Advice on introducing cuckold dynamic to my girlfriend

[demas3332]

Hey everyone, looking for some advice from people with experience.
I’ve been interested in exploring a cuckold dynamic, and my girlfriend seems to have a bit of a playful side when it comes to attention and flirting. She’s funny, a little shy at first, but she does enjoy being desired and noticed by others.
We haven’t had a deep conversation about this yet, and I don’t want to approach it the wrong way or make her uncomfortable. I really care about her and want this to be something we both enjoy.
For those who’ve been through this:
How did you bring it up for the first time?
What made your partner feel safe and open to it?
Any mistakes I should avoid?
Just trying to learn the right way to communicate and see if this is something we could explore together

 

[Sharedwife16]

I would tell my wife how sexy she was as we did it, and it being no surprise that other men would love to fuck her.
At some point I went further and told her I'd be fine with her finding out, you get away with so much more in the heat of having sex!.

I then went on to playing games like having her point out men she fancied having sex with, disguised as just wanting to know more about how she thinks, but at the same time getting her to think about other men,whilst gradually making it clear that I'd like her to enjoy trying it with another man.

I would tell her I don't mind her having fun flirting, putting her at ease by saying it would be fun having her tell me when it happens.

If/when someone came along that I could see interested her ( you will see it even though she thinks your both just having fun sharing the flirting ),I'd home in on him, ask for me details, get her openly and comfortably talking about him.

The big question which would have been impossible before all this " would you ...... with him", becomes so easy to ask , and you had your reply ready from the outset " then why not just ...... with him"

You will get the shock and denial reaction , but your reply would be the same " it's up to you, but I'd like you to enjoy having fun with him".

You may get a period where she questions whether you love her and still fancy her, then you just have to convince her, tell her how much she means to you, and that this is only sex, nothing more .

I turned it around , telling her most men are jealous if not controlling, and I'm just not like that , wanting my wife to have more than most wives are allowed...genious! 🤣

Weve been married almost 30 years, I couldn't wish for a better wife. We are so happy,absolute soul mates,and yes , quite a few men have fucked her 👍😁

 

[Kogjin]

1st things 1st. Be very careful what you wish for.
Do you have iron strong relationship?
Are you able to honestly express emotions to each other?

How is the passion between you two?

Keep in mind, you girlfriend having a playful side does not mean she want other people. She might just need being playful together.

What I would suggest, 1st if you have some lacking in the relationship try to fix it between you two before bringing other people.
Do not use this as a way for you to .......with other girls.

This requires trust, strong bond and acceptance. Also, something very very very important. If you require control over what is happening and have a limit to what is ok and what not. State it in advance!!

 

[WifeBreeder]

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[Stevens4fun]

Hey everyone, looking for some advice from people with experience.
I’ve been interested in exploring a cuckold dynamic, and my girlfriend seems to have a bit of a playful side when it comes to attention and flirting. She’s funny, a little shy at first, but she does enjoy being desired and noticed by others.
We haven’t had a deep conversation about this yet, and I don’t want to approach it the wrong way or make her uncomfortable. I really care about her and want this to be something we both enjoy.
For those who’ve been through this:
How did you bring it up for the first time?
What made your partner feel safe and open to it?
Any mistakes I should avoid?
Just trying to learn the right way to communicate and see if this is something we could explore together

Assuming the two of you are communicating well and have a good relationship, your GF's "flirting" is a good thing in my view. If she's flirting with other men when she's with you, she wants you to notice. But don't assume she wants to fuck the guy she's flirting with. "Flirting" is a way the women in our lives can play with us, and take control from us, which is really what "cuckolding" is all about. It's a way of arousing us, or reminding us that she too has some power and control in the relationship. Go with it but don't pressure.

Example: you and your GF are driving back to your place after a party where it was apparent she liked a guy and was making it easy for him to talk to her and she went out of her way to be near him. As you were leaving, she hugged him, and held onto his hand in a way that made it clear she was interest3d in him. Maybe she gave him a kiss with eye contact.

You, looking at her with a sincere smile while driving home: "you really had Dave going tonight, I think he likes you. I thought it was pretty sexy, too."

Smart and strategic guy that you are, let her respond. It doesn't really matter what she says, as you have already put the idea into play....and you will soon learn a lot more about your relationship with your GF. And she'll learn more about your interests.....

Resist the urge to try and immediately close the deal. Play your best long game.

 

[Wantsomefunto]

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