All fantasy aside,,, if your husband wants to have full on anal sex with a boyfriend of yours ( husband taking it ) what would your thoughts be???

[JMNBABE]

Despite the fantasies you read here of (mostly) gay guys posting stuff about "wives" loving them engaging in high risk potentially deadly sexual encounters with other men............VERY FEW women are interested in this on reality. FANTASY, some may play with it, especially oral fantasies, but beyond that this is the stuff of gay and bi guys here hoping to hook up wiht other guys and increase the cock count. Nothing more. The site has been taken over by them, no doubt......but that doesn't make it desirable or real, just more fantasies. J (the wife) corrected ALL my spelling errors.....

 

[gr852]

CCC has said she wants to watch me take a cock in my ass and I am ready, been wanting to try it.

 

[garmel]

Ok like I said fantasy aside,, please give answers without any fantasies, but real serious thoughts .

Wife has a boyfriend and he has a really nice size cock and he shoots a great amount of cum .

She knows I was bi when we first got together, and I did ask her if he would be ok with fucking me too .

He would be, she said but worried about her feelings watching me ( her husband) getting fucked by another man .

I want it , she knows I want it she even asked if her boyfriend would want it and he said yes ,,
So I asked her to set it up and she is being slow on it .

I'm not gonna push it cause I'd like to be able to enjoy it with her involved too so I wait .

Problem is I like that she has her sexual enjoyment, but wanting me to have my sexual enjoyment also but I'm stuck on her overthinking this .

She wants me to be the " Man " in her life , but she says she worried about me turning " full-gay " if this happens,
I love when she peggs me and it makes me cum like no other, and would like it to be REAL also .

She asked if I wanted it bare or condoms, my reply was the same as you with him .

That's when she said let me think about it.

I told her I'm NOT gonna turn Gay , it's just sexual pleasure, a feeling, like eating your favorite food, a good feeling, .
Not changing who I am, just enjoying the " Feeling " of sexual pleasure.

Please let me know without any of the fantasy talk , just real honest advice.

Thank you in advance

I would say that it's not so much as you getting a real penis inside you it's the fact that it's her boyfriend you asked about. She may see that as her being a third wheel in something she's been the main character of. You need to try to find a different man for the job. And she might would be more comfortable with that. I have the opposite problem I want to take a strap on to my husband and would love to watch him take one for real so I slowly been suggesting anal play and the idea of a shemale.

 

[jsaltydog]

Ok like I said fantasy aside,, please give answers without any fantasies, but real serious thoughts .

Wife has a boyfriend and he has a really nice size cock and he shoots a great amount of cum .

She knows I was bi when we first got together, and I did ask her if he would be ok with fucking me too .

He would be, she said but worried about her feelings watching me ( her husband) getting fucked by another man .

I want it , she knows I want it she even asked if her boyfriend would want it and he said yes ,,
So I asked her to set it up and she is being slow on it .

I'm not gonna push it cause I'd like to be able to enjoy it with her involved too so I wait .

Problem is I like that she has her sexual enjoyment, but wanting me to have my sexual enjoyment also but I'm stuck on her overthinking this .

She wants me to be the " Man " in her life , but she says she worried about me turning " full-gay " if this happens,
I love when she peggs me and it makes me cum like no other, and would like it to be REAL also .

She asked if I wanted it bare or condoms, my reply was the same as you with him .

That's when she said let me think about it.

I told her I'm NOT gonna turn Gay , it's just sexual pleasure, a feeling, like eating your favorite food, a good feeling, .
Not changing who I am, just enjoying the " Feeling " of sexual pleasure.

Please let me know without any of the fantasy talk , just real honest advice.

Thank you in advance

I don't think you and her should worry about turning gay or you not being the man in her life. All of these are just labels that distract people from who they are or want to be. I have know gay men who are masculine and real studs. They don't take disrespect from anyone. Sex with other men is just that: sex with men. It says nothing about you being the man in her life. Heck. She already has a BF, so she already has another man in her life.

 

[jsaltydog]

A number of years ago I had a one time encounter with another man. I sucked his cock to completion and later he fucked me and came inside me. It was a wonderful experience but for various reasons I never had the opportunity again.

Now I have E.D. and can no longer achieve adequate erections. I have thought about attempting to repeat that experience. I wonder what my wife would think. I also am curious/worried that it might be difficult to find someone who would be interested in an encounter with me at my age.

I welcome your thoughts and comments.

Marriage can be the big obstacle. If you were single, I am sure you would find the right situation. If you don't think your wife is ok with your play, then you will have to sneak around, which is a terrible situation. Sneaking around robs much of the enjoyment since your time is limited, you can only hook up at certain times, you can't fully explore your sexuality, etc. I am in such a situation. It stinks and I have finally just given up.

 

[nicebiguy]

Let me think about this
I've sucked my wife's lover's cock in front of her and along with her. She loved to peg me from time to time saying what a difference it was being the one doing the fucking instead of the one being fucked; being the one in control and in power.
If this happens, you would still be the "Man" in her life, unless her attitude towards you changes and somehow she feels that you are less of a man, or no longer a man.
Do I think you would turn "Full gay" (I assume that's her term) no, you would not. A person simply doesn't "Turn gay".
Do you and your wife enjoy a healthy sex life apart from her having a boyfriend? Is the boyfriend just there to add some extra spice to your sex life?
Let me say that there is no comparison to being pegged with your wife's strap-on and the feeling of a real cock sliding in you. There is a feeling of intimacy that is beyond belief when you take another human being inside of you. At least that's how it felt for me when it happened.
Feel free to PM me if you prefer.

I'm not too sure about you're statement "A person simply doesn't turn gay." I've heard of married men turning. I was always straight until I sucked my 1st cock. Don't think I'm gay but I sure am bi. Now I love cock as much as pussy.

 

[jsaltydog]

I'm not too sure about you're statement "A person simply doesn't turn gay." I've heard of married men turning. I was always straight until I sucked my 1st cock. Don't think I'm gay but I sure am bi. Now I love cock as much as pussy.

Similar with me. I never considered myself bisexual until I took the plunge later in life. Now, I love both men and women, although it is much easier to find fun with men.

 

[nicebiguy]

Similar with me. I never considered myself bisexual until I took the plunge later in life. Now, I love both men and women, although it is much easier to find fun with men.

It is, but sadly a good top is hard to find.

 

[jsaltydog]

It is, but sadly a good top is hard to find.

Yes, you got that right. I was actually quite surprised at that.

 

[Cruzan]

I don't think you and her should worry about turning gay or you not being the man in her life. All of these are just labels that distract people from who they are or want to be. I have know gay men who are masculine and real studs. They don't take disrespect from anyone. Sex with other men is just that: sex with men. It says nothing about you being the man in her life. Heck. She already has a BF, so she already has another man in her life.

I really do not understand her hesitancy. If she pegs you, and still views you as 'the man of the house', and has seen you sucking cock, then there is no reason for her to worry that you might turn fully gay. What she is worried about is not you turning gay. She is worried that you will leave her for a man. Her identity and security are identified in your marriage. She thinks you will like it so much, turn gay, and LEAVE her...abandoned. Reassure her of your love for her. Make her feel confident that nothing will come betqween you both in the marriage that she doesn't want. BUT, you are trusting her being with another man; she should trust you with another man as well.

 

[nicebiguy]

Yes, you got that right. I was actually quite surprised at that.

Especially when you're looking for more than a cock to suck.