Well it does not work for everyone, it has to be a mutual agreement, for it to work. It has worked out for us but the lifestyle is not for everyone. Please be sure she is totally on board before making it happen. If and when it does it can be the ultimate experience if you both let it be. Good Luck
I never asked to watch my wife with her lover. On a Valentine’s Day, as I was dressing her for her date, she told me I could watch that evening, but I had to be caged. Needless to say, they caged went on and I watched for the first time that night.