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In another post I commented how I discovered how my GF fucked a hung guy. That was not cheating from her view, as we had a big argue and she broke up with me just some hours before she had sex with him.

After that, we solved our differences and now we have less sex than ever...'Im 29 and she is 27. Not having sex is not normal at our age...

I feel suspicious about her and I want to test that...

As I already commented in the previous post, now I feel a big turn on knowing my GF was fucked by a huge dick. I wank thinking on that... imagining her having great orgasms from him... something I can't do by myself.

I normally go every second week to visit my parents. Which takes me all the weekend there. And when I'm coming back home on Sunday I feel something happened. But I don't know if it is my dirty minds what makes me think those things...

I was thinking on installing some hidden cams at home.

Does anyone here recommend what to do??
cameras buddy!
 
What I mean is if she doesn't let you be there and enjoy, that's cheating, not cuckolding!

I still think she is a slut. There are lot of women like that, I'm not surprised at all.
I know, some members of this group already told me. But as I explained, my case is slightly different as we are not married yet.

My relationship is not strong enough to push that much in any direction.

I'm fucking in love with my GF. I know I'm in a very weak position, and I assume it. But I think that if I can do this, and she starts giving me more chances to share those dates, once married, we are going to be even a stronger couple.

My deepest fear is she starts confusing pleasure with love. And this guy is doing a very good job there, while she never had an orgasms with me, now she says she cums 12-15 times each time with him. I can't compete with that, that's clear. But I felt she is coming back to me very happy and we have good quality boyfriend's time the rest of the week.

So somehow I think she is starting to understand she can have the benefits of the two sides.

I just need to work in my own sexual necessities, wich is participating a little bit more in the sessions. That's all.
 
Hi, sorry, this thread was completely out of date since some weeks.

I don't have too much time now to go in details. But just as an update, I didn't need to spy her in that moment, so I decided to have that conversation directly with her.

She understood my kink and recognized she liked a lot the sex with that guy, so we agreed to study how to introduce that in our relationship.

There were lot of happenings since then, but I'm conclusion, she is dating him several days per month. I'm not allowed to stay there and she doesn't want to film. So it's a little bit frustrating for me in this moment.

Now we are starting to talk very open about her dates, and she feels more confident to explain me in detail what they are doing. But I know she is still keeping some details.

According to her, the sex is extremely good with this guy. He is a prototype of Alpha male, very dominant. She says she cums docens of times every session, and she is in love with the type of sex he does. But she says this doesn't change her feelings for me.

In this moment I'm trying to find a second bull for her that helps me to change this routine. Because the current bull is an asshole and will never let me share those moments with him.

That's one of the reasons I started to to think again about spying them. Because I feel I deserve to see what is happening there.
I assume you get lots of sloppy seconds, do you prove your love for her is unconditional by licking her hot messy pussy til she cums knowing that you know whose cum is up in her yearning happy pussy??
 
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Hi, sorry, this thread was completely out of date since some weeks.

I don't have too much time now to go in details. But just as an update, I didn't need to spy her in that moment, so I decided to have that conversation directly with her.

She understood my kink and recognized she liked a lot the sex with that guy, so we agreed to study how to introduce that in our relationship.

There were lot of happenings since then, but I'm conclusion, she is dating him several days per month. I'm not allowed to stay there and she doesn't want to film. So it's a little bit frustrating for me in this moment.

Now we are starting to talk very open about her dates, and she feels more confident to explain me in detail what they are doing. But I know she is still keeping some details.

According to her, the sex is extremely good with this guy. He is a prototype of Alpha male, very dominant. She says she cums docens of times every session, and she is in love with the type of sex he does. But she says this doesn't change her feelings for me.

In this moment I'm trying to find a second bull for her that helps me to change this routine. Because the current bull is an asshole and will never let me share those moments with him.

That's one of the reasons I started to to think again about spying them. Because I feel I deserve to see what is happening there.
leave her if she deprives you of the pleasure of watching and listening, if she doesn’t fuck with you, this will continue to be the case, nothing will change, believe me, my wife has been cheating on me for three years, at first everything was great, photos and videos and fucking every time after her betrayal, now there is nothing there, all that remains is disappointment and the desire to give up everything, but children and 22 years of marriage still hold me, I don’t know how long
 
Every sentence of your mesage is 100% right, I want all of that, I deeply want it. I have those sounds and moans in my mind and i can not delete it from my brain... And, as you said, I'm fucking aroused by the idea of listening her again in that porstar mode she was that day...

The only thing I cannot do is to talk to her directly. This is so frustrating!! I'm very scared about loosing her, but at the same time I want to please her, even if this comes from that fucking guy.

'The only thing I cannot do is to talk to her directly.
' Then write it down and hand it to her saying this is what I want to talk about. and go from there.
 
In another post I commented how I discovered how my GF fucked a hung guy. That was not cheating from her view, as we had a big argue and she broke up with me just some hours before she had sex with him.

After that, we solved our differences and now we have less sex than ever...'Im 29 and she is 27. Not having sex is not normal at our age...

I feel suspicious about her and I want to test that...

