I would appreciate any advice from the experts on this board, particularly any women.
My long time fantasy is to watch my wife with another man and then have sloppy seconds. We are in our late 40’s and we were both virgins when we met in college, so I am the only man she has ever been with. I’m afraid that may be a big deal for her.
Several years ago we woke up around the same time and I told her that I had a dream where she was having sex with another man and I watched. She asked if I was jealous and I told her no, in fact it really turned me on. We proceeded to have really hot sex and during it, I was really excited thinking that maybe she was into it! It was more intense than usual.
However as soon as we were finished she told me “you know that’s never going to happen right?” I was disappointed, but I let it drop.
Recently I bought her a rabbit vibrator on a lark. She knows I enjoy watching her masturbate and she will happily do that for me using her hand. She had never used a toy before. I showed her the vibrator and she was a little surprised but open to using it for me. We have proceeded to have her fuck the vibrator while taking me in her mouth.
Any thoughts on next steps to see if she is willing to move closer to being with another man? Do you think it’s a lost cause? I apologize for the long post and thank you for any suggestions!!!!
My long time fantasy is to watch my wife with another man and then have sloppy seconds. We are in our late 40’s and we were both virgins when we met in college, so I am the only man she has ever been with. I’m afraid that may be a big deal for her.
Several years ago we woke up around the same time and I told her that I had a dream where she was having sex with another man and I watched. She asked if I was jealous and I told her no, in fact it really turned me on. We proceeded to have really hot sex and during it, I was really excited thinking that maybe she was into it! It was more intense than usual.
However as soon as we were finished she told me “you know that’s never going to happen right?” I was disappointed, but I let it drop.
Recently I bought her a rabbit vibrator on a lark. She knows I enjoy watching her masturbate and she will happily do that for me using her hand. She had never used a toy before. I showed her the vibrator and she was a little surprised but open to using it for me. We have proceeded to have her fuck the vibrator while taking me in her mouth.
Any thoughts on next steps to see if she is willing to move closer to being with another man? Do you think it’s a lost cause? I apologize for the long post and thank you for any suggestions!!!!