Am I losing my girlfriend to my fantasy?

So first let me start off by saying me and my gf are (20) and have been together 5 years. I have a cuckold fantasy not anything humiliating I just love the idea of watching somebody pleasure her the way in a better way and seeing her reaction. Well I finally admitted to her what I wanted to see and she was not happy about it at all so I respected her decision. From here on out I started showing her porn while we have sex mostly of cuckold or just overall attractive guys fucking girls so she could maybe fantasize. Well the more I started doing it the more I started realizing how much it was turning her on, she would start cumming very quickly and have her eyes on the videos . So In my head I’m thinking this is a step closer to fulfilling when I desire so I start thinking about who I can get to fuck her. This part I’m about to tell u is really my fault and yes I’m very weird for it. Well I always felt a weird vibe between her and my older brother but nothing serious I just know her eyes when she finds somebody attractive but she is very respectful so with my sick mind I started thinking maybe I could get my brother to fuck my girl and that fantasy has overtaken me so one day I pretended like I left my phone opened before we started fucking “keep in mind that at this time I had been fucking her having my head to the side so she can’t see my face and she is able to fantasize. “ well I left it open on a picture of me and my older brothers and immediately I felt she noticed and she turned her head and kept it there , and started getting very turned on , not even 45 seconds and she orgasmed . That’s when I knew my fantasy would only get stronger just seeing how her body reacted to seeing pictures of my brothers , it’s like she started craving the forbidden fruit. Well fast forward more sessions like this and I end up getting a video of my brother fucking his girlfriend (yes I know that raises a lot of question and makes me very sick but I was hellbent on this fantasy and still am) well I started showing my girlfriend this while fucking but I would crop the video out so you can’t really see exactly who it is and one day she noticed. She saw the signature tattoos my brother has and his room because we watched his dog one day and immediately she was in daze and was cumming quickly. She would start turning towards the phone and I would stay on her side letting her get a better view but I wouldn’t let her know I was watching so I can see her genuine reaction. Now when we fuck and if I don’t put a video I just tell her stuff like “u want me to get him to come fuck u?” “ I can make it happen right now “ and she would love it but I never said his name or anything cause I knew that she knew who it was in the video. And now it’s just completely normal to have the video of my brother while we fuck and I’m starting to show more of his body. My question is what is happening to my girlfriend? I know this is my fault and I have no one else to blame but myself and my sick mind I’m just curious what other people think about it. Judge all u want I know I deserve it.
 
Yeah I was thinking the same thing maybe she’s starting to give in but I should probably stop with the brother thing.
If that's no what you want, you'd better stop it now. That train might have already left the station. Or, it could just be that she likes the fantasy and would never go through with it at all. I always caution guys to be VERY CAREFUL when getting a GIRLFRIEND involved in this. A girlfriend isn't a wife and can easily move along with another guy who turns her on more than you do. She may go for somebody who is a "normal" boyfriend and get away from the weird cuck fantasies.

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maybe what you don't realize is that if she fucks your brother & stays with you, she will be around him for the rest of your life.

holidays, family gatherings, birthday parties, there is no escaping him, & his presence.
 
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So first let me start off by saying me and my gf are (20) and have been together 5 years. I have a cuckold fantasy not anything humiliating I just love the idea of watching somebody pleasure her the way in a better way and seeing her reaction. Well I finally admitted to her what I wanted to see and she was not happy about it at all so I respected her decision. From here on out I started showing her porn while we have sex mostly of cuckold or just overall attractive guys fucking girls so she could maybe fantasize. Well the more I started doing it the more I started realizing how much it was turning her on, she would start cumming very quickly and have her eyes on the videos . So In my head I’m thinking this is a step closer to fulfilling when I desire so I start thinking about who I can get to fuck her. This part I’m about to tell u is really my fault and yes I’m very weird for it. Well I always felt a weird vibe between her and my older brother but nothing serious I just know her eyes when she finds somebody attractive but she is very respectful so with my sick mind I started thinking maybe I could get my brother to fuck my girl and that fantasy has overtaken me so one day I pretended like I left my phone opened before we started fucking “keep in mind that at this time I had been fucking her having my head to the side so she can’t see my face and she is able to fantasize. “ well I left it open on a picture of me and my older brothers and immediately I felt she noticed and she turned her head and kept it there , and started getting very turned on , not even 45 seconds and she orgasmed . That’s when I knew my fantasy would only get stronger just seeing how her body reacted to seeing pictures of my brothers , it’s like she started craving the forbidden fruit. Well fast forward more sessions like this and I end up getting a video of my brother fucking his girlfriend (yes I know that raises a lot of question and makes me very sick but I was hellbent on this fantasy and still am) well I started showing my girlfriend this while fucking but I would crop the video out so you can’t really see exactly who it is and one day she noticed. She saw the signature tattoos my brother has and his room because we watched his dog one day and immediately she was in daze and was cumming quickly. She would start turning towards the phone and I would stay on her side letting her get a better view but I wouldn’t let her know I was watching so I can see her genuine reaction. Now when we fuck and if I don’t put a video I just tell her stuff like “u want me to get him to come fuck u?” “ I can make it happen right now “ and she would love it but I never said his name or anything cause I knew that she knew who it was in the video. And now it’s just completely normal to have the video of my brother while we fuck and I’m starting to show more of his body. My question is what is happening to my girlfriend? I know this is my fault and I have no one else to blame but myself and my sick mind I’m just curious what other people think about it. Judge all u want I know I deserve it.
Start fucking her n say that shit again n keep fucking her asking her if wants to call ur brother so u can finish fucking her. My wife did this n I made get call. She freaked out n hesitated. N she called him and he answered. She said she's sorry but she needs his help n I'm away. He came over to find her naked. N she told him she desperately needs his dick that he should come inside n give it to her.