As I already commented in the previous post, now I feel a big turn on knowing my GF was fucked by a huge dick. I wank thinking on that... imagining her having great orgasms from him... something I can't do by myself.

I normally go every second week to visit my parents. Which takes me all the weekend there. And when I'm coming back home on Sunday I feel something happened. But I don't know if it is my dirty minds what makes me think those things...

I was thinking on installing some hidden cams at home.

Does anyone here recommend what to do??
Trust is everything, and if you do not trust her, you will finely brake down. Talk to her, and say how it is.
 
leave her if she deprives you of the pleasure of watching and listening, if she doesn’t fuck with you, this will continue to be the case, nothing will change, believe me, my wife has been cheating on me for three years, at first everything was great, photos and videos and fucking every time after her betrayal, now there is nothing there, all that remains is disappointment and the desire to give up everything, but children and 22 years of marriage still hold me, I don’t know how long
Thanks for your opinion mate.

I think it's just a matter of time. She is still very young (27) and she doesn't understand the dynamics of a cuckold relationship. I was ver anxious during the first weeks but now I'm much more relaxed.

I shared my advances with other husbands of this platform and they gave me very good advices by DM.

Now I'm still out of the funny side but doing some advances...

We went on holidays three weeks ago and she asked me directly to find a good bull during our days there.

I didn't participate in the sex but I was present in the same apartment, listening everything from the door. It was the most exciting moment since I started on this.

I'm sorry about your situation, but every woman and couple are different. I hope to detect it quickly if this is the same case for me.

Thanks for your advice.
 
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In another post I commented how I discovered how my GF fucked a hung guy. That was not cheating from her view, as we had a big argue and she broke up with me just some hours before she had sex with him.

After that, we solved our differences and now we have less sex than ever...'Im 29 and she is 27. Not having sex is not normal at our age...

I feel suspicious about her and I want to test that...

As I already commented in the previous post, now I feel a big turn on knowing my GF was fucked by a huge dick. I wank thinking on that... imagining her having great orgasms from him... something I can't do by myself.

I normally go every second week to visit my parents. Which takes me all the weekend there. And when I'm coming back home on Sunday I feel something happened. But I don't know if it is my dirty minds what makes me think those things...

I was thinking on installing some hidden cams at home.

Does anyone here recommend what to do??
Either you are a cuck and like it or get out and find another person…
 
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'The only thing I cannot do is to talk to her directly.
' Then write it down and hand it to her saying this is what I want to talk about. and go from there.
You are right man. This was my approach during the first step. Once the relationship with her bull was completely stablished and she felt more comfortable with taking about the sex with me. We spent hours during the weekend texting us after their sessions.

And now she is completely open with me about any detail I ask her. Sometimes I tell her she is taking to me like her bestie 😂 taking about all the nasty details 😂😂😂
 
Trust is everything, and if you do not trust her, you will finely brake down. Talk to her, and say how it is.
Yes, correct. And this is why I stopped with the idea of filming them. I installed a hidden cam on my living room and I took a vídeo od them, but sadly was not well focused, so everything was blurry.

But after doing that and seeing how our relationship was evolving, with the advice of other husbands, I decided to stop doing that.

If she'd discovered me, we'd have broken definitely.
 
What I mean is if she doesn't let you be there and enjoy, that's cheating, not cuckolding!

I still think she is a slut. There are lot of women like that, I'm not surprised at all.
I beg to differ if i may, historically cuckoldry means by definition that the wife is having an affair WITHOUT the husbands knowledge or consent so he is a cuckold.
I appreciate this has been changed in recent modern terms as people seek to make the term cuck into anything they wish.

My wife had two secret affairs in her early 20s and this is the time she actually truely made me her cuck husband, over the following years i have seen her with many lovers and also arranged times for her to fuck them when i wasnt present. Most men do not actually want a boyfriend or husband present as he fucks their gf or wife and its surprising how many men happy to fuck a women in secret get cold feel at the idea her husband or partner knows..

Incidently on the subject of titles in her 30s she met a man who said he couldnt do it with me there, she gave me the choice of us both leaving, so he offered to pay me for her time £300, so she became my whore. From this i sold her over many months to several men, none of whom i met, it wasnt for the money but the kink.

I so enjoyed her saying, "when we met i was a sweet untouched innocent 16 year old and now youve turned me into your whore". to which my reply was, "i was a nieve 21 year old normal bloke and you turned me into your cuck"

She even sent me a christmas card as usual to ### my lovely cuck but finished it this time with from #### your loving wife and whore, that stayed up and we so enjoyed having the family round with that card on display, now wouldnt they have been shocked if they had read it!.
 
