I'm looking for some advice/perspective. I'm sure I'll hear a few "just do it" but I'm hoping for something a bit more in depth than that.
Here's the background. I've been bicurious since my college days. I never did anything about it. The wife and I have been together for almost 25 years and she's known about my curiosity since our early dating years. We've never done any swinging or cuckolding but it's usually part of our fantasy dirty talk in bed and definitely plays into our pegging sessions.
This past weekend after a few drinks we got onto the topic but this time was different because we weren't in bed. When we are going at it we're normally talking about having a guy fuck me while I'm fucking her. But in this conversation she said she wouldn't want to be there but is open to me exploring without her. She even suggested that I check out a gay bar and see what my reaction is in a real world scenario rather than just fantasy.
My question to the other bi guys here is what is the risk I'm not seeing here? Has anyone done this and how did it impact your relationship with your wife? While I've fantasized about this a lot, I'm worried that going through with it would change our dynamics even if she says she wants me to explore. I could really use some perspective from others that may have gone down this road.
Thanks!
Here's the background. I've been bicurious since my college days. I never did anything about it. The wife and I have been together for almost 25 years and she's known about my curiosity since our early dating years. We've never done any swinging or cuckolding but it's usually part of our fantasy dirty talk in bed and definitely plays into our pegging sessions.
This past weekend after a few drinks we got onto the topic but this time was different because we weren't in bed. When we are going at it we're normally talking about having a guy fuck me while I'm fucking her. But in this conversation she said she wouldn't want to be there but is open to me exploring without her. She even suggested that I check out a gay bar and see what my reaction is in a real world scenario rather than just fantasy.
My question to the other bi guys here is what is the risk I'm not seeing here? Has anyone done this and how did it impact your relationship with your wife? While I've fantasized about this a lot, I'm worried that going through with it would change our dynamics even if she says she wants me to explore. I could really use some perspective from others that may have gone down this road.
Thanks!