Wasn't the fantasy Wasn't that great. Who knows. Matter of fact she had a slight negative feeling towards him b lost attraction
 
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I suggest you and your girlfriend have some conversations, pillow talk, communicate with each other about sexual fantasies. Watch all kinds of kinky, freaky, porn, together. BBC, Bondage, sissy pegging, cuckold, explore and learn how to talk to each other about any and everything openly and without being judgmental. Then you can share your fantasy and let her share with you how she feels.

Guessing, being suggestive, all this deceptive or leading behavior, trying to subtly coerce her into doing what you dream about, well, you might be completely wrong and lose her or she might love the idea and want to cuck you.

It can be scary to put it out there but thats what you want in a good relationship. Great communication! Great intimacy and love. Right?
 
So first let me start off by saying me and my gf are (20) and have been together 5 years. I have a cuckold fantasy not anything humiliating I just love the idea of watching somebody pleasure her the way in a better way and seeing her reaction. Well I finally admitted to her what I wanted to see and she was not happy about it at all so I respected her decision. From here on out I started showing her porn while we have sex mostly of cuckold or just overall attractive guys fucking girls so she could maybe fantasize. Well the more I started doing it the more I started realizing how much it was turning her on, she would start cumming very quickly and have her eyes on the videos . So In my head I’m thinking this is a step closer to fulfilling when I desire so I start thinking about who I can get to fuck her. This part I’m about to tell u is really my fault and yes I’m very weird for it. Well I always felt a weird vibe between her and my older brother but nothing serious I just know her eyes when she finds somebody attractive but she is very respectful so with my sick mind I started thinking maybe I could get my brother to fuck my girl and that fantasy has overtaken me so one day I pretended like I left my phone opened before we started fucking “keep in mind that at this time I had been fucking her having my head to the side so she can’t see my face and she is able to fantasize. “ well I left it open on a picture of me and my older brothers and immediately I felt she noticed and she turned her head and kept it there , and started getting very turned on , not even 45 seconds and she orgasmed . That’s when I knew my fantasy would only get stronger just seeing how her body reacted to seeing pictures of my brothers , it’s like she started craving the forbidden fruit. Well fast forward more sessions like this and I end up getting a video of my brother fucking his girlfriend (yes I know that raises a lot of question and makes me very sick but I was hellbent on this fantasy and still am) well I started showing my girlfriend this while fucking but I would crop the video out so you can’t really see exactly who it is and one day she noticed. She saw the signature tattoos my brother has and his room because we watched his dog one day and immediately she was in daze and was cumming quickly. She would start turning towards the phone and I would stay on her side letting her get a better view but I wouldn’t let her know I was watching so I can see her genuine reaction. Now when we fuck and if I don’t put a video I just tell her stuff like “u want me to get him to come fuck u?” “ I can make it happen right now “ and she would love it but I never said his name or anything cause I knew that she knew who it was in the video. And now it’s just completely normal to have the video of my brother while we fuck and I’m starting to show more of his body. My question is what is happening to my girlfriend? I know this is my fault and I have no one else to blame but myself and my sick mind I’m just curious what other people think about it. Judge all u want I know I deserve it.
Any update?
 
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Sit with the girlfriend and have a true honest conversation with her. Expose your motives and reassure it's a fantasy you wish to make real.
You must be extremely persuasive to let her know you are willing to respect boundaries and that you are mature enough to shift focus to something more practical if needed.
Get prepared. Rehearse the conversation with the girlfriend on your mind, try to see the perspective of someone that finds your fetish repulsive and will have trouble even consider thinking about it. Try to understand and rebate every argument. Remember that feelings must not be hurt but the all experience must elevate your individual and collective pleasure to a higher level.
After you had this conversation with your brother's girlfriend (yes, she is a person of interest in this situation and her feelings must be protected) and analyzing her reaction, then you can move forward or backwards. Moving backwards doesn't mean you are retreating... Sometimes you need to step back to a solid ground to take balance and move forward with regain energy and focus.