My wife an I are on our second marriages, she is 52 and I am a couple of years younger. We've been married six years now, but both of us had married our first spouses when we were 19, so she had a 24 year marriage the first time and I had a 19 year marriage.
We believe we have a special connection, and have a lot of fun traveling and just living life (our kids are all grown and out of the house). Neither one of us had much sexual experience due to the fact we were married so young the first time. She has had 5 men counting me, and I am at six women counting her.
Naughty talk was always a part of our sex life from very nearly the beginning, and it started tame and eventually (maybe 18 months in), the idea of another guy entered the picture. I should point out it was my that led sex talk, she is more into listening and reacting.
Like the vast majority of couples I hear about, she was initially dead set against the idea, then loosened up over time, and then eventually we sort of moved on, with the idea only coming up here and there.
Recently she has been undergoing HRT due to menopause, and with that she has started to become constantly horny. The hotwife topic has entered our conversations again, and usually revolves around the fact that she is scared due to disease (she is a woman's health nurse and has seen a lot of bad stuff), and also the fact that just finding someone that she can trust because she is very distrustful. She would not want co-workers or her family to ever find out that she would do something like this, and she worries about stalkers or revenge acts.
Ok now to the point. This past weekend while we were driving, she broached the subject of whether I would go for the idea of this guy being her ex-boyfriend, the one she was dating just prior to her first marriage. I guess they had been together about a year and a half, which I believe would have made her something like 17.5 years old when they met. Apparantly he is the one person from her past that "hasn't let himself go" and that she believes is an "honest guy that is probably clean."
I guess they have had no relationship at all in something like 33 years, but recently he reached out on Facebook to see how she is doing, and that is what took her down this path.
Finally, she also asked, what if he is willing but only just the two of them? Initially my fantasies are about seeing her be pleased, and then partaking. I don't think this is the usual feeling, but with the lifestyle I imagine, I am not a sub or to be humilated or to be cheated on. It's a joint exercise in obtaining pleasure.
Anyone had a similar story, or other thoughts and/or opinions?
For those curious, my wife is extremely attractive and looks no where near 52 years old. We are runners and backpackers and have kept in great shape.
We believe we have a special connection, and have a lot of fun traveling and just living life (our kids are all grown and out of the house). Neither one of us had much sexual experience due to the fact we were married so young the first time. She has had 5 men counting me, and I am at six women counting her.
Naughty talk was always a part of our sex life from very nearly the beginning, and it started tame and eventually (maybe 18 months in), the idea of another guy entered the picture. I should point out it was my that led sex talk, she is more into listening and reacting.
Like the vast majority of couples I hear about, she was initially dead set against the idea, then loosened up over time, and then eventually we sort of moved on, with the idea only coming up here and there.
Recently she has been undergoing HRT due to menopause, and with that she has started to become constantly horny. The hotwife topic has entered our conversations again, and usually revolves around the fact that she is scared due to disease (she is a woman's health nurse and has seen a lot of bad stuff), and also the fact that just finding someone that she can trust because she is very distrustful. She would not want co-workers or her family to ever find out that she would do something like this, and she worries about stalkers or revenge acts.
Ok now to the point. This past weekend while we were driving, she broached the subject of whether I would go for the idea of this guy being her ex-boyfriend, the one she was dating just prior to her first marriage. I guess they had been together about a year and a half, which I believe would have made her something like 17.5 years old when they met. Apparantly he is the one person from her past that "hasn't let himself go" and that she believes is an "honest guy that is probably clean."
I guess they have had no relationship at all in something like 33 years, but recently he reached out on Facebook to see how she is doing, and that is what took her down this path.
Finally, she also asked, what if he is willing but only just the two of them? Initially my fantasies are about seeing her be pleased, and then partaking. I don't think this is the usual feeling, but with the lifestyle I imagine, I am not a sub or to be humilated or to be cheated on. It's a joint exercise in obtaining pleasure.
Anyone had a similar story, or other thoughts and/or opinions?
For those curious, my wife is extremely attractive and looks no where near 52 years old. We are runners and backpackers and have kept in great shape.
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