My wife is in her 40s while Im in my 50s. After a talk about my ED problems, the discussion turned to her ability to enjoy sex with my declining ability. She has only been with one other person beside me and occasionally mentions how she wishes she had more experiences. She seems to enjoy hearing fantasies about her and another guy but has been a bit conservative with regards to these type of ideas. I never push and want her to decide if and how she wants to experience the hotwife lifestyle when and if shes ready.
Well the other day she brought up the idea that she wanted to have this experience but without me there for the encounter. She stated that having me there would be awkward. I understand and frankly, Im ok with her having the experience by herself. Now here is the kicker and wasnt what I was ready to hear. She wants to have sex with a young stripper. While she didnt say, Im thinking thats her trying to avoid having an emotional bond. She doesnt want to do it with anyone we know and hesitant to try a stranger even though we would meet the person first to see if theres a connection.
Im trying to understand the pitfalls from having her first time being with a stripper. We would probably have to have them screened to ensure they are clean. Im thinking this may serve as a springboard for more casual people after this 1st experience.
Any thoughts ideas or concerns for following this method for a first time?
Thanks for the feedback
Well the other day she brought up the idea that she wanted to have this experience but without me there for the encounter. She stated that having me there would be awkward. I understand and frankly, Im ok with her having the experience by herself. Now here is the kicker and wasnt what I was ready to hear. She wants to have sex with a young stripper. While she didnt say, Im thinking thats her trying to avoid having an emotional bond. She doesnt want to do it with anyone we know and hesitant to try a stranger even though we would meet the person first to see if theres a connection.
Im trying to understand the pitfalls from having her first time being with a stripper. We would probably have to have them screened to ensure they are clean. Im thinking this may serve as a springboard for more casual people after this 1st experience.
Any thoughts ideas or concerns for following this method for a first time?
Thanks for the feedback
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