Wives only: how’d you get started?

[Riko&Hubs]

I’d like know your stories, wives! I’m going to assume that we’re all here because we want to be—even if it took a while to fall in love with the lifestyle—however we got here, so the answers reflect that.

You can vote without your vote being made public, but I hope you’ll tell your story in the comments!

 

[Riko&Hubs]

My husband talked me into it. It took more than a year from the first time he mentioned it, but, he raised it again when I’d had time to think about it and generally get braver, and a woman on a board we’re on convinced me that I should try black cock at least once in my life, so I did. Fast forward a couple years and I’m equal opportunity as far as color goes, and I’ve had more than 60 hotwife dates and more than 20 bulls. I had a slow start, partly because I moved a lot and lives in some small towns and spent a year living with hub’s folks during the pandemic, but now I’m really excited and determined to make up for lost time

 

[GwenA92]

My husband knew my ex was black and way bigger than him because he found a dick pic on my phone. He told me to invite my ex over for a threesome. That was 9 years and many bbc ago.

 

[SianNewell]

When I first started dating my hubby I was casually seeing four other guys, one was hubby’s married friend who had been fucking me for a few years when the mood took us.

Hubby had had a crush on me for a few years and finally asked me out on a date. On the date he said he knew his friend was fucking me and that he understood that until we got serious he knew I’d continue. I then told him about the other three guys and that if he wanted to continue dating me that I would continue with them and see where we are in the future, he agreed.

This went on for about three months of us dating and hubby being to nervous to fuck me, we went out on dates, meals, cinema, concerts and he’d just kiss me goodnight. He knew I was having sex with the three guys and his friend but didn’t mind. I noticed that I was falling for him and he was definitely for me, so I decided to speak to him and take charge and fuck him.

So on our date night I took him to my place and took him to bed. He was extremely nervous and before we began he said he was extremely tiny down below and that he came quick and couldn’t satisfy a woman. So I made him strip and his tiny little thing was pathetic but I really liked him as a person so I took my clothes off, laid him down sucked him hard and put his little thing in me and rode it for about 20 seconds before he came inside me. After that I told him if he wanted a relationship with me it would entail me fucking other guys and he could either watch or I’d do it on my own.

That was over thirty years ago and we are still happily married.

Sian. Xx

 

[JMNBABE]

Technically, I cheated although I told hubby before we actually had sex (intercourse). We had done pretty much everything else by then. Guy at work started speding too much time chatting me up, complimenting me, etc....I was smitten by the attention, started encouraging him (dressing sexier, more make up, extra perfume, flirted back, etc) but when I had to "work late Friday" I had to admit it to hubby.......luckily he was caught up in my excitement, encouraged me, and now I have affairs when the mood strikes and the right guy is interested. J (the wife)

 

[Riko&Hubs]

Technically, I cheated although I told hubby before we actually had sex (intercourse). We had done pretty much everything else by then. Guy at work started speding too much time chatting me up, complimenting me, etc....I was smitten by the attention, started encouraging him (dressing sexier, more make up, extra perfume, flirted back, etc) but when I had to "work late Friday" I had to admit it to hubby.......luckily he was caught up in my excitement, encouraged me, and now I have affairs when the mood strikes and the right guy is interested. J (the wife)

I love your story! The actual cheating stories that end in hotwifing are super hot, too, and I’m always happy when hotwifing saves a marriage,

BUT

Even just thinking about cheating in a non-non monogamous relationship makes me feel a little bit sick! Not from judgement or anything like that, but from the stress I know that would cause me! I’m not at all a pure person, but I am a terrible liar. Even small lies by omission make so nervous! Cheating would Just make me actually crazy!

 

[Vincenzo]

My husband told me that he'd love to see me fuck a big dick. After months of us watching porn, role playing and talking dirty, I made it happen. I told him afterwards that I would have made it happen sooner, but I was worried about his male ego and how he'd handle being naked next to him due to their size difference

 

[Elja1]

Well I cheated at least I thought so. Hubby and my gym trainer worked out a deal where my gym trainer was to seduce me. Took him a little over a year but I caved one time and had some of the best sex ever at the time. On the way home I got the guilts knowing I cheated on my hubby of 23 years. When I got home he met me at the door and tried to get playful but I told him I needed a shower from my workout. After taking what seemed like an hour shower to get that dirty feeling I went out and sat with Hubby. A couple of minutes and I was crying and blurting out my infidelity to him ,the whole time he was smiling. He finally calmed me down and explained what they had done . We talked for several more hours about it and realized I was hooked, we set ground rules that are not to be broken and I've been fortunate over the last 9 years to have had some of the best sex yet with some gorgeous well endowed men