Will she ever try it?

[Jtmd2015]

Quick detail

I have created this couples account as I think my gf will be up for a hotwife situation soon.

We’ve previously fucked on cam for people and she enjoyed it. She loves being topless on holiday and showing her body off. We went for a walk along the beach one morning and she took her top off and walked for miles with her tits out. Knowing men were looking. Which she loved. But when I bring it up she gets shy.

I know she checks other men out and also likes women.

When I mentioned things like this shy gets defensive but still does them in the moment. So she doesn’t like me talking about them but likes to do them.

She knows I like hotwife porn and I’ve ‘jokingly’ said we should try this. She shuts it down but I don’t know if this is the same as talking about her flashing but then does it, or seriously doesn’t want to.

Any thoughts or advice? Other than straight up asking her 😂

 

[TheDrkKnight]

I just talked about this in another post. Maybe she is not open to talking about the situation but if you know she likes the attention from guys when her tits are out maybe try taking her out to a club and letting her dance with other guys. Sometimes the situation you want to happen just happens without ever talking about it. More of a "do first and talk about it after" type situation. But it sounds like you are heading in the direction you want simply for the fact she is into girls and is open to showing herself off to others! Good luck to you!

 

[Jtmd2015]

Thanks for your reply and advice! I thought about this, her being in the situation would show her true feelings on it. I’ll try that soon. probably getting ahead of myself by talking about mmf etc to her when I’m fully invested in it and she likely doesn’t think of it as an option. Also need to reiterate that it’s not an excuse for me wanting to be with other women

 

[Jtmd2015]

Anyone have anymore thoughts?

 

[MikeHotWife1989]

Few tips based on our journey
- You should have a solid relationship. u didn't mention your dynamics and relationship foundation. this important. for most women, they naturally feel unsafe on hotwifing. So if your relationship is not strong enough, they will be hesitant to do it
- You know your partner the best. we are just giving advices on some limited information. Collect as many of experience sharing posts as you can on this website or other resources. Then develop a long term strategy for your partner towards to the final goal with many small milestones. each milestone counts
- patience. expect it gonna take few years to materialize your dream.

 

[Giani]

Anyone have anymore thoughts?

Same situation as you. For now is a lonely road for me , a fantasy that may or not happen, I won’t pushi it.

 

[Jtmd2015]

Few tips based on our journey
- You should have a solid relationship. u didn't mention your dynamics and relationship foundation. this important. for most women, they naturally feel unsafe on hotwifing. So if your relationship is not strong enough, they will be hesitant to do it
- You know your partner the best. we are just giving advices on some limited information. Collect as many of experience sharing posts as you can on this website or other resources. Then develop a long term strategy for your partner towards to the final goal with many small milestones. each milestone counts
- patience. expect it gonna take few years to materialize your dream.

That’s for the advice. We are in a very solid relationship, so that’s a good start! Fully committed and know we will stay that way. I do think i should start by doing more adventurous acts between us both. Before bringing anything else up. She’s happy to do these.

I’ll take it slow for now and keep trying small things at a time. Hopefully get her comfortable trying newer experiences before potentially moving on

 

[memories]

As mentioned, need to be in solid relationship..wife and I had started talking about other sex partners and I told her one of my fantasies was to see her with another man, and since we are in deep south USA, a black man..After she understood it wasnt because I wanted another woman, she opened up a bit. She was basically shy, but I started getting her sexier clothes, took her to nice lounges etc, and finally one night we met a man (in her same profession) and joined him at a dance place in a nice hotel. He asked her to dance and from there our life began. He was soon touching her butt, pulling her into him, nibbling her neck and she was happy to accept it. We went to leave and he came out with us,them holding hands..She backed up agains our car and he put his hands up her blouse, kissing her and playing with her breasts (no bra). He was a white man, but we soon broke into the IRL
That started our adventure, many wonderful memories.

 

[3xcuck4bbc]

Quick detail

I have created this couples account as I think my gf will be up for a hotwife situation soon.

We’ve previously fucked on cam for people and she enjoyed it. She loves being topless on holiday and showing her body off. We went for a walk along the beach one morning and she took her top off and walked for miles with her tits out. Knowing men were looking. Which she loved. But when I bring it up she gets shy.

I know she checks other men out and also likes women.

When I mentioned things like this shy gets defensive but still does them in the moment. So she doesn’t like me talking about them but likes to do them.

She knows I like hotwife porn and I’ve ‘jokingly’ said we should try this. She shuts it down but I don’t know if this is the same as talking about her flashing but then does it, or seriously doesn’t want to.

Any thoughts or advice? Other than straight up asking her 😂

You’re not married. Even divorce is on the table in marriages but for bf/gf situations I bet she either breaks up with you to be with someone else.

 

[Jtmd2015]

You’re not married. Even divorce is on the table in marriages but for bf/gf situations I bet she either breaks up with you to be with someone else.

Ah ok. Thanks for the feedback