Will it always just remain a fantasy?

[rmack]

Hello and thank you for reading my post.

So this has been a fantasy of mine for quite some time now which is to watch my partner have sex with another man preferably a man that is larger in the downstairs department than myself. We are in our mid thirties and our sex life is fantastic we have discussed these fantasies on and off over the years but it nothing has ever came to fruition. The questions I have received back from her was what would I do with 2 cocks at once and also once she asked who would we use, my answer to this was we would need to find somebody for example from fab etc as I don’t want it being someone we know , also I must mention a few weeks later when I approached the subject again and she outright asked me basically if I would like to watch someone else have sex with her I thought I should just say yes and see what happens so I did and it wasn’t to good of a response.
When I use larger dildos on her it honestly makes me think how good the real thing would be and I also know her past partner had a bwc so that thought weirdly turns me on ,

My question basically is ?

Should I approach the subject in a different manner if so how ?

 

[AspiringCuck]

let her sit with it , think about it , the seed has been planted , water it slowly and subtly , let her get annoyed at herself for fantasising it then let her realise that she can’t stop , let her come to you, let her know you love her

 

[rmack]

Thank you for the reply I appreciate it , the problem I have is I haven’t brought it up in some time maybe September last year so I can almost say for certain she won’t be thinking about it …. How do I go about it bringing it up again because the last time it was left as a no 😂😩

 

[AspiringCuck]

i’m in the same situation haha, i’ll get back to you when i have an answer bro 😭

 

[slyone80]

I have been wondering the same. Been going over 2 years and sometimes it seems like we are close but then nothing. We do have dildo play weekly and even have her name the dildos with names. Just so when she ask for the dildo, it’s a guys name. She seems to enjoy playing with two cocks but mentions bringing in a real cock will cause marriage issues. I try to explain to her it is more about sexual pleasure and fun. Hoping one day it will happen but we shall see.

 

[Joecde3vfr4]

Hello and thank you for reading my post.

So this has been a fantasy of mine for quite some time now which is to watch my partner have sex with another man preferably a man that is larger in the downstairs department than myself. We are in our mid thirties and our sex life is fantastic we have discussed these fantasies on and off over the years but it nothing has ever came to fruition. The questions I have received back from her was what would I do with 2 cocks at once and also once she asked who would we use, my answer to this was we would need to find somebody for example from fab etc as I don’t want it being someone we know , also I must mention a few weeks later when I approached the subject again and she outright asked me basically if I would like to watch someone else have sex with her I thought I should just say yes and see what happens so I did and it wasn’t to good of a response.
When I use larger dildos on her it honestly makes me think how good the real thing would be and I also know her past partner had a bwc so that thought weirdly turns me on ,

My question basically is ?

Should I approach the subject in a different manner if so how ?

Sometimes fantasies are better than reality. My wife was in the lifestyle with her first husband and ended up leaving him for his best friend who was one of their lovers.

I am sure it was amazing when it first happened and he got to watch a huge cock stretch her for the first time. Afterwards her husband got jealous and started giving her a hard time about enjoying his huge cock so much.

She now says be careful what you wish for because it might not turn out so well in the end… I still wish I had video of that huge cock trying to forse its way inside her for the first time though! She said the very first time he could barely get the head inside her young pussy.

 

[Dinges69]

let her sit with it , think about it , the seed has been planted , water it slowly and subtly , let her get annoyed at herself for fantasising it then let her realise that she can’t stop , let her come to you, let her know you love her

This worked for us, discussed it in August and saw her fucking another guy in December (2022)

 

[rmack]

Sometimes fantasies are better than reality. My wife was in the lifestyle with her first husband and ended up leaving him for his best friend who was one of their lovers.

I am sure it was amazing when it first happened and he got to watch a huge cock stretch her for the first time. Afterwards her husband got jealous and started giving her a hard time about enjoying his huge cock so much.

She now says be careful what you wish for because it might not turn out so well in the end… I still wish I had video of that huge cock trying to forse its way inside her for the first time though! She said the very first time he could barely get the head inside her young pussy.

Yes I agree sometimes they are better left as a fantasy but on this occasion I just can’t lol I want to watch what you described “a big cock stretching her out “ she seems to think I would get jealous and annoyed but i have reassured her I wouldn’t , we have spoken about same room sex no swapping with another couple but I honestly think it’s going to need to be a visit to a swingers club or I have also thought about getting her a massage 😏