over the place. I'm very intrigued by it but I'm still hurt and nervous about it.

I did open a can of worms but I'm trying to contain the spillage.
 
What disingenuous is trying to pass a fake story off as a real one. That’s why there is a fantasy section. Real members don’t appreciate the BS. If I see it I will be calling them out.
Sure is a good thing you're here to protect us from what you think is BS. I guess we should all check in with you as the truth police before reading.

I will say I enjoy your stories, be it fiction or non-fiction.
 
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