It has happened to me several times and I think I am correct in saying that they were tears of joy. I am in this lifestyle because I love the incredible fulfillment that this lifestyle offers to all the parties that can only be created by the "magic of 3"; a wife with two men dedicated to her sexual, emotional, and romantic fulfillment, a lover who revels in helping her enjoy all of her freedom, and a cuckold who enjoys enabling, witnessing, and participating.
All my relationships have been with mature couples where I was either her first Bull or the wife had not dated in a long time with the husband being the instigator. Often mature wives have a challenge in embracing the lifestyle for all the normal reasons but also in sometimes lacking confidence in their attractiveness and desirability. On the other hand they are often at the stage of life where they have the time and emotional maturity to fully realize all the pleasure, romance, and excitement of new love in their life. However, in my opinion it doesn't just happen and it often requires an investment of time on the part of the Bull and the aspiring cuck to make it happen.
It has been my experience that going too slow has never resulted in failure but going to fast has. I believe that what works best with a new mature wife is to become her lover before sex ever takes place.
For me this usually involves a lot of social interaction first with the couple then with the wife with increasing levels of intimacy. Coffee, lunch, dinner, romantic dinners and eventually sex. All of this has been discussed with the aspiring cuck as I make it clear from the outset that we are partners in her pleasure.
After the wife and I have become comfortably intimate I like to take the wife away for a romantic weekend with a view to establishing that we are going to be "together" as a couple from now on, and with the cuck having already committed to being on board. Typically on the evening of the final full day away I will give her some new sexy lingerie and I will suggest that we ... call the cuckold.
The separated reality of she and I together standing partially naked arm in arm and him at home is actually very powerful. I thank him for his support in enabling us having an incredible weekend of romance and pleasure. Then I tell him that I think that she and I are crazy about each other as I kiss her and cup her breast. Then I ask her if we are and she nods as we kiss again and then I tell him that I think that she and I are falling in love and that we want to be committed to each other. At this point I look at her and tell her how much I want her and that I hope she wants me. This is the moment that has resulted in tears of joy where she has said how much she wants me, or loves me, or on several occasions has told me he has never wanted a man as much as she wants me.
Then we make love while the husband watches and end our weekend as wife and boyfriend. Needless to say, the return home is emotional but with a new level of intimacy with constant touching between the wife and I in the cucks presence greatly increased but yet natural and easy. Once the emotional/sexual bond has been created so many other possibilities in the triad open up.
We eventually make love and I have found that inviting the cuck to guide me into her is the final affirmation that the wife is now mine. A couple of times this was discussed with the cuck beforehand and the cuck knew I was going to say to him "would you like to guide me into her". This has brought more tears a few times and also resulted in the cuck shooting his load.
Of course, this is all going to seem very contrived to some but I believe it is my job to give the wife the experience of a lifetime and create the emotional space for her to give herself to me completely with all the pleasure, romance, and excitement that comes with it-which is an incredible thing to experience.``