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A few years ago I bought a motion detector security camera that was connect to my phone. The camera would start when it detected motion and then five minutes after the motion stops the camera would shut off and it would send me the video to my phone. Well, I was playing around with it when I got it, and I put it in our bedroom call my wife and we had sex. I went downstairs five minutes or so ding and I got to watch the video.. well fast forward a few days later and I was at work and my phone went off. There was a video and then I remembered the security camera. So I turned it on because everyone in my house should be gone. The kids would be at school. My wife would be at work and I’m at work. Well, the video starts, my wife walking into the bedroom in her work clothes. So I was about to shut off off because I just thought it was my wife walking in our bedroom. She got home from work. And then I heard her talk to someone but I couldn’t see that other person. And then her boss walked in. They started kissing , then her boss bent her over the bed, he flipped her dress up over her large ass, he pulled her panties down, he dropped his pants, and started her from behind as she screamed, harder harder, I saw as he fucked my wife from behind that he was playing with her tits as they swung back-and-forth with each thrust, they changed positions, and he laid on the bed as she rode his cock, at this point I shut my office door, told my secretary to hold all my calls, as I watch this porn on my phone, I took my cock out and was stroking it as I watch my wife fuck her Boss in our bed. I left the security camera in our bedroom after that she would fuck her boss twice a week, and she also brought another coworker over and fucked his brains out. And I’ve also watched her masturbate as she was. I’m sure texting someone. .. the security camera has been the greatest tool in my cuck life !!
 
I beg to differ if i may, historically cuckoldry means by definition that the wife is having an affair WITHOUT the husbands knowledge or consent so he is a cuckold.
I appreciate this has been changed in recent modern terms as people seek to make the term cuck into anything they wish.

My wife had two secret affairs in her early 20s and this is the time she actually truely made me her cuck husband, over the following years i have seen her with many lovers and also arranged times for her to fuck them when i wasnt present. Most men do not actually want a boyfriend or husband present as he fucks their gf or wife and its surprising how many men happy to fuck a women in secret get cold feel at the idea her husband or partner knows..

Incidently on the subject of titles in her 30s she met a man who said he couldnt do it with me there, she gave me the choice of us both leaving, so he offered to pay me for her time £300, so she became my whore. From this i sold her over many months to several men, none of whom i met, it wasnt for the money but the kink.

I so enjoyed her saying, "when we met i was a sweet untouched innocent 16 year old and now youve turned me into your whore". to which my reply was, "i was a nieve 21 year old normal bloke and you turned me into your cuck"

She even sent me a christmas card as usual to ### my lovely cuck but finished it this time with from #### your loving wife and whore, that stayed up and we so enjoyed having the family round with that card on display, now wouldnt they have been shocked if they had read it!.
Great story dude, and thanks for the other point of view.

I got your point about the historical perspective of the concept, but coming back to the 2020's, a woman who fuck without her husband consent, it's called a whore.

And that's cheating today.

Don't misunderstand me... I love women like this. I love to fuck wives on husband's back. But I'm a bull and I'm conceived for fucking as many woman I can in my life. While from the husband's perspective this can hurt him.
 
In another post I commented how I discovered how my GF fucked a hung guy. That was not cheating from her view, as we had a big argue and she broke up with me just some hours before she had sex with him.

After that, we solved our differences and now we have less sex than ever...'Im 29 and she is 27. Not having sex is not normal at our age...

I feel suspicious about her and I want to test that...

As I already commented in the previous post, now I feel a big turn on knowing my GF was fucked by a huge dick. I wank thinking on that... imagining her having great orgasms from him... something I can't do by myself.

I normally go every second week to visit my parents. Which takes me all the weekend there. And when I'm coming back home on Sunday I feel something happened. But I don't know if it is my dirty minds what makes me think those things...

I was thinking on installing some hidden cams at home.

Does anyone here recommend what to do??
Do the camera! It appeals to another of my (many) kinks: voyeur! Don't worry about her feelings. Just don't get caught and enjoy!
 
A few years ago I bought a motion detector security camera that was connect to my phone. The camera would start when it detected motion and then five minutes after the motion stops the camera would shut off and it would send me the video to my phone. Well, I was playing around with it when I got it, and I put it in our bedroom call my wife and we had sex. I went downstairs five minutes or so ding and I got to watch the video.. well fast forward a few days later and I was at work and my phone went off. There was a video and then I remembered the security camera. So I turned it on because everyone in my house should be gone. The kids would be at school. My wife would be at work and I’m at work. Well, the video starts, my wife walking into the bedroom in her work clothes. So I was about to shut off off because I just thought it was my wife walking in our bedroom. She got home from work. And then I heard her talk to someone but I couldn’t see that other person. And then her boss walked in. They started kissing , then her boss bent her over the bed, he flipped her dress up over her large ass, he pulled her panties down, he dropped his pants, and started her from behind as she screamed, harder harder, I saw as he fucked my wife from behind that he was playing with her tits as they swung back-and-forth with each thrust, they changed positions, and he laid on the bed as she rode his cock, at this point I shut my office door, told my secretary to hold all my calls, as I watch this porn on my phone, I took my cock out and was stroking it as I watch my wife fuck her Boss in our bed. I left the security camera in our bedroom after that she would fuck her boss twice a week, and she also brought another coworker over and fucked his brains out. And I’ve also watched her masturbate as she was. I’m sure texting someone. .. the security camera has been the greatest tool in my cuck life !!
Dude! You re my HERO! I am SO JEALOUS! Party ON!